
SecularIslamist
𝕯𝖝𝕯 intersectional feminist and Islamist jihadi
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Even though I could easily have a selection of options from the top 1% of curries. Even my uncle told me last week I will have multiple options with "special" girls back home; meaning younger, good looking, educated etc.
Throughout my life I've always told my parents I'm not having an arranged marriage. I might be one of the only few curries with FOB parents who didn't have an arranged marriage too. I would tease my older sister for getting an arranged marriage to a FOB back home. I've told all my friends since a young age arranged marriages are for losers and I'll never get one. I told my mother multiple times including in the last month, I'm going to choose my spouse - like as if I have a choice.
I frequently recommend arranged marriages like a hypocrite here. But I only do so because I regret my words when I was younger. If I wasn't so anti-arranged marriage when I was young I would've been more open to it for myself. I can stand the thought of eating my own words and doing something I've always criticised others for doing.
Throughout my life I've always told my parents I'm not having an arranged marriage. I might be one of the only few curries with FOB parents who didn't have an arranged marriage too. I would tease my older sister for getting an arranged marriage to a FOB back home. I've told all my friends since a young age arranged marriages are for losers and I'll never get one. I told my mother multiple times including in the last month, I'm going to choose my spouse - like as if I have a choice.
I frequently recommend arranged marriages like a hypocrite here. But I only do so because I regret my words when I was younger. If I wasn't so anti-arranged marriage when I was young I would've been more open to it for myself. I can stand the thought of eating my own words and doing something I've always criticised others for doing.