Areuready
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in my line of work you meet with a lot of people from all walks of life. recently met the rare unicorn that is "my type" i told myself over and over again i wouldn't talk to her. but then she approached me to chat. we chatted but when she was leaving i didnt bother acknowledging her leaving because i didnt want the akward conversation of asking for anything (social media/number) or asking questions i already know the answer to.
that was 9 weeks ago, shes been on my mind a little bit, There was a 2nd meeting that i didnt know if she was going to be there or not, I was asked to go to this completely optional and unpaid thing and i agreed just on the off chance i might see her again.
I did and i avoided her and looked busy. Until the very end, it was like i couldn't control myself and i approched her to say it was nice to see her again ect ect, which segwayed into another conversation with her and her friend that got very philosophical then, i ended up asking for her insta which she gave to me.
Im in painful process of swallowing down any " interest" i have for her just like i've done with the last 10 or so women. I realize my desire to talk to her and make friends is just based on the fact i find her attractive and her "shy wall flower" like personality endearing.
There is literally on point at all to ask questions to subjects you already know the answers to. i'm a grown man and i know so much about the blackpill and not only that. modern day dating app culture in general. Im not only seeing ugly incels struggling but normies too. I literally had my barber. A 35 year old man with a full head of hair, a beard , skinny and chest to toe covered in tattoos, tell me stories of how he tries to approach women in bars and they just brush him off or laugh at him and he has zero luck on dating apps either.
that was 9 weeks ago, shes been on my mind a little bit, There was a 2nd meeting that i didnt know if she was going to be there or not, I was asked to go to this completely optional and unpaid thing and i agreed just on the off chance i might see her again.
I did and i avoided her and looked busy. Until the very end, it was like i couldn't control myself and i approched her to say it was nice to see her again ect ect, which segwayed into another conversation with her and her friend that got very philosophical then, i ended up asking for her insta which she gave to me.
Im in painful process of swallowing down any " interest" i have for her just like i've done with the last 10 or so women. I realize my desire to talk to her and make friends is just based on the fact i find her attractive and her "shy wall flower" like personality endearing.
There is literally on point at all to ask questions to subjects you already know the answers to. i'm a grown man and i know so much about the blackpill and not only that. modern day dating app culture in general. Im not only seeing ugly incels struggling but normies too. I literally had my barber. A 35 year old man with a full head of hair, a beard , skinny and chest to toe covered in tattoos, tell me stories of how he tries to approach women in bars and they just brush him off or laugh at him and he has zero luck on dating apps either.