Is kissing really that hard? Failed to kiss again

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I had another chance to kiss a female today but got nervous and left. We were walking around the park and she told me she likes it when guys dont ask if they can go for a kiss and just do it. After this she stared at me for a while. I got extremely nervous and we walked in silence for a few minutes then I told her I had to go. Before I left she stared at me some more, I did nothing so she gave me a tight hug. My chance with her is most likely over now.

I have no interest in LTRing this girl (non-virgin) so I shouldnt be nervous but I still am. I have no idea how to kiss, it looks so complicated.

If I did go for a kiss I would probably be just like this guy:

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Is kissing really that complicated or does it come naturally once you do it? Is there any way to practice?
 
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she told me she likes it when guys dont ask if they can go for a kiss and just do it.
Every girl is like this. Obviously you have to be attractive in the girl's eyes tho.
 
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Every girl is like this. Obviously you have to be attractive in the girl's eyes tho.
I think she said it just to let me know she wanted me to kiss her. A girl will pretty much have to rape me for me to lose my virginity. If prostition was legal here I would go ASAP.
 
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It's Just not for you
 
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I think she said it just to let me know she wanted me to kiss her. A girl will pretty much have to rape me for me to lose my virginity.
Yeah. Why you didnt kiss her
 
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Yeah. Why you didnt kiss her
I dont know how. Where do you aim? Which way do you turn your head? What do you do once your lips touch hers? Where do you put your hands?
 
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I dont know how. Where do you aim? What do you do once your lips touch hers? Where do you put your hands?
go with the flow
 
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Yeah, it's supposed to be intuitive. You just go for it, and she'll either go with it or not, no big deal
 
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whats ur psl? Seem giga mentalcel, better than incel ofc
 
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Once a girl asked me if I wanted to kiss her. I said yeah. She said well kiss me then, I don't have to tell you to kiss me.
 
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Once a girl asked me if I wanted to kiss her. I said yeah. She said well kiss me then, I don't have to tell you to kiss me.
I could tell she wanted me to I just dont know how to actually do it
 
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I could tell she wanted me to I just dont know how to actually do it
Just do it. Regretting not kissing her is bigger regret than kissing her badly
 
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I dont know how. Where do you aim? Which way do you turn your head? What do you do once your lips touch hers? Where do you put your hands?
Watch a youtube video
 
Watch a youtube video
They all say something different and they dont explain enough. Kissing makes no sense to me. Which lip do you go for? What do you do with your lips once they touch? Do you use tongue? How do you use tongue?
 
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They all say something different and they dont explain enough. Kissing makes no sense to me. Which lip do you go for? What do you do with your lips once they touch? Do you use tongue? How do you use tongue?
Man I don't like you. You are an annoying bitch
 
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Just do it. Regretting not kissing her is bigger regret than kissing her badly
I had just broken my nofap streak. Ill go on 4-5 days nofap and try again. Ill also drink some alchohol right before.

I think I have Philemaphobia, or philematophobia, the fear of kissing. Im gonna ask her out one more time and go for it. If it goes bad ill ghost. Going for a kiss feels like forcing myself to jump off a bridge.
 
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I had just broken my nofap streak. Ill go on 4-5 days nofap and try again. Ill also drink some alchohol right before.

I think I have Philemaphobia, or philematophobia, the fear of kissing. Im gonna ask her out one more time and go for it. If it goes bad ill ghost. Going for a kiss feels like forcing myself to jump off a bridge.
Does no tapping make you more social
 
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Just close your eyes and do the deed.
 
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Then why no fap
You think it will make it worse? I was on only 1 day nofap today and failed, maybe being on a higher streak will help make me more high-T and low-inhibition.
 
You think it will make it worse? I was on only 1 day nofap today and failed, maybe being on a higher streak will help make me more high-T and low-inhibition.
I don't think it will make it worse.
Some say it makes them more social
 
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you are the most legendary poster
 
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you are the most legendary poster
Bro I like him but he’s starting to piss me off with how much of a cuck he is…this motherfucker the type of nigga to try put it in the urethra hole instead pussy when he first gets laid

Boy’s scared to even kiss a girl so might be another decade before he sees a pussy tho. He just takes out all those girls to eat then goes home to fap
 
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I dont know how. Where do you aim? Which way do you turn your head? What do you do once your lips touch hers? Where do you put your hands?
Just noscope it bro
 
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Bro I like him but he’s starting to piss me off with how much of a cuck he is…this motherfucker the type of nigga to try put it in the urethra hole instead pussy when he first gets laid

Boy’s scared to even kiss a girl so might be another decade before he sees a pussy tho. He just takes out all those girls to eat then goes home to fap
I wont make any more threads like this until I actually kiss a girl.

This video explains it best from what ive seen so far
 
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I had another chance to kiss a female today but got nervous and left. We were walking around the park and she told me she likes it when guys dont ask if they can go for a kiss and just do it. After this she stared at me for a while. I got extremely nervous and we walked in silence for a few minutes then I told her I had to go. Before I left she stared at me some more, I did nothing so she gave me a tight hug. My chance with her is most likely over now.

I have no interest in LTRing this girl (non-virgin) so I shouldnt be nervous but I still am. I have no idea how to kiss, it looks so complicated.

