I've wasted every opportunity in life

[LTNUser]

I was seeing people enjoying their time and making good memories together on IG and a thought came to my mind on seeing it.
I could also be in the same position as them if I had utilised the opportunities life gave me.
As a kid,I used to socialize with other kids and do well in almost every aspect but as I grew older, socializing with guys of my age,talking with girls and having a social life overall,became difficult for me.
At this age,guys and girls experience love,make the most out of the opportunity life gives them.

I don't know how to talk with people because I've stayed silent my whole life.
It would be embarassing if I would not be able to socialize when I grown older and that is what scares me the most.
One should be learning the best of things and build a good base from this age.

By the time I turn 25,it would seem impossible to make friends and would be too late to start building a social life.
You're supposed to have met and talked with 'the one' by 25 but if you haven't,then it's over ig cuz I think it's not natural to find first love after turning 25.

I rarely go outside and when I do,my mood always gets worse because I see people around me who are able to communicate effectively and have female friends/partner while I have been struggling with the same since 3-4 years.
My physical stats are below average and I also lack intelligence.

I don't know when this misery will finally end and I will be able to achieve something remarkable in life.

Staying up late in night for months,not eating nutritious food,lack of physical exercise,no social life/exposure,no self improvement have made my situation pretty bad.
It's never too late to start with something but I feel people will not be willing to talk with me since I stay silent everytime.
I'm not concerned about finding a gf,I just want to socialize with people without facing any problems.
If I don't learn how the society works and learn useful skills,I will definitely be left behind in the dust in the near future.
I regret wasting time everyday.
If you don't keep up with the fast paced advancement of this world,you will not be able to succeed in life.
@TechnoBoss @autistic_tendencies @superpsycho @Bryce

I was supposed to post this 13 hours ago but this site didn't allow me to post a single thing for some hours.

 

[urban legend]

brutal

 

[Interleukin6]

I was seeing people enjoying their time and making good memories together on IG and a thought came to my mind on seeing it.
I could also be in the same position as them if I had utilised the opportunities life gave me.
As a kid,I used to socialize with other kids and do well in almost every aspect but as I grew older, socializing with guys of my age,talking with girls and having a social life overall,became difficult for me.
At this age,guys and girls experience love,make the most out of the opportunity life gives them.

My life rn from 13 to 18

 

[Bryce]

I'm 28 and it's not over yet... the weight of regret is crushing though. Nothing you can do to turn back the clock.

 

[needlemax]

i also started off being good at socializing with other kids. Now im a bit older and socially awkward, idk how to act normal around girls near me that i can tell are somewhat attracted to me. I fucking ruin everything, im going to order baclofen to try and turn me nt

 

[urban legend]

this user is a larping adamlite btw

 

[autistic_tendencies]

IG and a thought came to my mind on seeing it.

Just your monkey mind playing tricks on you. You are not your thoughts, remain observing

 

[CHRIST_764]

Didn't really have any oppurtinitties in the first place my parents fucked me over

If I had ramirez tier T levels I'd have escaped their BS with enough fighting but its too late now

 

[Eskorbutin]

I'm 28 and it's not over yet... the weight of regret is crushing though. Nothing you can do to turn back the clock.

My life only really started at 26

 

[Eskorbutin]

Didn't really have any oppurtinitties in the first place my parents fucked me over

If I had ramirez tier T levels I'd have escaped their BS with enough fighting but its too late now

Breaking up with parents it's difficult but it's first step to being urself

 

[VvKEy21vV]

You just missed manufactured moments with unfamiliar people

That’s all anything is

Your ability to stir up regret and guilt within yourself,,, to the point of overwhelming self contempt is the real skill here ,,,

 

[nuisance]

I'm 28 and it's not over yet... the weight of regret is crushing though. Nothing you can do to turn back the clock.

what would you do differently, if you could go back to lets say age 20

 

[CHRIST_764]

Breaking up with parents it's difficult but it's first step to being urself

Should've done it when I was like, 5

My development is over now

 

[cobicado901]

 

[nuisance]

I was seeing people enjoying their time and making good memories together on IG and a thought came to my mind on seeing it.
I could also be in the same position as them if I had utilised the opportunities life gave me.
As a kid,I used to socialize with other kids and do well in almost every aspect but as I grew older, socializing with guys of my age,talking with girls and having a social life overall,became difficult for me.
At this age,guys and girls experience love,make the most out of the opportunity life gives them.

I don't know how to talk with people because I've stayed silent my whole life.
It would be embarassing if I would not be able to socialize when I grown older and that is what scares me the most.
One should be learning the best of things and build a good base from this age.

By the time I turn 25,it would seem impossible to make friends and would be too late to start building a social life.
You're supposed to have met and talked with 'the one' by 25 but if you haven't,then it's over ig cuz I think it's not natural to find first love after turning 25.

I rarely go outside and when I do,my mood always gets worse because I see people around me who are able to communicate effectively and have female friends/partner while I have been struggling with the same since 3-4 years.
My physical stats are below average and I also lack intelligence.

I don't know when this misery will finally end and I will be able to achieve something remarkable in life.

Staying up late in night for months,not eating nutritious food,lack of physical exercise,no social life/exposure,no self improvement have made my situation pretty bad.
It's never too late to start with something but I feel people will not be willing to talk with me since I stay silent everytime.
I'm not concerned about finding a gf,I just want to socialize with people without facing any problems.
If I don't learn how the society works and learn useful skills,I will definitely be left behind in the dust in the near future.
I regret wasting time everyday.
If you don't keep up with the fast paced advancement of this world,you will not be able to succeed in life.
@TechnoBoss @autistic_tendencies @superpsycho @Bryce

I was supposed to post this 13 hours ago but this site didn't allow me to post a single thing for some hours.

You're 25 bro, yes time is going by but if you are going to act act now.

Maybe get a job at a restaurant or fast food talking to people, that turned me from ND incel to at least functional and managing relationships well.

 

[Bryce]

what would you do differently, if you could go back to lets say age 20

I'd stop trying to get vacuous validation from people who don't give a flying fuck about me. I think if I stuck around my family more I'd be doing much better.

 

[Eskorbutin]

You just missed manufactured moments with unfamiliar people

That’s all anything is

Your ability to stir up regret and guilt within yourself,,, to the point of overwhelming self contempt is the real skill here ,,,

It brings me immeasurable sadness when people lose years of life thinking about regrets, I wasted time and still do, but never about regrets. Should be their motivation but this ugly system makes people this way.

 

[nuisance]

I'd stop trying to get vacuous validation from people who don't give a flying fuck about me. I think if I stuck around my family more I'd be doing much better.

Yes that is very good advice. I learned that this year at 22 lost a lot of friends. Family over everything, cousins, siblings, parents, they're there for you, and friends can leave you in the dust anytime.