Mosh
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She initiated everything then told people she felt like she had to and now I'm confused
Need some outside opinions because this has been messing with my head
I met this girl and from the first day we hung out she was all over me We did some stuff on the second day of knowing each other and everything seemed completely fine
About a week later we went to a party together I literally only went because I wanted to be with her but as soon as we got there she spent the whole night talking to other people and barely spoke to me
After a while I went up to her and told her the only reason I came was to see her Nothing really changed Later when the party was ending I told her I was leaving and she said I thought you wanted to talk to me
Then she suggested her friend drive us to our mutual friends house to stay the night I even told both of them I could have someone pick me up in 5 minutes because I was ready to leave
Instead she wanted me to stay As soon as we got there she started everything She told me to take my shirt off because she wanted to wear it started kissing me and kept things going I wasnt the one pushing for anything I was literally about to leave until she convinced me to stay
Now 2 weeks later shes telling our mutual friend she felt like she had to do it because I ended up at the house with her
Thats the part I dont understand She invited me there told me to stay and initiated everything If she didnt want anything to happen why not just let me leave when I said I was going to
We stopped talking a few days later out of nowhere and now shes saying this
Am I missing something here because from my point of view none of this adds up
Need some outside opinions because this has been messing with my head
I met this girl and from the first day we hung out she was all over me We did some stuff on the second day of knowing each other and everything seemed completely fine
About a week later we went to a party together I literally only went because I wanted to be with her but as soon as we got there she spent the whole night talking to other people and barely spoke to me
After a while I went up to her and told her the only reason I came was to see her Nothing really changed Later when the party was ending I told her I was leaving and she said I thought you wanted to talk to me
Then she suggested her friend drive us to our mutual friends house to stay the night I even told both of them I could have someone pick me up in 5 minutes because I was ready to leave
Instead she wanted me to stay As soon as we got there she started everything She told me to take my shirt off because she wanted to wear it started kissing me and kept things going I wasnt the one pushing for anything I was literally about to leave until she convinced me to stay
Now 2 weeks later shes telling our mutual friend she felt like she had to do it because I ended up at the house with her
Thats the part I dont understand She invited me there told me to stay and initiated everything If she didnt want anything to happen why not just let me leave when I said I was going to
We stopped talking a few days later out of nowhere and now shes saying this
Am I missing something here because from my point of view none of this adds up