Just narc things

[TITUS]

Why do narcissists tend to 'stare' at their supply?

Answer (1 of 84): Narcissists often stare at you when you are not looking, really trying to study you inside-out. Picking up on every cue, however subtle, that might help them glean those things about yourself, which you keep tucked in deep within your soul. You are their next project. Narciss...

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@Amnesia does this resonate with you?

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Thanks for bringing up the STARE. I had almost let that one wash away, but it’s a great symptom of the narcissist and one I’m sure they cannot disguise very easily.

My former NPD told me he was reading my mouth, which initially I thought, odd, cute, and that he was watching me closely out of adoration.

Later, I figured out it was to literally read my emotions, as he lacked empathy, could not sense or feel what was going on - even when I explicitly told him.

And he was judging me to some extent, preparing for his next episode of ghosting me for something I’d say or do then denying.

But he’s a covert narcissist who envied my social skills and general strength, so he was also preparing to mimic me, (he said he wanted to “be me”). He even started dressing like me, (urban over suburban), became “friends” with all my friends, and took on many of my mannerisms and language. (Can you say creepy?)

He would stare at me during sex, not out of lust or love, he was observing my actions around pleasure like a scientist observing a monkey.

Ironically, all of my friends would say, “Look how much he loves you! He’s constantly staring at you”! Or he’s dressing like you, how cute! Some of them are still “friends” with him because as one “friend”/colleague put it, “he acts like a perfect gentleman” to which I responded “is he supposed to walk around carrying an ax with crazy eyes?”

The STARE is a very clear sign that you are being observed in order to suck your life away."

Btw it's often times hard to tell if you are a narc or assbergers.

 

[Deleted member 15338]

Tl;dr ?

 

[Deleted member 9670]

Tl;dr ?

foids complaining about their narcy ex boyfriends who "abused" them

 

[Baldingman1998]

foids complaining about their narcy ex boyfriends who "abused" them

It's a comedy at this point

 

[Deleted member 15338]

foids complaining about their narcy ex boyfriends who "abused" them

Teehee Chad just cummed on my hair and leaved me

 

[TITUS]

Tl;dr ?

I spent my extremely valuable time bolding the important part for your comfort, and this is how you pay me back?

 

[Amnesia]

He would stare at me during sex, not out of lust or love, he was observing my actions around pleasure like a scientist observing a monkey.

That part resonated with me. In certain situations where other people are feeling some type of heavy emotions or feelings I am left there to observe because I don't ever feel the same thing. Another situation where this occurs is like at a rave or dancing where I see normies like closing their eyes and "feeling" the music or the vibe and I am just there having to watch cause I can't get into it

 

[chadison]

That part resonated with me. In certain situations where other people are feeling some type of heavy emotions or feelings I am left there to observe because I don't ever feel the same thing. Another situation where this occurs is like at a rave or dancing where I see normies like closing their eyes and "feeling" the music or the vibe and I am just there having to watch cause I can't get into it

Did you go through any type of emotional trauma in childhood? That was part of what caused me to become that way, and I have been able to fix part of it, but i believe the part i havent fixed is simply a subset of my personality.

 

[Amnesia]

Did you go through any type of emotional trauma in childhood? That was part of what caused me to become that way, and I have been able to fix part of it, but i believe the part i havent fixed is simply a subset of my personality.

no trauma, I started to recognize I was different than others by age 9

 

[chadison]

no trauma, I started to recognize I was different than others by age 9

You and me both (probably age 15/16 for me, now im certain that god must’ve forgot to place me on the right planet lol). Recalling you did have a girlfriend at a young age, I never have had a girlfriend yet as I'm afraid of relationships and the closeness (i grew up in an abusive household and was bullied at a younger age) but im trying to change that. I think part of our personalities just has that lone wolf aspect, we always question things and observe before jumping in, and we recognize the superficial and primitive behavioral patterns of society (junk food, marriage, delusion, anger) even when its tempting to indulge in them.

