Is it just as bad for a guy to have a body count?

[enlightful]

It depends on what kind of relationship it is


If its transactional where the guy provides security for the girl, his body count doesnt matter and if anything gives him an edge since he'll be better equipped to appease the girl (very shallow ik but in these kinds of relationships a huge emphasis is placed on the guy pleasing the girl and making her feel feminine).


Those relationships are fucking retarded and are for ugly cucks who couldn't get any foid attention off their subhuman face genes so they coped by using money to get the bitch


HOWEVER, when it comes to pure ltrs (which are very much ideal), where the foundation is pure love and respect, the males body count ABSOLUTELY matters as him having a past with other girls will limit his capacity to love and bond and respect the current girl he is with


Tldr; if the guys bringing security to the table it doesn't matter

If its a pure ltr built off pure attraction then it does

 

[Soter]

This may be true to some extent but it doesn't erode the capacity to love and bond in the same way it does to girls. I'm too lazy to go in detail and provide arguments but let me know if what I said is not self-evident.

What is much more important than this nebulous quality of pair bonding potential is experience. Experience in dealing with her emotions, her bullshit and your own insecurities. LTRs test you and reveal things about yourself and your limitations. Having experience literally makes you into a better partner.

But it is true that having a past can stir up jealousy and insecurity from girls although they care much less than us regarding their past.

 

[enlightful]

This may be true to some extent but it doesn't erode the capacity to love and bond in the same way it does to girls. I'm too lazy to go in detail and provide arguments but let me know if what I said is not self-evident.

What is much more important than this nebulous quality of pair bonding potential is experience. Experience in dealing with her emotions, her bullshit and your own insecurities. LTRs test you and reveal things about yourself and your limitations. Having experience literally makes you into a better partner.

But it is true that having a past can stir up jealousy and insecurity from girls although they care much less than us regarding their past.

If u can go into detail how its different for guys in terms of pair bonding id love to hear it

 

[Claymoreboy0118]

No, guys can do whatever they like.

 

[enlightful]

No, guys can do whatever they like.

Could u go in depth?

I want to believe this but I struggle with doing so