Is someone wanting to be paid to help you recover from surgery a good person?

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I offer to pay for her flights, accomdation, food ect. So she can look travel with me and look after me after surgery.

But she wants to be paid ontop of that.

@Sergio-OMS
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pay her you jew

she is probably disgusted by you
 
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shes doing work for you.
 
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should've found a local so you can save on the flight money
 
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I offer to pay for her flights, accomdation, food ect. So she can look travel with me and look after me after surgery.

But she wants to be paid ontop of that.

@Sergio-OMS
@RealSurgerymax

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Well yeah. She's not able to make money while she's traveling around looking after you, is she?

I smell humble bragging. Somebody just wants to let the forum know that they got money.

Why would you need somebody to look after you for jaw surgery anyway?
 
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depends on who it is lol
is it a stranger? then ofc she wants to be paid
 
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So you are offering a girl money to travel with you?

Ask your mother.
 
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he claims to be a multi millionaire she dosen't want to spend time with a stinky currycel for free
shes taking care of him 8 hours a day then fuck chads from Milan at night and give covid to him
i would never get a foid caretaker. im already harvesting my friend from mumbai so his family could potentially care for me when i do LL
 
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How did you find this said girl? If this is one of the escorts you've met with before I wouldn't do it. They can't be trusted tbh.

Its a nurse dude.
 
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This tbh /thread
that's too sad ngl
im slowly lookspilling my mom but that's like last resort. i wouldn't want her to see me in a weak state
also if you have complications your mom isn't a nurse she wouldn't know what to do. you have to suction the airway for blood. know how to slap your back. sometimes they have to do jaw thrust which obviously is very dangerous here. if things are serious they might have to stick a role in your throat to breath(not sure about this tbh).
speaking as a layman you are doing rhino and bimax it seems dangerous and a bit retarded imo. why dont you split them in 2 different times?
 
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When are you heading over to Italy? I should be heading there at the end of this month or early next month.

July /August (wont meet anyone on here)
 
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Inb4 she robs OP and leaves to die alone.
 
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that's too sad ngl
im slowly lookspilling my mom but that's like last resort. i wouldn't want her to see me in a weak state
also if you have complications your mom isn't a nurse she wouldn't know what to do. you have to suction the airway for blood. know how to slap your back. sometimes they have to do jaw thrust which obviously is very dangerous here. if things are serious they might have to stick a role in your throat to breath(not sure about this tbh).
speaking as a layman you are doing rhino and bimax it seems dangerous and a bit retarded imo. why dont you split them in 2 different times
This is one of the reasons why i dont want to get family involved to be seen in this state.

I get three days in hospital im trying to ask if they can make it a week to get over the biggest hurdle.
 
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This is one of the reasons why i dont want to get family involved to be seen in this state.

I get three days in hospital im trying to ask if they can make it a week to get over the biggest hurdle.
she sounds a bit agitated and you haven't replied to her with what she asked for 4 days
why cant you just find a traveling nurse agency?
 
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You do not need anyone. Just prepare before hand. Frozen bags of fruit/vegetables you can throw into your mixer. Have enough food on hand in your hotel for 1 week.

Physically you can take care of yourself after surgery. Emotionally is another question entirely. However since you are here on looksmax you are already dead inside so should be fine. Plenty of people have done it alone.

Given that you are doing rhinoplasty and jaw surgery at the same time in Italy, I assume you are going with Ramieri?
 
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You do not need anyone. Just prepare before hand. Frozen bags of fruit/vegetables you can throw into your mixer. Have enough food on hand in your hotel for 1 week.

Physically you can take care of yourself after surgery. Emotionally is another question entirely. However since you are here on looksmax you are already dead inside so should be fine. Plenty of people have done it alone.

Given that you are doing rhinoplasty and jaw surgery at the same time in Italy, I assume you are going with Ramieri?

Yup Ramieri.
 
dont pay her shit. youll give her free money and travel. shell most likely never show up to help you w your shit.
 
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Yup Ramieri.
Figured. How was your consultation with him? I havent had my consultation with him yet due to corona but consulted with Raffiani. Am in the process of exctractions and will consult Ramieri soon. From what I can see on his website/IG I like Ramieri more than I do Raffiani honestly.
 
