“just be confident”

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Every day i get told this
“Just be confident ull get a gf”
I never believed people actually said this but its so infuriating hearing it irl especially from the people who make fun of your looks
@GonorrhoeaGobbler
 
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Then I walk in :forcedsmile:
 
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Great advice, I'll keep it in mind.
 
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Garbage thread
 
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Lol ya i was at a girls house with a friend and he goes "why dont girls like him" and she said hes not confident and it was annoying
 
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just talk to her bro :lul:
 
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Every day i get told this
“Just be confident ull get a gf”
I never believed people actually said this but its so infuriating hearing it irl especially from the people who make fun of your looks
@GonorrhoeaGobbler
never been told that since I've been a prettty tall dude my entire life
 
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People say this to make fun of you btw and they know it’s completely bs
 
There is no her, I havent spoken intentionally to a girl my age in years i nuked my social development
i wanna be like u when i grow up
 
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Then I walk out:forcedsmile:
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Every day i get told this
“Just be confident ull get a gf”
I never believed people actually said this but its so infuriating hearing it irl especially from the people who make fun of your looks
@GonorrhoeaGobbler
How tall are u bro?
 
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At 6’1 you should gymmaxx tbh. So many foids want a tall muscular guy.

Dont start with the gymcell shi, it will work bro.

There was tinder expermient with a subhuman 5’9 who was gymmaxxed and he got a ton of likes. You have it way better at 6’1

Dont let any internet echochambers wear you down, seriously.
 
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i dont even hear that tbh
 
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At 6’1 you should gymmaxx tbh. So many foids want a tall muscular guy.

Dont start with the gymcell shi, it will work bro.

There was tinder expermient with a subhuman 5’9 who was gymmaxxed and he got a ton of likes. You have it way better at 6’1

Dont let any internet echochambers wear you down, seriously.
I have been going for 8 months and im still a skinny shit due to my painfully low Testosterone
 
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I have been going for 8 months and im still a skinny shit due to my painfully low Testosterone
Have you taken a bloodtest or you just feel lowtest?

Also if ur young it will be harder to build muscle without a proper diet. Like actually a proper one. Most of us have been too normalized to eat goyslop.

Im wishing the best for u bro, once u get ur bw and muscles up, you will be way more succesful with dating.

Unironically giving you this redpill advice. You as a tallfag just gotta keep grinding and get muscle.
 
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Have you taken a bloodtest or you just feel lowtest?

Also if ur young it will be harder to build muscle without a proper diet. Like actually a proper one. Most of us have been too normalized to eat goyslop.

Im wishing the best for u bro, once u get ur bw and muscles up, you will be way more succesful with dating.

Unironically giving you this redpill advice. You as a tallfag just gotta keep grinding and get muscle.
Im 15.25 currently and tanner stage 3.6ish
 
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Every day i get told this
“Just be confident ull get a gf”
I never believed people actually said this but its so infuriating hearing it irl especially from the people who make fun of your looks
@GonorrhoeaGobbler
1000011598


These are the heads / faces that usually give this advice. "Just have a good personality" "It always works for me".

Yes, good personality is important, but your personality might not be considered if you do not have good enough appearance to be accepted.
 
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Im 15.25 currently and tanner stage 3.6ish
Thats normal no? You probably also have some more height left, if ur lucky u might hit like 6’3
 
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Thats normal no? You probably also have some more height left, if ur lucky u might hit like 6’3
No most kids my age are at tanner 4, i hit puberty at. 14.5
 
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No most kids my age are at tanner 4, i hit puberty at. 14.5
Tbh i hit puberty pretty late also. But i dont think its weird tbh, its pretty natural for humans to develop in different speeds.

Ask your parents to take you to a private doctor if you really feel like your not developing properly.

But most people dont have insane bidelt and muscle gain genetics. You just gotta work hard.

Still dont ignore your guts, if you feel like something is wrong better be safe than sorry.

Your only 15 bro you have stupid amount of time still. I was 15 half a decade ago. Jesus christ im old.
 
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Tbh i hit puberty pretty late also. But i dont think its weird tbh, its pretty natural for humans to develop in different speeds.

Ask your parents to take you to a private doctor if you really feel like your not developing properly.

But most people dont have insane bidelt and muscle gain genetics. You just gotta work hard.

Still dont ignore your guts, if you feel like something is wrong better be safe than sorry.

Your only 15 bro you have stupid amount of time still. I was 15 half a decade ago. Jesus christ im old.
Atleast my Low T makes me grow longer, i really want to be 6’5
 
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Fr biggest cope oat even if ur nd u can get mtv online gf if ur hot
 
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Dont get too greedy bro, im 5’10
Im not greedy, im happy with my height, but when you have a single good trait on you, you tend to want to make it the best possible and cling onto it
 
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Im not greedy, im happy with my height, but when you have a single good trait on you, you tend to want to make it the best possible and cling onto it
Yeah i was just joking i wish all the best for you. I hate seeing young ppl feeling like its over.

