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soulseekingbeast69
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Im starting with this. consulted a maxillofacial surgeon few months ago with my dad referred by my dentist who did my extractions and braces when i was a teen. did all sorts of scans and analysis and concluded that my mandible is recessed. this is something that resonates strongly with me since im always insecure with how recessed my chin is since childhood. the thing is upon taking the ct scans, the team also recognized i had some sinus hypertrophy going on. so they referred me to the hospital ENT specialist as well who recommended me turbinoplasty surgery along with the jaw surgery. things start tooking an unfortunate turn when i consulted another ENT specialist near my neighbourhood who is a bit more conservative when it comes to surgical approach. told him about my jaw surgery plan . he suggested to discuss with my parents as well. when we met, he strongly advised against surgery and suggested me to go counselling therapy first. he mentioned some bluepill stuff like looks doesnt matter and confidence is more important. my therapist again spewed the same bluepill advice like looks dont matter which i have to endure for a few sessions. because of this turn of events, my dad who is intially willing to support my surgery changed his mind and think this surgery for aesthetic purposes is simply not worth it . its over my hopes are dashed. i was so close to achieving it but things really went downhill after consulting the ent specialist. felt so unlucky. guess i have to deal with my recessed face for the rest of my life. if only i didnt see him for 2nd opinion, i would have ended up with a better face a long time ago. in case you are asking me to earn wages to support this surgery on my own. i will have to wageslave for many years and im not getting any younger atm at 25 now.