Is it possible to find a gf on dating apps?

[Abomination52]

or is it solely hookups? I don't get people that say that. Why would women on Tinder be different from IRL women? Surely there's some gems in that sea of shit, right?

 

[OverCoper]

Yes, it's possible. Next question.

 

[Abomination52]

Yes, it's possible. Next question.

Tinder is my only chance at getting a gf. That and bars/ clubs but it's basically the same shit. I have nowhere else to talk to women.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Wouldn't expect a "gem" on tinder lad

Virgins girls don't go on tinder unless they're butt ugly

 

[Abomination52]

Wouldn't expect a "gem" on tinder lad

Virgins girls don't go on tinder unless they're butt ugly

virgin girls almost don't exist past early high school. That ship has sailed a long time ago and I accept it.

 

[OverCoper]

Tinder is my only chance at getting a gf. That and bars/ clubs but it's basically the same shit. I have nowhere else to talk to women.

Take youga-, crossfit-, photo-, acting-, language- and other classes, there are a lot of women of different types and ages.

 

[Abomination52]

Take youga-, crossfit-, photo-, acting-, language- and other classes, there are a lot of women of different types and ages.

Don't even know if that shit exists in my small city.

 

[Skywalker]

Tinder is my only chance at getting a gf. That and bars/ clubs but it's basically the same shit. I have nowhere else to talk to women.

none of these are optimal for "a gf" lol- change your way of thinking

 

[Abomination52]

none of these are optimal for "a gf" lol- change your way of thinking

There’s nowhere else to meet women

 

[Skywalker]

There’s nowhere else to meet women

age and location? possibly batter to just geomaxx, depending on your situation

 

[Deleted member 15164]

no

 

[try2beme]

No
No
And No
Dating apps are hookup ONLY

 

[try2beme]

Improve your social circle to find a girl or get cucked by a dating app slut

 

[Saint Casanova]

For HTNs+ with great photos, yes why not.

 

[Deleted member 19567]

Wrote about this earlier but simple answer is no.

Women on OLD apps are Hypergamous. This requires prerequisite information to understand. First, women and men are not living the same in todays society. So when you think irl is the same as OLD, your comparing your experience as a man, to what a woman is experiencing, and its wrong.

See, women get significantly more attention and such than men. Generally. There a lot of reasons for this such as laws that favor women and destroy men, explotations of men, social and socioeconomic agendas and consequences etc. + and all of this feminism and lookism and programming influence shit in todays time.

To put it simply without having to explain all the whys, a woman does not need to go online to look for mates. She has a steady pool irl, so why would she go online? Understand hypergamy.

So yea, your going to either find someone significantly below your looksmatch AND/or a wolf in sheeps clothing. This is why IRL is way better for looking for mates (although i don’t recommend doing any activities like finding a girlfriend in general in todays time).

 

[Deleted member 21735]

all i found on dating apps was girls who were looking for an excuse to go out but then again im deformed

 

[czwarty]

Around 65% of relationships start from online dating these days. So yes it is possible. The problem is just it's a fucking exhausting chore for a man. You'll have to deal with swiping for days, no replies, ghosting, flaking, women stopping replying to you because someone mogging you by 0.2 decile points messaged her, and then on top of that Tinder cutting your reach to force you to buy premium. It's just a question whether it's worth it to you, because it can and will take toll on your psyche

 

[Brownskink]

or is it solely hookups? I don't get people that say that. Why would women on Tinder be different from IRL women? Surely there's some gems in that sea of shit, right?

Also Have u ever considered omegle/ometv,i watched many youtubers can get gfs on there

 

[Skywalker]

Wrote about this earlier but simple answer is no.

Women on OLD apps are Hypergamous. This requires prerequisite information to understand. First, women and men are not living the same in todays society. So when you think irl is the same as OLD, your comparing your experience as a man, to what a woman is experiencing, and its wrong.

See, women get significantly more attention and such than men. Generally. There a lot of reasons for this such as laws that favor women and destroy men, explotations of men, social and socioeconomic agendas and consequences etc. + and all of this feminism and lookism and programming influence shit in todays time.

To put it simply without having to explain all the whys, a woman does not need to go online to look for mates. She has a steady pool irl, so why would she go online? Understand hypergamy.

So yea, your going to either find someone significantly below your looksmatch AND/or a wolf in sheeps clothing. This is why IRL is way better for looking for mates (although i don’t recommend doing any activities like finding a girlfriend in general in todays time).

saved under best
thank you

 

[Gonthar]

or is it solely hookups? I don't get people that say that. Why would women on Tinder be different from IRL women? Surely there's some gems in that sea of shit, right?

Yes, I've found a girlfriend after messaging and chatting with over 200 girls on a dating site, but that was in the early days of online dating when it was much easier and women weren't quite aware of their value. I've noticed that the more time they would spend on that site, the more picky and entitled they became and would constantly reject tons of guys waiting for the perfect one to appear.
The trick was basically to find a girl that just joined that site, wasn't exposed too to much male attention, date her, seduce her and hope that she won't revisit the site and look for someone better. If she was already there for several months without finding anyone, it was very likely she wasn't serious about relationships or simply waiting for GigaChad.

 

[Deleted member 30323]

Also Have u ever considered omegle/ometv,i watched many youtubers can get gfs on there

no

 

[Deleted member 16501]

yes as long as youre fine with sucking the cum of another man out of her pussy every sunday morning

 

[Tusseleif]

Women on dating apps are flakey bipolar bitches who will eventually ghost you even if they show interest at first

 

[Skywalker]

the more picky and entitled they became and would constantly reject tons of guys waiting for the perfect one to appear.

and ppl still believe the "women are on average smarter than men " bs

 

[oldnick]

or is it solely hookups? I don't get people that say that. Why would women on Tinder be different from IRL women? Surely there's some gems in that sea of shit, right?

I met my fiancée on tinder in 2020
A female friend of hers found a boyfriend online last year and still together
We know a good girl who is still looking there