literally cant take compliments

alurmo

alurmo

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not like i get any but if were to get a complement I would think its a backhanded one that's trying to make fun of me
that's prob from years of bullying and shit
 
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"thanks i guess"
 
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when you get constant negative reinforcement in your formative years like me, you will never learn how to take a compliment

u ask wont be able to know how to respond if someone does a good deed for you
 
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Say thanks and return with another compliment
 
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The only compliments I get are from my mother, and she knows to ease up on that shit because I will start rambling to her about wanting to kill myself and how ugly I am if she does.
 
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not like i get any but if were to get a complement I would think its a backhanded one that's trying to make fun of me
that's prob from years of bullying and shit
 
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“Alurmo your a handsome dude”
 
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The only compliments I get are from my mother, and she knows to ease up on that shit because I will start rambling to her about wanting to kill myself and how ugly I am if she does.
Embarrassing!
 
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Embarrassing!
I’m just sick of it. Like, I’m ugly mom!! Just fucking stop. I hate my life and I wish I was never born. It’s not her fault and I don’t blame her but she needs to understand that I fucking hate my life and that it was not a gift.
 
I’m just sick of it. Like, I’m ugly mom!! Just fucking stop. I hate my life and I wish I was never born. It’s not her fault and I don’t blame her but she needs to understand that I fucking hate my life and that it was not a gift.
U gotta understand that if u say ur ugly ur unintentionally calling her subhuman too 😭
 
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not like i get any but if were to get a complement I would think its a backhanded one that's trying to make fun of me
that's prob from years of bullying and shit
What are u a fucking female? Holy shit u guys cringe me out
 
U gotta understand that if u say ur ugly ur unintentionally calling her subhuman too 😭
It’s not that though, sheis white. I am a mixed race subhuman who looks fucked up
 
everytime i get a complement or get asked for my number or genernaly any intereaction with a girl my brain signals danger or sumthing . i always have to make sure its not a prank which would lead me to embarresment
 
Lmk ur coordinates so I can pick up ur loot when you do it
Sorry but i will give everything I own to the first pretty white girl to listen to my story online
 
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not like i get any but if were to get a complement I would think its a backhanded one that's trying to make fun of me
that's prob from years of bullying and shit
Same bro. I used to not believe criticism and compliments either. If a person gives u a compliment with no context, out of nowhere then 99% chance they saw and liked what he complimented u abt. If someone said it while being in a group then it's 50/50, you never know. You can pay attention to other peoples reactions to see if the compliment was real, they could be doing that for being noticed. i personally would never compliment a dude walking by or my classmates with a new haircut without mutiality with my group. Its awkward. I earlier said 99%, because people can give u compliments to make u like them or for personal goals, just observe and you'll know.

If you are complimented twice abt something from different people not in a joking manner of tone, then 99.9% its real. Well its also abt if ur social circle gives out compliments (school, street, anywhere)
 

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