 

[Deleted member 3573]

I don't believe in these answers from quora or yahoo or whatever. Everyone thinks their qualified to psycho-analyze others JFL. If you have enough narcissism in you, you will easily know. Very tough to see it in others though. Sometimes, people who are narcs themselves might just be projecting

 

[ConspiracyTheory]

no trauma, I started to recognize I was different than others by age 9

OK Dexter

 

[Amnesia]

You and me both (probably age 15/16 for me, now im certain that god must’ve forgot to place me on the right planet lol). Recalling you did have a girlfriend at a young age, I never have had a girlfriend yet as I'm afraid of relationships and the closeness (i grew up in an abusive household and was bullied at a younger age) but im trying to change that. I think part of our personalities just has that lone wolf aspect, we always question things and observe before jumping in, and we recognize the superficial and primitive behavioral patterns of society (junk food, marriage, delusion, anger) even when its tempting to indulge in them.

In highly emotionally charged situations I tend to look down on people with disgust who become overwhelmed with emotions whether it's positive or negative ones. I am always feeling like a social observer who feels little and is curious as to why others behave the way they do especially when they aren't acting logically (according to me)

hyper rationality and need to find reason for my actions and even others does plague me

 

[Deleted member]

this hits hard

I’ve always been called a narc

A foid I went out w off yubo made a Reddit thread after we met for the first time ever (went to a park got drunk and I fingered her keep in mind she was a virgin)

this is what soycuckdit had to say abt me

dark triad theory confirmed cuz she ignored those Reddit soycucks and I took her virginity not too long after

on another occasion tho a diff girl called me a narc and asshole but she’s completely gone, I believe it all depends on how attractive she perceives you

girls lust for what they perceive as chad is underrated

 

[chadison]

In highly emotionally charged situations I tend to look down on people with disgust who become overwhelmed with emotions whether it's positive or negative ones. I am always feeling like a social observer who feels little and is curious as to why others behave the way they do especially when they aren't acting logically (according to me)

hyper rationality and need to find reason for my actions and even others does plague me

Yep its like Im reading out of my own diary at this point, me and you would probably have a lot to talk about if we knew each other in real life. There aren’t many people like us, most are drowned within their own hedonistic pursuits which inhibits any awareness of the greater aspects of life. I also tend to look negatively upon when people are blatant with their hedonism and fail to exercise self-control

 

[AlexAP]

this hits hard

I’ve always been called a narc

A foid I went out w off yubo made a Reddit thread after we met for the first time ever (went to a park got drunk and I fingered her keep in mind she was a virgin)

this is what soycuckdit had to say abt me

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dark triad theory confirmed cuz she ignored those Reddit soycucks and I took her virginity not too long after

on another occasion tho a diff girl called me a narc and asshole but she’s completely gone, I believe it all depends on how attractive she perceives you

girls lust for what they perceive as chad is underrated

Being the bad boy of a Reddit story, mirin.

 

[Baldingman1998]

this hits hard

I’ve always been called a narc

A foid I went out w off yubo made a Reddit thread after we met for the first time ever (went to a park got drunk and I fingered her keep in mind she was a virgin)

this is what soycuckdit had to say abt me

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dark triad theory confirmed cuz she ignored those Reddit soycucks and I took her virginity not too long after

on another occasion tho a diff girl called me a narc and asshole but she’s completely gone, I believe it all depends on how attractive she perceives you

girls lust for what they perceive as chad is underrated

How did you know it's about you?

 

[Deleted member]

How did you know it's about you?

she told me

 

[Baldingman1998]

she told me

Why did she cry to reddit then if she had sex with you anyway

 

[Deleted member]

Why did she cry to reddit then if she had sex with you anyway

nah basically she was a virgin and hadn’t had the “chad experience” or “thrill” as foids like to say and cuz legit 30 mins after we met first time I fingered her in a park she prolly got paranoid cuz I’m too low trust then posted on Reddit abt what we did that same day

idk why but idc tbh cuz she ignored what they said and we fucked a couple days later

So yea she made that thread before she fucked me jfl

 

[Baldingman1998]

nah basically she was a virgin and hadn’t had the “chad experience” or “thrill” as foids like to say and cuz legit 30 mins after we met first time I fingered her in a park she prolly got paranoid cuz I’m too low trust then posted on Reddit abt what we did that same day

idk why but idc tbh cuz she ignored what they said and we fucked a couple days later

So yea she made that thread before she fucked me jfl

I guess she was scared at first but then changed her mind. Did your text game do it or did she change her mind by herself?

