Is my plan manipulative?

[Deleted member 10699]

My plan is to increase my SMV by leanmaxxing, beardfrauding and gymcelling. Then, I'll try to use tinder dates to improve my conversational skills with the opposite sex. I'm not interesting in slaying. Is this manipulative? Will it work?

 

[Babyblackcarrot]

How’s this manipulative

 

[Deleted member 10699]

How’s this manipulative

Because you'll be using these people in your favour, but you won't be actually interested in them. You win and they lose.

 

[Kristin]

Because you'll be using these people in your favour, but you aren't actually interested in them. You win and they lose.

If you feel guilt over something this minor you aren’t dark triad enough. You’ll be fine, don’t worry.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

If you feel guilt over something this minor you aren’t dark triad enough. You’ll be fine, don’t worry.

I'm not dark triad at all.

 

[Deleted member 6538]

Mirin dark triad manipulative schemes

 

[MansNotHot]

Bro stop making threads and start making progress already ffs.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Bro stop making threads and start making progress already ffs.

I made some progress already, but I'm obsessed with the forum!

 

[GolemRot]

You're not "manipulative", but you are a fool...

 

[MansNotHot]

I made some progress already, but I'm obsessed with the forum!

Stop. Making. These. Threads.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

all social interaction is manipulation

 

[xefo]

you are too autistic to do this fanta

 

[Deleted member 10699]

you are too autistic to do this fanta

I'll try to.

 

[Deusmaximus]

 

[DicedFeta]

just having this mentality says a lot about your ability to be social, walking away from being NT

 

[Deleted member 10699]

just having this mentality says a lot about your ability to be social, walking away from being NT

I'm not NT, in the first place. My ability to socialize is really bad.

 

[AutismMaxing]

My plan is to increase my SMV by leanmaxxing, beardfrauding and gymcelling. Then, I'll try to use tinder dates to improve my conversational skills with the opposite sex. I'm not interesting in slaying. Is this manipulative? Will it work?

It won't work. If you aren't interested in slaying then you'll just be making pointless small talk and wasting your time.

Also there are no conversation skills through text, they either think you're attractive enough to meet or they don't. I've wasted plenty of time talking and even going on dates with women I wasn't attracted to for "practice", it's a waste of time trust me.

If you want to sleep with or date a girl, then just do it. You're either attractive enough or you're not. But if you really want to "practice" then practice on girls you think are really hot, it will go much better.

 

[Deleted member 6403]

doesn't matter, start viewing people that aren't family or friends as tools/stepping stones

do what ever u need to do to reach your goals as long as your plans offer a good risk to reward ration

 

[Bitch]

Yes bro just “manipulate them”. Looks don’t even matter.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

Yes bro just “manipulate them”. Looks don’t even matter.

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You aren't understanding me. I'm talking about first getting the looks to get tinder dates, then having dates to pratice my horrible small talk skills.

 

[Deleted member 10699]

It won't work. If you aren't interested in slaying then you'll just be making pointless small talk and wasting your time.

Also there are no conversation skills through text, they either think you're attractive enough to meet or they don't. I've wasted plenty of time talking and even going on dates with women I wasn't attracted to for "practice", it's a waste of time trust me.

If you want to sleep with or date a girl, then just do it. You're either attractive enough or you're not. But if you really want to "practice" then practice on girls you think are really hot, it will go much better.

Then I'll join some clubs to upgrade my social skills.