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I offer to pay for her flights, accomdation, food ect. So she can look travel with me and look after me after surgery.

But she wants to be paid ontop of that.

@Sergio-OMS
@RealSurgerymax

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Who is this? Someone that typically offers this service, a friend, or just some random lady you like?

Typically recovery staff in recovery houses are not nurses and Dont need to have much clinical knowledge. They are just to assist you with normal things and observe you for the first 24-48 hours after surgery as a family member usually would.

If you are paying a private person then yes you usually pay them AND their travel expenses. You may find a friend who just wants to go to italy that would do it for travel expenses (but they need to know for the first few days it wont be much of a vacation)
 
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Who is this? Someone that typically offers this service, a friend, or just some random lady you like?

Typically recovery staff in recovery houses are not nurses and Dont need to have much clinical knowledge. They are just to assist you with normal things and observe you for the first 24-48 hours after surgery as a family member usually would.

If you are paying a private person then yes you usually pay them AND their travel expenses. You may find a friend who just wants to go to italy that would do it for travel expenses (but they need to know for the first few days it wont be much of a vacation)

Its a nurse that attended my high definition liposuction surgery. We talk alot.

I get 2 or 3 days hospital stay.

I will ask my mum or just go alone tbh and live on meal replacement shakes (high quality)

Theres something that doesn't feel right about paying people to care for you by your bedside. I guess im old school.

My biggest worry going alone is the psychological impact of seeing my new face as its large movements we are doing including a crooked nose rhinoplasty.

Damn if it triggers BDD.

 
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Figured. How was your consultation with him? I havent had my consultation with him yet due to corona but consulted with Raffiani. Am in the process of exctractions and will consult Ramieri soon. From what I can see on his website/IG I like Ramieri more than I do Raffiani honestly.

He does online consults as well, great guy and surgeon tbh with a great team.
 
Its a nurse that attended my high definition liposuction surgery. We talk alot.

I get 2 or 3 days hospital stay.

I will ask my mum or just go alone tbh and live on meal replacement shakes (high quality)

Theres something that doesn't feel right about paying people to care for you by your bedside. I guess im old school.

My biggest worry going alone is the psychological impact of seeing my new face as its large movements we are doing including a crooked nose rhinoplasty.

Damn if it triggers BDD.


If she is a nurse why would you think she would do it for free ? Its not a vacation for her,she would be missing 3-4 days of work
 
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He does online consults as well, great guy and surgeon tbh with a great team.
Where did you find that? Did you contact him through the form and then he told you that?
 
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Her whole job is to take care of sick/injured people and you expect her to do it for free?

If she is a nurse why would you think she would do it for free ? Its not a vacation for her,she would be missing 3-4 days of work

Who is this? Someone that typically offers this service, a friend, or just some random lady you like?

Typically recovery staff in recovery houses are not nurses and Dont need to have much clinical knowledge. They are just to assist you with normal things and observe you for the first 24-48 hours after surgery as a family member usually would.

If you are paying a private person then yes you usually pay them AND their travel expenses. You may find a friend who just wants to go to italy that would do it for travel expenses (but they need to know for the first few days it wont be much of a vacation)
shes doing work for you.

Thanks for your responses guys.

I don't really need a nurse, more like a watchful friend for the psychological impact.

My mum sounds perfect tbh, but it's not how I want her to see me.

Most of the things I will do myself like showering ect. I get 2 days in hospital which is the key moment.

Just need to look for a friend who wants an all paid for summer holiday to italy for a month and happy to watch over me.
 
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Thanks for your responses guys.

I don't really need a nurse, more like a watchful friend for the psychological impact.

My mum sounds perfect tbh, but it's not how I want her to see me.

Most of the things I will do myself like showering ect. I get 2 days in hospital which is the key moment.

Just need to look for a friend who wants an all paid for summer holiday to italy for a month and happy to watch over me.
I hope one of your friends want to go with you, it sounds fun anyway. I also hope that you enjoy all the culture Italy has if you feel comfortable enough to go out in public
 
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