Is it possible to learn how to talk to people as a 27 year old lifelong incel?

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There are kids literally half my age here who have more experience with women than me. I’m not getting any younger. I need to get an 18 year old gf by any means necessary.

Genuine question, how can I learn to speak to women without panicking and feeling like I’m about to cry? What should I do to practice?
 
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how willing are you. what do you have left to lose
 
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There are kids literally half my age here who have more experience with women than me. I’m not getting any younger. I need to get an 18 year old gf by any means necessary.

Genuine question, how can I learn to speak to women without panicking and feeling like I’m about to cry? What should I do to practice?
not without roids no
 
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hermano..
 
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how willing are you. what do you have left to lose
I’m getting extremely desperate at this point. Typing this out while i’m in the middle of a bathroom goon sesh due to sexual frustration
 
It’s fucking over. I’m a little younger but I’ve already accepted my fate
 
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I’m getting extremely desperate at this point. Typing this out while i’m in the middle of a bathroom goon sesh due to sexual frustration
there’s two routes you can take here

Route A, the degen method:
i want you to go to the club as much as humanly possible, get consistently shitfaced and talk to every woman you see without getting kicked out by the bouncer, remember the object here isn’t to get these women but to learn to speak to them better, as you improve your ability to talk to them drunk i want you to slowly ween off the alcohol until eventually you are sober talking to these drunk women, once you’ve essentially mastered this (the idea of opening a convo, holding it for a few minutes and then being the one to close it) then you need to start speaking to them to try and get their numbers, you said yourself you wanted an 18 year old which may be difficult in the club depending on your country but if your country has them then you go ahead and try get numbers instagrams etc, one thing to note is that i would not advise going home/taking them home with you on the same day cause a nigga doesn’t want a rape charge
 
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Route B, the sugardaddy:
this one speaks for itself if you have the disposable income then find yourself an 18 year old sugar baby to mess around with
 
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ascend
 
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Route B, the sugardaddy:
this one speaks for itself if you have the disposable income then find yourself an 18 year old sugar baby to mess around with
considered this before honestly. Don’t exactly have the money now, but might in the near future

there’s two routes you can take here

Route A, the degen method:
i want you to go to the club as much as humanly possible, get consistently shitfaced and talk to every woman you see without getting kicked out by the bouncer, remember the object here isn’t to get these women but to learn to speak to them better, as you improve your ability to talk to them drunk i want you to slowly ween off the alcohol until eventually you are sober talking to these drunk women, once you’ve essentially mastered this (the idea of opening a convo, holding it for a few minutes and then being the one to close it) then you need to start speaking to them to try and get their numbers, you said yourself you wanted an 18 year old which may be difficult in the club depending on your country but if your country has them then you go ahead and try get numbers instagrams etc, one thing to note is that i would not advise going home/taking them home with you on the same day cause a nigga doesn’t want a rape charge
may just try this for now. it feels so pathetic to be this terrified of women at this age
 
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Already done 60+ times, not kidding. It isn’t the same though
Just go to bars and clubs, talk to random women, and you will gain more experience along the way

(Ive never done this and Im already 20 :feelswhy:)
 
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