matthaal20
Jack of all trades, master of none
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i was never attractive nor sociable but at least i could hang out with my friends. 3 years ago (15 at the time) that changed. i started staying at home at the weekend nights ignoring my friends text to go out because i knew that once again i would be mocked or peer pressured to approach women (insnanely anxious about that but they didnt care). so for around 1.5 i didnt hang out a single time w my friends, leaving my obese self to rot in games (which i enjoyed at the time) instead of actually living my life. Then suddenly a girl from my class started befriending me (ofc at the time i developed feelings bc no woman ever gave me attention, while she only saw my as a friend) the attention gave me insane motivation and hope tho. i started losing weight( 18kg in 3 months) and managed to go from 96 to 69 kg (6 feet) in the span of the same semester. i also fixed my acne and hair and started going out really often. as expected this made extremely sociable and enegetic. i started getting with girls the same year which i thought i would kms bc of my incel life. i never ever imagined my self being intimate w a girl but here i am. i owe this girl everything she literally changed my whole existence without her ever knowing(18 now). getting friendzoned was hard at the time but it was all worth it. heres 3 after pics and 2 before.
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