Is looksmaxing an excuse?

[HarrierDuBois]

Answer this question, let's say you got your genio, bimax, infras and whatever surgery you needed.

Are you happy?

Or is your happiness reliant on how women or others react towards you?

If it's the latter, then I got bad news. No surgery in this world will ever guarantee anyone will treat you differently. The only person these surgeries should satisfy is you and you alone.

I do this primarily to satisfy myself. I want to reach an ideal. I am uncomfortable around women so use looksmaxing as an excuse not to approach any.

 

[Akhi]

its not an excuse but its an excuse to not go out and try

even if you fail a lot getting social experience is very very important even after your ascension

better do it now then wait imo

 

[HarrierDuBois]

its not an excuse but its an excuse to not go out and try

even if you fail a lot getting social experience is very very important even after your ascension

better do it now then wait imo

It's an excuse for me personally since romantic dynamics are intimidating for me. Never done them before.

 

[Akhi]

It's an excuse for me personally since romantic dynamics are intimidating for me. Never done them before.

well then thats your answer

the fear wont get better after ascension imo

 

[HarrierDuBois]

well then thats your answer

the fear wont get better after ascension imo

I'm using looksmaxing as a way to postpone living.

 

[Akhi]

I'm using looksmaxing as a way to postpone living.

well youre self reflected enough to see it

youll probably regret it later if you dont change soonish

 

[HarrierDuBois]

well youre self reflected enough to see it

youll probably regret it later if you dont change soonish

When rotting you get a lot of time to introspect. Everything feels bleak when doing it unattractive.

 

[Akhi]

When rotting you get a lot of time to introspect. Everything feels bleak when doing it unattractive.

didnt you say you were somewhat succesful with girl when going on parties

 

[HarrierDuBois]

didnt you say you were somewhat succesful with girl when going on parties

Define successful. I'm KHV, but girls have approached me and said I'm cute/they have a crush on me/asked for my number.

 

[Akhi]

Define successful. I'm KHV, but girls have approached me and said I'm cute/they have a crush on me/asked for my number.

better than many guys

cant remember how old you are but now is the time where you need to make experiences

when youre 22 and ascended being completely clueless will be a failo

besides getting with girls is fun

 

[Krakowski]

Let's read this wall of text

You need to step outside your bubble and see the bigger picture. I used to be like this too, and I can tell you its the worst thing to do. You don't even know if you're truly going to ascend

And if yes, then 1 year 2 years, 5 years, 10 years? By the time you do 'ascend' you will have nothing left to show for

Trust me incel . This is not something I or @Krakowski can convince you, but live in the real world and face it head on. Your recessed lateral orbitals would be the last concern of any single human you meet. This much I guarantee you

Damn you really enlightened me

 

[ReadBooksEveryday]

Let's read this wall of text

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Here is the irony:
Saint Blackops2cel is slaying looking like the first, meanwhile Harrier is busy being an incel rotting looking like the 2nd

Guess which one of them is a French Croissant truck driver?

 

[Napoleon1800]

I am afraid of seeking out contact with the opposite gender in order to bond, I am afraid of sex in the sense that I have to get vulnerable and share myself in a way I have never done before.
As of now I am not conventionally attractive so I can just hide behind the excuse that I need to looksmax but when I have ascended I will have no more excuses to hide behind, eventually I will have to mature, grow up, and seek out contact with girls.

My friend IRL told me that I just use looksmaxing as an excuse not to get girls, is this true?

No

 

[Napoleon1800]

No

Don't cope with "just approache bro"

 

[Napoleon1800]

I do this primarily to satisfy myself. I want to reach an ideal. I am uncomfortable around women so use looksmaxing as an excuse not to approach any.

Also bro just wanna say I love you (no gayness) and I want to see you succeed because you are a great user. I would say definitely try to speak to girls and have a social circle if u are mtn and not a manlet. Do this while u looksmaxx

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Also bro just wanna say I love you (no gayness) and I want to see you succeed because you are a great user. I would say definitely try to speak to girls and have a social circle if u are mtn and not a manlet. Do this while u looksmaxx

I appreciate you too, very high IQ user. Being outside and high effort with girls is draining and intimidating.
I don't even crave a relationship with a real girl atm, They are mostly loud and obnoxious. I want a perfect girl.

 

[Deleted member 46941]

dnr

 

[HarrierDuBois]

dnr

I'll excuse you because of your fantastic taste in women. Audrey Hepburn has amazing features.

 

[Deleted member 19442]

Also this 'once i get there ill do x and x' is cringe. You will fail at life like this.

I did this to myself

 

[Deleted member 46941]

I'll excuse you because of your fantastic taste in women. Audrey Hepburn has amazing features.

she is a goddess with the best eye area I have ever seen ngl

 

[HarrierDuBois]

she is a goddess with the best eye area I have ever seen ngl

She looks like a fairy.

 

[Alexanderr]

Brutal self-awarenesspill.

For some guys here it probably is. No excuse not to pull when other guys their looks level are.

 

[HarrierDuBois]

Brutal self-awarenesspill.

I introspect a lot.

For some guys here it probably is. No excuse not to pull when other guys their looks level are.

Agreed, although the type of girl you will get as a LTN opposed to a CL is night and day.