MakinItHappenReturn
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It’s literally impossible to get better and improve if you don’t have problems to solve and issues to figure out. For this reason there is no need to doom and gloom when life is throwing you curveballs.
You need both sunshine and cloudy times to blossom.
Give your need to control the specifics up, and trust all will work itself out, because it will.
You can leverage EVERY event to your favour - the key lies in the interpretation of said event in your mind
⁃ Where is the silver lining?
⁃ How is this situation highlighting my weaknesses?
⁃ Once identified, how can I improve those?
There is always another way - There is always a solution to your problems.
A road block in your otherwise perfect plan is just something to hurdle over, move around or dig underneath. There is always a way through to your destination.
The solution is to stop caring. What you allow to get to you becomes an issue in your mind alone. Move your attention to something else and suddenly that problem disappears in every sense - POOF just like that.
Will the event matter in 5 years time? If not, allow yourself to let go of it.
Because all of our experience is through the lens of our perspective, if we consciously choose to view everything that happens to us as a benefit then eventually positive events are all that happen to us and that is all we attract.
It is a tale as old as time of the person who attracts negativity to themselves because they pity themselves and view themselves as a victim. If this is how you see yourself, then life will reflect this back. someone that doesn’t put forth effort into life will view themselves negatively + judge themselves… When you act with integrity + put forth effort then you naturally view yourself as someone deserving of success, and thus it happens
Think of all the problems you have ever stressed about. How many of them lasted? How many of them were helped because you thought about them all the time? Zero.
The duality of life Is in the rising and falling, learn the lessons and enjoy both trajectories as they happen.
And boyos, it's about one foot infront of the other - you have to earn the wisdom of life through paid blood!
You need both sunshine and cloudy times to blossom.
Give your need to control the specifics up, and trust all will work itself out, because it will.
You can leverage EVERY event to your favour - the key lies in the interpretation of said event in your mind
⁃ Where is the silver lining?
⁃ How is this situation highlighting my weaknesses?
⁃ Once identified, how can I improve those?
There is always another way - There is always a solution to your problems.
A road block in your otherwise perfect plan is just something to hurdle over, move around or dig underneath. There is always a way through to your destination.
The solution is to stop caring. What you allow to get to you becomes an issue in your mind alone. Move your attention to something else and suddenly that problem disappears in every sense - POOF just like that.
Will the event matter in 5 years time? If not, allow yourself to let go of it.
Because all of our experience is through the lens of our perspective, if we consciously choose to view everything that happens to us as a benefit then eventually positive events are all that happen to us and that is all we attract.
It is a tale as old as time of the person who attracts negativity to themselves because they pity themselves and view themselves as a victim. If this is how you see yourself, then life will reflect this back. someone that doesn’t put forth effort into life will view themselves negatively + judge themselves… When you act with integrity + put forth effort then you naturally view yourself as someone deserving of success, and thus it happens
Think of all the problems you have ever stressed about. How many of them lasted? How many of them were helped because you thought about them all the time? Zero.
The duality of life Is in the rising and falling, learn the lessons and enjoy both trajectories as they happen.
And boyos, it's about one foot infront of the other - you have to earn the wisdom of life through paid blood!