 

[Deleted member]

I guess she was scared at first but then changed her mind. Did your text game do it or did she change her mind by herself?

nah my text game is utter dogshit lol

she prolly just got paranoid then remembered how wet she got before I even fingered her she was moist asfk

so yeah I legit only found out recently too but this was all 2 months ago almost jfl

 

[TITUS]

Yep its like Im reading out of my own diary at this point, me and you would probably have a lot to talk about if we knew each other in real life. There aren’t many people like us, most are drowned within their own hedonistic pursuits which inhibits any awareness of the greater aspects of life. I also tend to look negatively upon when people are blatant with their hedonism and fail to exercise self-control

You are talking to the guy who spends most of his day chasing for women for ONSs.

 

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[TITUS]

nah my text game is utter dogshit lol

she prolly just got paranoid then remembered how wet she got before I even fingered her she was moist asfk

so yeah I legit only found out recently too but this was all 2 months ago almost jfl

This thread is about @Amnesia (the official forum chad), we are not interested in what a nobody like yourself has to say. Besides, it's probably a delusion of your deranged mind.

 

[TITUS]

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How is that eternal return going, would your live your life again, and again, and again, and again...?

 

[TITUS]

I don't believe in these answers from quora or yahoo or whatever. Everyone thinks their qualified to psycho-analyze others JFL. If you have enough narcissism in you, you will easily know. Very tough to see it in others though. Sometimes, people who are narcs themselves might just be projecting

Totally opposite, the more disfunctional narc you are, the more out of touch with reality.
The narc who is aware of himself and others is doing very well in life (usually) and is a master manipulator.

 

[Deleted member]

This thread is about @Amnesia (the official forum chad), we are not interested in what a nobody like yourself has to say. Besides, it's probably a delusion of your deranged mind.

no delusions here everyone has seen my slays u dumb faggot

Tell amnesia to restart his tinder adventures instead of sucking his cock

Also kill yourself while ur at it

 

[wollet2]

That part resonated with me. In certain situations where other people are feeling some type of heavy emotions or feelings I am left there to observe because I don't ever feel the same thing. Another situation where this occurs is like at a rave or dancing where I see normies like closing their eyes and "feeling" the music or the vibe and I am just there having to watch cause I can't get into it

this life sucks

 

[chadison]

You are talking to the guy who spends most of his day chasing for women for ONSs.

Yes, I’m aware. But its because he’s like me, afraid of commitment/doesn’t like the company. I don't think he’s as hedonistic as the average american by a longshot.

 

[Deleted member 3573]

Totally opposite, the more disfunctional narc you are, the more out of touch with reality.
The narc who is aware of himself and others is doing very well in life (usually) and is a master manipulator.

I don't think any of what you said contradicts my statement. Or are you implying that people with higher levels of narcissism tend to have higher levels of dysfunction to where they don't know they're narc? Meaning only someone with low to moderate narcissism and who's not a full blown narcissist would know they have narc traits?

 

[Patient A]

That part resonated with me. In certain situations where other people are feeling some type of heavy emotions or feelings I am left there to observe because I don't ever feel the same thing. Another situation where this occurs is like at a rave or dancing where I see normies like closing their eyes and "feeling" the music or the vibe and I am just there having to watch cause I can't get into it

Even when taking molly and being high as fuck?

 

[Amnesia]

Even when taking molly and being high as fuck?

Drugs are dumb like most ppl who take them so I wouldn’t know

 

[6ft4]

too lazy to read but I never need to stare because I can read others negative perception of me in a microsecond of seeing their face

 

[AlexBrown84]

Do I have the stare?

 

[Patient A]

Another situation where this occurs is like at a rave or dancing where I see normies like closing their eyes and "feeling" the music or the vibe and I am just there having to watch cause I can't get into it

Drugs are dumb like most ppl who take them so I wouldn’t know

I am the same at a rave. It’s literally unbearable without flooding your brain with dopamine from molly.

When it wears off it’s like the giant dopamine hit leaves a crater in the brain. It makes me a suicidal retard lol. So I don’t do it.