Is it possible to build character so strong that no women not even oneitis can break you? Anyone had success with this? Or is it a cope?

LocalDanger

LocalDanger

Master
Joined
Feb 18, 2021
Posts
1,681
Reputation
1,797
Can you build yourself up and be so confident and in love with your self you values your character that no girl can break you? Can you overdrive biology in that particular way

Let's say that you have once in a lifetime chance with a girl you know for sure you will never have again and you fail. Can you be so strong as to not be affected in a major way after that. And still enjoy living as much as before.

Or will girls and oneitis always crush you and everything else is a cope? Any expirences opinions?
 
  • +1
  • JFL
Reactions: Deleted member 761, isis_Bleach and stuckneworleans
Can you build yourself up and be so confident and in love with your self you values your character that no girl can break you? Can you overdrive biology in that particular way

Let's say that you have once in a lifetime chance with a girl you know for sure you will never have again and you fail. Can you be so strong as to not be affected in a major way after that. And still enjoy living as much as before.

Or will girls and oneitis always crush you and everything else is a cope? Any expirences opinions?
The moment you reach a certain looks level and start getting attention and affection from more than one above-average looking girl, your beta tendencies( oneitis, being heartbroke after rejection/break-up) will slowly die off- why would you care so much about this one particular girl who you think is "special :soy:" when there's a few more girls with the same looks and personality, if not better, in your DM's. Improve yourself in all three major ways (LMS) and you'll understand what I'm talking about.
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 761, Acromegaly_Chad, Deleted member 10615 and 2 others
The moment you reach a certain looks level and start getting attention and affection from more than one above-average looking girl, your beta tendencies( oneitis, being heartbroke after rejection/break-up) will slowly die off- why would you care so much about this one particular girl who you think is "special :soy:" when there's a few more girls with the same looks and personality, if not better, in your DM's. Improve yourself in all three major ways (LMS) and you'll understand what I'm talking about.
But why slayers like Justin Biber still get heartbroken over oneitis?

It seems even slayers on here seem unhappy with slaying.

Oneitis happens to even the best
 
The moment you reach a certain looks level and start getting attention and affection from more than one above-average looking girl, your beta tendencies( oneitis, being heartbroke after rejection/break-up) will slowly die off- why would you care so much about this one particular girl who you think is "special :soy:" when there's a few more girls with the same looks and personality, if not better, in your DM's. Improve yourself in all three major ways (LMS) and you'll understand what I'm talking about.
this happend to you? @Amnesia
 
  • +1
Reactions: StacyRepellent, cornerd nerd, Acromegaly_Chad and 2 others
i stopped beta tendencies bc i learned all women are whores and blackpill shit from this site not as much from IRL experiences
Yeah but still you probably would take virgin jb that can commit and develop oneitis if you knew she wouldn't cheat instead of slay even hot but random girls
 
Can you build yourself up and be so confident and in love with your self you values your character that no girl can break you? Can you overdrive biology in that particular way

Let's say that you have once in a lifetime chance with a girl you know for sure you will never have again and you fail. Can you be so strong as to not be affected in a major way after that. And still enjoy living as much as before.

Or will girls and oneitis always crush you and everything else is a cope? Any expirences opinions?
Oneitis crushed you by definition bro. But having girls reject you that you don’t care about anyways ... I don’t see the issue. Let’s say Lima rejects me. Whatever. But yeah. Whatever you do, if you are oneitis infected you are done for. I wonder why I got infected.
 
Can you build yourself up and be so confident and in love with your self you values your character that no girl can break you? Can you overdrive biology in that particular way

Let's say that you have once in a lifetime chance with a girl you know for sure you will never have again and you fail. Can you be so strong as to not be affected in a major way after that. And still enjoy living as much as before.

Or will girls and oneitis always crush you and everything else is a cope? Any expirences opinions?
a oneitis implies you are emotionally attached, if you have a oneitis in the first place you have already failed with what you're saying you want to do
maybe once you're intimate or in a ltr its okay to be emotionally attached so you aren't a retarded partner
but a random girl you dont talk to jfl, be real with yourself
 
  • +1
Reactions: Acromegaly_Chad
a oneitis implies you are emotionally attached, if you have a oneitis in the first place you have already failed with what you're saying you want to do
maybe once you're intimate or in a ltr its okay to be emotionally attached so you aren't a retarded partner
but a random girl you dont talk to jfl, be real with yourself
What is missing then?

What is this hole. I'm attached to person I don't even know beyond words like wanting to kill myself over them
 
  • Hmm...
Reactions: Deleted member 761
yes you can but I may be a lot harder earned than you're willing to go through.
 
life is an eternal struggle and there is no escape
 
What is missing then?

What is this hole. I'm attached to person I don't even know beyond words like wanting to kill myself over them
you probably want a genuine connection like any other person
i feel the same man :(
all i can say is, ntmax and start living your life and hopefully you will come across someone that finds you interesting, women aren't gonna be able to take up all the male models, so develop yourself
 
Yes its Possible.
 
You don't have a strong character if you have a oneitis
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 761

Similar threads

Doesitmatter?
Replies
28
Views
523
aids
aids
asdvek
Replies
19
Views
293
CorinthianLOX
CorinthianLOX
Zeekie
Replies
73
Views
5K
vrillionaire ice
vrillionaire ice
enchanted_elixir
Replies
36
Views
1K
Davud.isbarxanli.04
D

Users who are viewing this thread

Back
Top