Live cold approach thread

[DoctorLooksmax]

Time for us to have some lols and farm reacts.

I will be approaching girls and posting the experiences in this thread as I approach. I was also try and stealth some pictures and maybe even do some shit or approach girls bassed on users here reccomendations if im feeling super low inhib

wish me luck boyos

 

[ifyouwannabemylover]

 

[ropemax]

@SMESH what getting a 7 from a stacylite does to a mf

 

[Deleted member 9779]

Time for us to have some lols and farm reacts.

I will be approaching girls and posting the experiences in this thread as I approach. I was also try and stealth some pictures and maybe even do some shit or approach girls bassed on users here reccomendations if im feeling super low inhib

wish me luck boyos

You will go to jail for doing this.
Will you film that too ?

 

[Deleted member 15577]

@SMESH what getting a 7 from a stacylite does to a mf

These youngins don’t understand that cold-approaching is chads territory

 

[the BULL]

brutal. that could have been me tonight if i wasn't depressed

 

[Deleted member 16371]

End it

 

[Deleted member 2382]

in

 

[ChickenAndRiceBrah]

In for slayers.org content

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I’ve left my flat and am walking to the strip- I’m wearing my north face puffer jacket and underneath I have a slim fit t shirt 1 size too small for me so you can just about telll I lift despite my low bodyfat. I’m wearing 2 inc lifts which boost me to about 6’1.5’’

I’ve also got a backwards baseball cap on but can’t decide whether to leave that or not I feel like it gives me an added edge wit the fuckboy vibe it brings but also is semi try hadlrd

I’m sucking on a mango vape during the walk t feel less awkward about being alone

 

[Korea]

Tag me bro.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Got to the high street the groups out seem to be very laddish Northerners or ethnic bad boys, I will struggle to compete with them for slutmaxxed Brit girls due to pheno .

There’s a bar I went t the other week with work mates that suited my pheno a bit better but I walked past it and it looked a bit quiet so I’m worried I’ll get rejected entry due to being alone like last time

Might approach on te street

One girl came to me to ask for a lighter but I failed at initiating any convo beyond that- perhaps a wasted oppurtunity

 

[Deleted member 12217]

Time for us to have some lols and farm reacts.

I will be approaching girls and posting the experiences in this thread as I approach. I was also try and stealth some pictures and maybe even do some shit or approach girls bassed on users here reccomendations if im feeling super low inhib

wish me luck boyos

Then it’s a win win. You get her number you win and you get rejected you get jfl reacts

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Been here for like 20 minutes and just downed a pair of canned g and t a from the shop to try and lose my inhibitions a bit/ so far I only talked to one girl- the bar I want to go to still looks a bit quiet and I thinking of waiting for it to be a bit busier

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Phase 1 successfull - I have made it inside the bar and it’s pretty crowded tbh but is more millennials than I expected - neee to try and find a girl who isn’t exclusively into tattoo maxxed badboys

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Tried approaching 1 girl at the bar just opened making eye contact and saying ‘does it always take this fuckint long to get a drink here christ’

She looked at me and said nothing but gave an IOD, tbh not sure she heard what I said properly but onto the next

 

[Deleted member 16801]

Tried approaching 1 girl at the bar just opened making eye contact and saying ‘does it always take this fuckint long to get a drink here christ’

She looked at me and said nothing but gave an IOD, tbh not sure she heard what I said properly but onto the next

Keep us updated. These are always fun to read

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Keep us updated. These are always fun to read

Really struggling tbh - place is full of oldies and not busy enough

 

[Deleted member 16371]

Really struggling tbh - place is full of oldies and not busy enough

This is 2022 April mate. Tbh

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

I’m sucking on a mango vape during the walk t feel less awkward about being alone

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

actually managed to get a staceylites instagram but 9sure nothing will come of it

I’ll do a full write up when I’m home we’re actually some pretty funny stories

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

So I was walking around and this girl shouts and me and says ‘nice arms’

It’s refreshing to know it’s still noticeable I lift even at 73kg if I’m in a fitted top.

