Is it too late to change my life around?

[maxilofailo]

Please serious replies, won’t be long
I turn 19 in one week and my life is shit, been this way since 2019
I’m obese (69cm 200lbs), extremely insecure, socially awkward, have no friends
On top of this
I’m at a school I don’t like, which I’m paying a lot for, and have had to retake a class I still might fail, and am currently behind
I’m low iq, lazy, procrastinator, disorganized, and prob have adhd
I don’t have any significant memories from high school, and have failed to replicate / make up for them in college
All these things, plus I’m broke, makes me want to rope ——- I’m being serious. I’m at my wits end, and tbh I don’t know why I continue to wake up every morning.
All my problems can be solved with money but making money is impossible, which makes it suck even more.
I have zero talents, and not one thing I like about myself. Not a thing. Not one.
Is it too late for me? Or can I do something? Please someone help serious replies only.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

You can get another job, how about that?

 

[<6PSLcel]

damn you short nigga

 

[Eduardo DOV]

no its not, change your life, start grinding everyday

 

[Ricky212]

169cm ?

 

[maxilofailo]

169cm ?

That’s what I meant

 

[maxilofailo]

no its not, change your life, start grinding everyday

By doing what

 

[Ricky212]

By doing what

Get in the gym and get a job

 

[maxilofailo]

Get in the gym and get a job

Nigga I have a job already still life is shit

 

[wsada]

Nigga I have a job already still life is shit

Get a different job and go to the gym and get some friends

 

[Ricky212]

Nigga I have a job already still life is shit

It’s over

 

[BlackpilledPlatypus]

Not even close to over at only 19. It’s easy to think it is because this forum is full of teenagers, but the regret will build the longer you rot.

Get your ass in the gym obviously, but also take advantage of all the social opportunity at college, there’s so much of it and you’re only there for a few years. You don’t need to be GL to be a dude that’s fun to be around. Not saying this will get you girls whilst fat, but “levelling up” your social skills is important and will help with jobs and dating or slaying in the future, as well as just making life more fulfilling by having friends. Do a sport, ideally something NT if your ultimate goal is to have a normie social circle, join other clubs and go to every social event you can. This is coming from someone who fell for the introversion meme in the past, using it to justify inaction. Obviously introversion is real, but it doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy socialising and improve at it.

Most college students are broke anyway. It’s not realistic for you to earn lots of money at this stage of your life, so don’t think of that as the only solution, because then you will fail.

Also just fucking turn your phone off all day when you need to study, use cold turkey on PC to block shit.

 

[fukmylyf]

at 19 u should be planning retirement. The good times are over bud. Time to wageslave and settle down with roastie

 

[Azonin]

its too late at 19 you shouldve had kids at 16, retired at 17 and plan inheritance at 18

 

[Deleted member 50720]

Please serious replies, won’t be long
I turn 19 in one week and my life is shit, been this way since 2019
I’m obese (69cm 200lbs), extremely insecure, socially awkward, have no friends
On top of this
I’m at a school I don’t like, which I’m paying a lot for, and have had to retake a class I still might fail, and am currently behind
I’m low iq, lazy, procrastinator, disorganized, and prob have adhd
I don’t have any significant memories from high school, and have failed to replicate / make up for them in college
All these things, plus I’m broke, makes me want to rope ——- I’m being serious. I’m at my wits end, and tbh I don’t know why I continue to wake up every morning.
All my problems can be solved with money but making money is impossible, which makes it suck even more.
I have zero talents, and not one thing I like about myself. Not a thing. Not one.
Is it too late for me? Or can I do something? Please someone help serious replies only.

at this point if all of this is true, you should just enlist because it is over by every metric.

 

[HumidVent]

It's not over for you.
First thing you need to do is lower your bf%, once you've done that then you can look into surgeries if necessary, most likely after you graduate and get a real job.
Next thing is to find a group of friends, any friends that will take you. You need to form bonds and create lasting friendships and these usually happen in university.
You don't necessarily need good grades, you just need to pass..I had shit grades in school and I'm extremely low IQ and lazy like you and I still managed to graduate and eventually get a good job.

Once you graduate, and get a better paying job, you will have more opportunities to cope. With escorts and other hobbies.

If you are on this forum I assume you are ugly, and for ugly guys we don't have the same experience early in life compared to the normal guys. Just want to let you know that what you are going through is shared by many other people.

 

[strawberrymushroom]

Please serious replies, won’t be long
I turn 19 in one week and my life is shit, been this way since 2019
I’m obese (69cm 200lbs), extremely insecure, socially awkward, have no friends
On top of this
I’m at a school I don’t like, which I’m paying a lot for, and have had to retake a class I still might fail, and am currently behind
I’m low iq, lazy, procrastinator, disorganized, and prob have adhd
I don’t have any significant memories from high school, and have failed to replicate / make up for them in college
All these things, plus I’m broke, makes me want to rope ——- I’m being serious. I’m at my wits end, and tbh I don’t know why I continue to wake up every morning.
All my problems can be solved with money but making money is impossible, which makes it suck even more.
I have zero talents, and not one thing I like about myself. Not a thing. Not one.
Is it too late for me? Or can I do something? Please someone help serious replies only.

Honestly just get on tren and starve rq

 

[romanstock]

Fatcels are volcels. Lose the weight for fucks sake. You don't get to complain when ur sabotaging urself.

 

[Pikabro]

Honestly brocel I had a similar mental breakdown over wasted time and now I've realised now that all I've accomplished is setting myself back another year jfl. So you might as well just work on yourself. There's no point in giving up or being apathetic, you're just going to waste more time and stress yourself out more. And it's better to try then fail than just rot or kys.

 

[Kastor2077]

Take an actual IQ test, the result might surprise you.
What do you attend?
Cos if its a nice one it probably has a campus tutor or psychiatrist or something. They could help you free of charge.

Also, I have some books that really helped me overcome anxiety and loneliness, do you want me to fax them to you? They're really good I swear.

 

[goobermaxxing17]

Please serious replies, won’t be long
I turn 19 in one week and my life is shit, been this way since 2019
I’m obese (69cm 200lbs), extremely insecure, socially awkward, have no friends
On top of this
I’m at a school I don’t like, which I’m paying a lot for, and have had to retake a class I still might fail, and am currently behind
I’m low iq, lazy, procrastinator, disorganized, and prob have adhd
I don’t have any significant memories from high school, and have failed to replicate / make up for them in college
All these things, plus I’m broke, makes me want to rope ——- I’m being serious. I’m at my wits end, and tbh I don’t know why I continue to wake up every morning.
All my problems can be solved with money but making money is impossible, which makes it suck even more.
I have zero talents, and not one thing I like about myself. Not a thing. Not one.
Is it too late for me? Or can I do something? Please someone help serious replies only.

Your already on here it’s over

 

[MongolTurk]

I’m obese (69cm 200lbs), extremely insecure, socially awkward, have no friends

I assume you mean 169cm, which isn't that bad, your body composition is probably salvageable. having no friends isn't the end of the world, neither is being socially awkward. Don't get it in your head that you need to have an expansive social circle to be happy. Get fit, fix the school/career path issue, and then happiness will be all about perspective(sounds like bluepill cope but it's true). Your insecurity will be fixed by doing those things and so will you social awkwardness, no need to rope, you're 19, basically a fifth of the way through life, it's pointless to give up so soon