Being young should be the prime of ur life. I also know what it feels like having your youth robbed because of bad developemnt.
 
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If you wanna read why i lost almost all hope
Here https://looksmax.org/threads/it-never-started.1870746/
Just read it and we have it pretty same.

For me its too long ive posted my story on the forum already and its looong asf so i dont wanna get into it.

But basically ive went thru this and many more brutal stuff at ages 12-16. I almost killed myself by jumping from our apartment building, but im so happy i didnt go thru with it.

Nowadays i realise it was mostly about stuff i couldnt control. Any normal kid who wouldve had to be me then wouldve also been treated that way.

Back then i thought i was too weird or stupid to have a girl like me or guys respect me. Or i though i wasnt jestering enough. I was so confused why others were just being invited everywhere and i was not.

Nowadays i understand it wasnt my fault. Nowadays i dont let people disrespect me anymore.

Most people dont have to go through this but alot do. You arent the only one who had to endure stuff like this and wont be last.

The only way i managed to change my life is by changing my personality, the way i present myself, my body and looks changing and again changing my personality

It all starts from yourself, this aint a movie. We are not ascending to chadlite magically. You have to take control of your own life. You have to change yourself.

This is if you want to be a popular kid. You can also try to find a group of people like you, but for me i was too down. So i changed myself completely.

It all starts from you. You are 6’1, assuming ur lltn you can still gain respect and become popular due to height halo.

Gymmaxx and try to think if ur really so fucked this needs to be done. If you even can do it.

Its never over for 99% of us.
 
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Just read it and we have it pretty same.

For me its too long ive posted my story on the forum already and its looong asf so i dont wanna get into it.

But basically ive went thru this and many more brutal stuff at ages 12-16. I almost killed myself by jumping from our apartment building, but im so happy i didnt go thru with it.

Nowadays i realise it was mostly about stuff i couldnt control. Any normal kid who wouldve had to be me then wouldve also been treated that way.

Back then i thought i was too weird or stupid to have a girl like me or guys respect me. Or i though i wasnt jestering enough. I was so confused why others were just being invited everywhere and i was not.

Nowadays i understand it wasnt my fault. Nowadays i dont let people disrespect me anymore.

Most people dont have to go through this but alot do. You arent the only one who had to endure stuff like this and wont be last.

The only way i managed to change my life is by changing my personality, the way i present myself, my body and looks changing and again changing my personality

It all starts from yourself, this aint a movie. We are not ascending to chadlite magically. You have to take control of your own life. You have to change yourself.

This is if you want to be a popular kid. You can also try to find a group of people like you, but for me i was too down. So i changed myself completely.

It all starts from you. You are 6’1, assuming ur lltn you can still gain respect and become popular due to height halo.

Gymmaxx and try to think if ur really so fucked this needs to be done. If you even can do it.

Its never over for 99% of us.
Its over for my social life, ill start maxxing stuff in uni because im already kniwn to be a weirdo in HS
 
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Its over for my social life, ill start maxxing stuff in uni because im already kniwn to be a weirdo in HS
But you really need to start it then. Day 1 of uni. Dont trust your future self.

I like the saying ”there is no tomorrow” like in the movie rocky.

If you live like this, you will get shit done.

But dont worry i wont try to coach you thru your problems. We still have different lives and experiences, what worked for me might not for u.

If you really in your heart want to change, you can do it. But just remember.

There is no tomorrow.
 
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But you really need to start it then. Day 1 of uni. Dont trust your future self.

I like the saying ”there is no tomorrow” like in the movie rocky.

If you live like this, you will get shit done.

But dont worry i wont try to coach you thru your problems. We still have different lives and experiences, what worked for me might not for u.

If you really in your heart want to change, you can do it. But just remember.

There is no tomorrow.
Thanks for the advice man but i feel a lot of time was wasted by me alreadh even before getting blackpilled, i was always at home never talking to others
 
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Thanks for the advice man but i feel a lot of time was wasted by me alreadh even before getting blackpilled, i was always at home never talking to others
It is indeed time wasted but its still not too late.

I only started at 16. By 18 my life had changed completely.

Its only too late after you finish school completely.

Start today bro, youre the man. Have confidence in yourself. Inside your head you need to have ego, youre him.

”Failure is fine, just try again several times. Even if I cannot achieve my goals in the end, so what?”

You live your own life, dont be afraid of failing and trying new stuff. You will regret it, i certainly do.
 

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