I start chatting to this girl and she’s pretty ugly tbh but it’s the first bit of attention I’ve got all night so I role with it

She’s says to me you’re not my type cos you’ve not got a beard and I’ve already git with two guys tonight but my friend says you’ve been looking at her.

The friend looks at me and giggles a bit and she’s legit HTN maybe even staceylite to some and I was looking at her tbh considering an approach but I bottled it

I’m tryna flirt with the fit girl now and it’s going semi okay, she didn’t seem super attracted to me but she wasn’t giving me indicators of disgust either. Like she was putting equal effort into the conversation, but at the same time she wasn’t giving me indicators to escalate sexually.

They asked my age and I larped as 21, then they said something about my looking sporty and I larped that I’m a rugby player whic she seems to like and the i flexed my arm and let them squeeze it

Then something funny happened- the ugly girl whispers something in her fit friends ear and they both laugh. I as what they’re talking about? The ugly girl then says to me turn to the side so I can see the side of your face and then they both laugh again. Then the ugly girl shouts out ‘big nose = big dick’

So everything’s going semi decet with this girl but I’m struggling to escalate sexually in anyway. It’s sort of like I’m meeting the requirement to talk to her and give her some validation but not enough to do anything sexual with her.

Then the girl asks the dreaded ‘where are your mates question’. I say they’re downstairs I just came up here to talk to you cos you’re cute. Then she goes I bet your lying you came here alone ti try and pull didn’t you- she said it in a giggling laughing way. I maintained my friends were downstairs and even used that as an excuse to ask for her number saying I was about to go get a drink with her but wanted her number before I left. She gave me her Instagram instead which to me is a sign of low interest. I then Tryed to lean in for a kiss but got a hug instead. At this point I decided ti call it a night because the venue just wasn’t busy enough and had too many millennials so it was painfully obvious I was there alone

@6ft4 what did you do when you encountered situations where girls called you out for being alone? Must have happened to you many times. I’m looking back and in hindsight I feel like I should’ve just owned and it said yea I’m here alone just wanted to come out for a drink and socialise and no mates fancied it. It was painfully obvious I was alone so lying about it probably just showed shame and that I was embraced /felt awkward about the situation

 

[Deleted member 2382]

@6ft4 what did you do when you encountered situations where girls called you out for being alone? Must have happened to you many times. I’m looking back and in hindsight I feel like I should’ve just owned and it said yea I’m here alone just wanted to come out for a drink and socialise and no mates fancied it. It was painfully obvious I was alone so lying about it probably just showed shame and that I was embraced /felt awkward about the situation

I usually lied if the venue was busy
Tangent story of me successfully lying:

Spoiler

I once pulled a girl that was a bit better than what I'd usually get an instant one night stand from
We were sitting at the seats closest to the exit and she was asking me questions about my friends a few times since I approached her (even though she was by herself when I approached and I didn't see her friends either)
Then some guy that I spent like 20 minutes talking to earlier in the night walked by and I signal to him and he comes over and we talk for like 30 seconds then he goes away. As soon as I told her he was my mate and called him over her face lit up as if to suggest she now deemed me worthy because I larped that the NT looking HTN guy I spoke to was a friend of mine and not just some guy I met that night.
She left the club with me right after that and I got her back to mine to slay

I can't remember many times telling girls that I was out by myself but honestly I would be willing to do it now since I'm not that attached to the outcomes of interactions anymore and wouldn't care if some girl made a joke about it

Mirin the girls talking about your gymcel physique

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I usually lied if the venue was busy
Tangent story of me successfully lying:

Spoiler

I once pulled a girl that was a bit better than what I'd usually get an instant one night stand from
We were sitting at the seats closest to the exit and she was asking me questions about my friends a few times since I approached her (even though she was by herself when I approached and I didn't see her friends either)
Then some guy that I spent like 20 minutes talking to earlier in the night walked by and I signal to him and he comes over and we talk for like 30 seconds then he goes away. As soon as I told her he was my mate and called him over her face lit up as if to suggest she now deemed me worthy because I larped that the NT looking HTN guy I spoke to was a friend of mine and not just some guy I met that night.
She left the club with me right after that and I got her back to mine to slay