If I did go for a kiss I would probably be just like this guy:

love-at-first-cringe-josh.gif


Is kissing really that complicated or does it come naturally once you do it? Is there any way to practice?

i didnt know how even until like a year ago, i got with a milf who told me i dont know how to kiss, so she showed me how to.
Just say you never kissed like that or something.
 
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What if he ends up kissing her tits instead, because he couldn't see?
Unless he's a Manlet i doubt that he's 6'1 so most women will be shorter than him. Maybe he accidentally ends up kissing on the forehead.
 
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Unless he's a Manlet i doubt that he's 6'1 so most women will be shorter than him. Maybe he accidentally ends up kissing on the forehead.
Yeah I heightmog her by 7 inches. Every girl ive met up with has commented on my height. Lol at guys on this forum saying anything sub 6'3" is manlet.
 
NoFap, meditation, Ashwagandha, GABA, theanine, yoga, cialis.

Realize you NEED to lose your V Card.
 
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I had another chance to kiss a female today but got nervous and left. We were walking around the park and she told me she likes it when guys dont ask if they can go for a kiss and just do it. After this she stared at me for a while. I got extremely nervous and we walked in silence for a few minutes then I told her I had to go. Before I left she stared at me some more, I did nothing so she gave me a tight hug. My chance with her is most likely over now.

I have no interest in LTRing this girl (non-virgin) so I shouldnt be nervous but I still am. I have no idea how to kiss, it looks so complicated.

If I did go for a kiss I would probably be just like this guy:

love-at-first-cringe-josh.gif


Is kissing really that complicated or does it come naturally once you do it? Is there any way to practice?

It comes naturally once you do it. It’s a huge dopamine hit :feelsohh::feelsohh:
 
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No such thing as being a good kisser. Women will rate your kissing skills based on how they rate your face.

Removing the bad smell by brushing your teeth and tongue bacteria twice a day is the only practice you need to do.
 
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I am the same as you. I had a date on monday and I gave her cheek kisses as a goodbye. I corrected my mistake and made out with her right afterwards though but still.

It's fucking hard to be pro-active with women sexually/romantically when you are a truecel like me and only have sex with a girl once a year jfl.
 
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I am the same as you. I had a date on monday and I gave her cheek kisses as a goodbye. I corrected my mistake and made out with her right afterwards though but still.

It's fucking hard to be pro-active with women sexually/romantically when you are a truecel like me and only have sex with a girl once a year jfl.
> made out with a date
>I am a truecel
 
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knew it was you before opening the thread, you're hopeless, im sorry.
 
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If you are not getting romantic/sexual experiences with women atleast once a month, youre suffering from a complete lack of experience tbh.

its brutal
 
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I am the same as you. I had a date on monday and I gave her cheek kisses as a goodbye. I corrected my mistake and made out with her right afterwards though but still.

It's fucking hard to be pro-active with women sexually/romantically when you are a truecel like me and only have sex with a girl once a year jfl.
I really like your avi btw. Where did you find her?
 
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I am the same as you. I had a date on monday and I gave her cheek kisses as a goodbye. I corrected my mistake and made out with her right afterwards though but still.

It's fucking hard to be pro-active with women sexually/romantically when you are a truecel like me and only have sex with a girl once a year jfl.
You had a date and you're still complaining about life? Imagine if you were an average loser or God forbid below average truecel.

Was she a HTB?
 
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I find myself in the same position as you, i just dont know how to kiss
 
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You had a date and you're still complaining about life?
bro, were living in different realities.

Getting a date with a HTB after weeks of jestermaxxing on online-dating apps means absolutely nothing to your life quality.

The only HTB I dated long-term (my first and only ex) I figured out that sex on a regular basis with an attractive girl should be a normal part of any man's life. It doesn't make life great, but it makes it less shit.
But this was only 3 months out of my life (27 years).
 
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Wow you are an absolute faggot
 
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Probably not but I need all the help I can get.
Try phenibut. Not sure how easy it is to get where you live. In America it is very easy.

You can’t take it every day (2x a week tops) but if you pop it 2-3 hits before being with a woman, your anxiety will be halved. It “worked” for me, insofar as I no longer am anxious around women if I take it (still incel).
 
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I dont know how. Where do you aim? Which way do you turn your head? What do you do once your lips touch hers? Where do you put your hands?
Bro i cant even big to tell you how fucking over it is for you, if you cant aim a kiss how will you ever be able to fuck. Its so over over over buddy
 
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I had another chance to kiss a female today but got nervous and left. We were walking around the park and she told me she likes it when guys dont ask if they can go for a kiss and just do it. After this she stared at me for a while. I got extremely nervous and we walked in silence for a few minutes then I told her I had to go. Before I left she stared at me some more, I did nothing so she gave me a tight hug. My chance with her is most likely over now.

I have no interest in LTRing this girl (non-virgin) so I shouldnt be nervous but I still am. I have no idea how to kiss, it looks so complicated.

If I did go for a kiss I would probably be just like this guy:

love-at-first-cringe-josh.gif


Is kissing really that complicated or does it come naturally once you do it? Is there any way to practice?

if she dont kiss you must piss
 
How the fuck are you getting dates? From online dating? What PSL are you?
 

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