Just had my first date in 2 yrs did I almost slay?

[bddcoper]

She agreed to come back to my room initially and then changed her mind 10 minutes later as we were walking back. She said she got something later tonight and can’t but said she will text me to reschedule smth later. What does this mean?

 

[JordanFagget271]

She agreed to come back to my room initially and then changed her mind 10 minutes later as we were walking back. She said she got something later tonight and can’t but said she will text me to reschedule smth later. What does this mean?

if she does message u then it means good if she doesnt then its bad

 

[green_fn_2033]

Chad texted her he’s free that night

 

[knightgtb65]

She agreed to come back to my room initially and then changed her mind 10 minutes later as we were walking back. She said she got something later tonight and can’t but said she will text me to reschedule smth later. What does this mean?

she just got nervous, if she doesnt message you back now then youre cooked

 

[bddcoper]

she just got nervous, if she doesnt message you back now then youre cooked

Maybe she wasn’t shaved or smth? That’s why she wanted to wait? Cuz lowkey we would’ve had 2 hours before her “event” (uni shit we live very close btw) to chill but she didn’t agree despite agreeing initially

I’m feeling like this is like how girls initially agree to on dates then cancel/flake last second just to not be mean or smth

 

[bddcoper]

Also should I text her or wait for her to text? Or randomly text her asking her if she wanna chill in my dorm?

 

[bddcoper]

Bump pls help I’m genuinely gonna go insane I just wanna feel loved

 

[bddcoper]

 

[GoErOnFoids]

IDK act like a chad and dont text

 

[bddcoper]

IDK act like a chad and dont text

Pls bro srs advice

 

[GoErOnFoids]

Pls bro srs advice

Bro… just say whats up what you went to do or something ofc not in that tone

 

[GoErOnFoids]

Or what i would do personally as a self respecting man is leave it be and try to see what happens if she EVEN CARES

 

[bddcoper]

Bro… just say whats up what you went to do or something ofc not in that tone

okay but she said she will reschedule later (basically foid BS the way I see it because they always say that then ghost or say they are busy or reschedule at some dogshit time that she knows I can’t make)

Basically what I’m saying is that I don’t know if she initially agreed to be nice then changed her mind that’s why I’m worried about getting a text back or not and I’m confused if I should reach out or if that’s too desperate

 

[GoErOnFoids]

okay but she said she will reschedule later (basically foid BS the way I see it because they always say that then ghost or say they are busy or reschedule at some dogshit time that she knows I can’t make)

Basically what I’m saying is that I don’t know if she initially agreed to be nice then changed her mind that’s why I’m worried about getting a text back or not and I’m confused if I should reach out or if that’s too desperate

From my experience you dont want to be the desperate cuck so leave it be, i know its hard but i think you would make it worse

 

[bddcoper]

From my experience you dont want to be the desperate cuck so leave it be, i know its hard but i think you would make it worse

Okay I guess I get no other girls tho this is the only one I have rn and if she goes who knows how long until I can slay

I mean I don’t mind reaching out and getting a final answer but I’m not sure what to send exactly and when to text

 

[GoErOnFoids]

but I’m not sure what to send exactly and when to text

Then its already written in the stars your not slaying this one, your learning

 

[bddcoper]

This is also the closest I’ve ever been to slaying

 

[GoErOnFoids]

This is also the closest I’ve ever been to slaying

If she likes you or wants you to fuck her its obvious, but maybe not obvious to you… anyways you should see it

 

[bddcoper]

If she likes you or wants you to fuck her its obvious, but maybe not obvious to you… anyways you should see it

i mean we had a good conversation and the date lasted 3 hours. we had a lot in common too

but why would she agree initially then change her mind thats all i wanna know. maybe she does really have an event? and if she doesn't why then?

 

[Orka]

She agreed to come back to my room initially and then changed her mind 10 minutes later as we were walking back. She said she got something later tonight and can’t but said she will text me to reschedule smth later. What does this mean?

Is your avi you?

 

[bddcoper]

Is your avi you?

no

 

[GoErOnFoids]

i mean we had a good conversation and the date lasted 3 hours. we had a lot in common too

but why would she agree initially then change her mind thats all i wanna know. maybe she does really have an event? and if she doesn't why then?

She might have or most likely got scared, shes definitely going to message you so wait

 

[jackmaxxd]

Try going on another date with her. Some girls dont want to smash on the first date for a lot of reasons, some could be:
1. she doesnt really know you at all so doesnt feel comfortable with that yet
2. doesnt want to feel like an easy whore so is going to make you wait
3. maybe something genuinely more important came up (yeah yeah i know she went to go fuck chad instead)

who knows man. Just play it cool, wait maybe like a day or so then ask her out again and do something casual. If she never texts you again, oh well, it happens and move on. All good.

 

[MrMeeseeks154]

Just chill brah, wait for her text. If she doesn't text wait a couple days then shoot her a message acting like nothing happened. Start a new text convo or plan a new date

 

[bddcoper]

asked grok and it said it was a soft letdown and she only agreed to go with the flow then changed her mind once she realize the reality of the situation

BTW i did actually ask her again after she changed her mind and she still refused despite there being 2 hrs before her "event" for us to hang out. makes me sad because you can talk to a girl for hours and you are just left with these confusing signals and possibly get ghosted without knowing where exactly you went wrong other than your looks.

thank you for the input guys but i guess it's over. hundreds of injections, pills, even drawing my own blood, just to look better all for nothing i guess. im not really expecting anything to go further or even a message, as much as i hope it does. but maybe if i were better looking this wouldn't have happened. time to roid in 2026 i guess. i know no one really cares about any of this but i have no one to share my feelings with IRL so this is all i got

