Is targeting insecure women the best way to slay?

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Been thinking about finding insecure women that kinda relate with me, dont know where I can find them but if I do find them I'll probably try asking for their number or something. Any advice on how to approach them would be superrrrrr appreciated :feelsgood:
 
i wouldn't recommend approaching a girl & asking for her number if you aren't comfortable with your attractiveness, especially if you are truly insecure and can't mask it in a social setting just have a normal conversation. since suddenly approaching someone is very uncomfortable, and i've had many women complain to me about the uncomfortability/awkwardness of being approached like that, i'd recommend finding a way to integrate yourself socially rather than immediately presenting yourself as a love interest.
 
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i wouldn't recommend approaching a girl & asking for her number if you aren't comfortable with your attractiveness, especially if you are truly insecure and can't mask it in a social setting just have a normal conversation. since suddenly approaching someone is very uncomfortable, and i've had many women complain to me about the uncomfortability/awkwardness of being approached like that, i'd recommend finding a way to integrate yourself socially rather than immediately presenting yourself as a love interest.
this is all subjective however, so whatever works best for u in practice, stick w/ it
 
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i wouldn't recommend approaching a girl & asking for her number if you aren't comfortable with your attractiveness, especially if you are truly insecure and can't mask it in a social setting just have a normal conversation. since suddenly approaching someone is very uncomfortable, and i've had many women complain to me about the uncomfortability/awkwardness of being approached like that, i'd recommend finding a way to integrate yourself socially rather than immediately presenting yourself as a love interest.
I'm really insecure about my looks. I thought about doing this at my current school, but I figured if I went to a new one, it wouldn’t really matter what people thought of me. I could just approach a girl, talk to her, or ask for her Snap without overthinking it.
 
I'm really insecure about my looks. I thought about doing this at my current school, but I figured if I went to a new one, it wouldn’t really matter what people thought of me. I could just approach a girl, talk to her, or ask for her Snap without overthinking it.
in practice this would absolutely never work. if you are entering a new, unfamiliar social climate (your new school), and you disregard what your reputation is and your only goal is to slay, you are obviously going to be known only for that, ESPECIALLY if you get rejected (if you are insecure, unconfident, and ACTUALLY ugly, you will be rejected, and left if not rejected immediately; those traits show more than you realize). if you're ugly, you will be a pervert, if you're attractive, you will be a manwhore. there's really no good outcome there. the best way to do this is to really just integrate yourself socially and have an actual base for who you are (have a personality/character) before throwing urself at women. statuspill is the most brutal
 
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in practice this would absolutely never work. if you are entering a new, unfamiliar social climate (your new school), and you disregard what your reputation is and your only goal is to slay, you are obviously going to be known only for that, ESPECIALLY if you get rejected (if you are insecure, unconfident, and ACTUALLY ugly, you will be rejected, and left if not rejected immediately; those traits show more than you realize). if you're ugly, you will be a pervert, if you're attractive, you will be a manwhore. there's really no good outcome there. the best way to do this is to really just integrate yourself socially and have an actual base for who you are (have a personality/character) before throwing urself at women. statuspill is the most brutal
Ngl thinking abt it this reply is actually fucking gold bro, wanted to do the shit before but thinking abt it now im either gonna try to assimilate with my new classmates next year or I'll try to risk it all :feelshah:
 
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u got it bro. lose individuality and slay 🙏🙏
 
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u got it bro. lose individuality and slay 🙏🙏
Thanks brah, I will truly become another nt retard if it means I can slay some shit bro
 
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