 

[edodalic29]

asked grok and it said it was a soft letdown and she only agreed to go with the flow then changed her mind once she realize the reality of the situation

BTW i did actually ask her again after she changed her mind and she still refused despite there being 2 hrs before her "event" for us to hang out. makes me sad because you can talk to a girl for hours and you are just left with these confusing signals and possibly get ghosted without knowing where exactly you went wrong other than your looks.

thank you for the input guys but i guess it's over. hundreds of injections, pills, even drawing my own blood, just to look better all for nothing i guess. im not really expecting anything to go further or even a message, as much as i hope it does. but maybe if i were better looking this wouldn't have happened. time to roid in 2026 i guess. i know no one really cares about any of this but i have no one to share my feelings with IRL so this is all i got

Its over lowkey bro

shes lying she just using free attention

Get with her friends instead

 

[bddcoper]

Its over lowkey bro

shes lying she just using free attention

Get with her friends instead

yah i know it's unfortunate too because shes doesn't seem a whore unlike most girls at my uni

 

[King.epstein]

She agreed to come back to my room initially and then changed her mind 10 minutes later as we were walking back. She said she got something later tonight and can’t but said she will text me to reschedule smth later. What does this mean?

im very proud of you brah

 

[bddcoper]

im very proud of you brah

proud of me for getting played? thank you saar

 

[King.epstein]

proud of me for getting played? thank you saar

you made it far nigga

 

[bddcoper]

you made it far nigga

thank you bro

 

[rawr]

Pls bro srs advice

idk bro the most intimate thing ive experienced was my attractive french teacher smiling at me and remembering my name 2 months ago

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Also should I text her or wait for her to text? Or randomly text her asking her if she wanna chill in my dorm?

Bro how can you incentivize a girl to come to the dorm? My only method is going to bars and asking the girls to go back to their apartment I wish I had an apartment cause dorm literally has no incentive other than to cuddle and slay but it’s also 10x harder on a lofted bed Jfl

 

[bddcoper]

Bro how can you incentivize a girl to come to the dorm? My only method is going to bars and asking the girls to go back to their apartment I wish I had an apartment cause dorm literally has no incentive other than to cuddle and slay but it’s also 10x harder on a lofted bed Jfl

because she goes to my uni. shes a nice girl and doesn't seem like a whore at all but i think i may have fucked my looks by taking too many stimulants, diuretics (height loss), and cialis right before. apparently i was the first person she met from online (and shes the first person i met from online) so itll be sad if an honest girl like this slips away bc not many like her exist at my uni; im hoping she denied coming to my room bc she doesnt wanna fuck on the first date cuz of her nature rather than bc i fucked up

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

because she goes to my uni. shes a nice girl and doesn't seem like a whore at all but i think i may have fucked my looks by taking too many stimulants, diuretics (height loss), and cialis right before. apparently i was the first person she met from online (and shes the first person i met from online) so itll be sad if an honest girl like this slips away bc not many like her exist at my uni; im hoping she denied coming to my room bc she doesnt wanna fuck on the first date cuz of her nature rather than bc i fucked up

Yeah u might be over thinking u can’t rush girls who like to take it slow unless Chad prob

 

[bddcoper]

Yeah u might be over thinking u can’t rush girls who like to take it slow unless Chad prob

I hope so I’d honestly take an ltr with any ltb or mtb at this point because life is so fucking lonely and boring. We will see in a few days what happens

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

I hope so I’d honestly take an ltr with any ltb or mtb at this point because life is so fucking lonely and boring. We will see in a few days what happens

Bro please do dude I’m done going out I blacked out again but I got an ig follow from the high schooo Stacy jfl

An actual relationship with a good girl would be 200x better than any of this degeneracy fun because of the rarity and it’s also just the better option. Good luck bro hope it goes well maybe the second date u can slay, but there are certain girls in uni who are like prideful to be celibate im not sure if it’s celibate on guys under 6ft or all guys

 

[bddcoper]

Bro please do dude I’m done going out I blacked out again but I got an ig follow from the high schooo Stacy jfl

An actual relationship with a good girl would be 200x better than any of this degeneracy fun because of the rarity and it’s also just the better option. Good luck bro hope it goes well maybe the second date u can slay, but there are certain girls in uni who are like prideful to be celibate im not sure if it’s celibate on guys under 6ft or all guys

Heightflation is so crazy honestly i was frauding to 6’1” minimum (6’2” if it weren’t for diuretics) and she didn’t believe i was over 6 feet

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

Heightflation is so crazy honestly i was frauding to 6’1” minimum (6’2” if it weren’t for diuretics) and she didn’t believe i was over 6 feet

Bruh wtf. Ur lowkey chilling tho ur still tall asf she might just be teasing u but lowkey don’t be talking about height I also find if u say ur a lot shorter it helps u like cookieking method where he frauds a shorter height for someone to be like no ur not. It’s still autistic and weird but it will help the confidence and ego boost

 

[PrettyLights]

this nigga is above 6’0 and is asking grok for dating advice. end it immediately

 

[bddcoper]

Bruh wtf. Ur lowkey chilling tho ur still tall asf she might just be teasing u but lowkey don’t be talking about height I also find if u say ur a lot shorter it helps u like cookieking method where he frauds a shorter height for someone to be like no ur not. It’s still autistic and weird but it will help the confidence and ego boost

Nah bro she genuinely didn’t believe I was over 6 feet but yeah I told her I was way shorter initially and she believed it. It’s weird because all guys believe I am at least 6 foot if not taller but girls don’t believe that I am over 5’10”

this nigga is above 6’0 and is asking grok for dating advice. end it immediately

Well not dating advice but what her actions meant bro