I can't remember many times telling girls that I was out by myself but honestly I would be willing to do it now since I'm not that attached to the outcomes of interactions anymore and wouldn't care if some girl made a joke about it

Mirin the girls talking about your gymcel physique

I remember watching some ToddV stuff and specifically a video where he talks about going out to bars by yourself and he said you should just say youre there alone and girls will be impressed by your confidence. Tbh at the time I thought it was a cope he peddled to try and get you to buy into his game shit but now im wondering if there might be something to it. I mean I think a lot of young girls and especially studnets would be massively turned off by at because theyre obsessed with cliques and who knows who, but I wonder if a slightly older 21-25 year old foid could be miring a gymcelled, sigma-type male out cold approaching solo?

Or maybe im just 100% coping and its love island hyper NT jack the lad slayer or death?

 

[Hueless]

These youngins don’t understand that cold-approaching is chads territory


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These damn young buddyboy bucko whippersnappers

 

[Deleted member 2382]

I remember watching some ToddV stuff and specifically a video where he talks about going out to bars by yourself and he said you should just say youre there alone and girls will be impressed by your confidence. Tbh at the time I thought it was a cope he peddled to try and get you to buy into his game shit but now im wondering if there might be something to it. I mean I think a lot of young girls and especially studnets would be massively turned off by at because theyre obsessed with cliques and who knows who, but I wonder if a slightly older 21-25 year old foid could be miring a gymcelled, sigma-type male out cold approaching solo?

Or maybe im just 100% coping and its love island hyper NT jack the lad slayer or death?

You should actually say you're out by yourself next time and see what happens
I will do the same next time I go out

 

[Deleted member 17763]

It’s sort of like I’m meeting the requirement to talk to her and give her some validation but not enough to do anything sexual with her.

The experience of being a normie summed up in one sentence lol

 

[geezcel]

I remember watching some ToddV stuff and specifically a video where he talks about going out to bars by yourself and he said you should just say youre there alone and girls will be impressed by your confidence. Tbh at the time I thought it was a cope he peddled to try and get you to buy into his game shit but now im wondering if there might be something to it. I mean I think a lot of young girls and especially studnets would be massively turned off by at because theyre obsessed with cliques and who knows who, but I wonder if a slightly older 21-25 year old foid could be miring a gymcelled, sigma-type male out cold approaching solo?

Or maybe im just 100% coping and its love island hyper NT jack the lad slayer or death?

i go for a few pints alone sometimes it’s not too uncommon but I guess it’s weirder if you’re younger, more acceptable past your early-mid 20s so yeah younger girls will likely be less accepting of it, esp uni students

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

i go for a few pints alone sometimes it’s not too uncommon but I guess it’s weirder if you’re younger, more acceptable past your early-mid 20s so yeah younger girls will likely be less accepting of it, esp uni students

these girls werent students tbh- the hot one told me shes a teaching assistant at a primary school

next time im asked im just gonna say im there by myself than bother with the mental gymnastics of trying to lie - im not sure it will be effective or not but im just curious as to what foids reactions will be if I own it a bit more and dont show shame

 

[bogii]

but you have balls, respect bro

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Foid who I was tryna flirt with last nigh and swapped instagram with- not sure there’s any point messaging her unless I wait till next weekend and could go to the same bar and be like you out this weekend?

Imo she was defo one of the fittest girls at this bar - but it was only about 100 people and maybe 30-35 girls , of which half were boomers so maybe that says more about the quality of foids where I went than her

What do you rate
@ChickenAndRiceBrah
@6ft4
@geezcel

 

[alriodai]

these girls werent students tbh- the hot one told me shes a teaching assistant at a primary school

next time im asked im just gonna say im there by myself than bother with the mental gymnastics of trying to lie - im not sure it will be effective or not but im just curious as to what foids reactions will be if I own it a bit more and dont show shame

Dude trust me girls can tell if you’re lying or not
Be true to yourself and to her and you can get the bitch. Be real ngl

 

[Deleted member 2382]

Foid who I was tryna flirt with last nigh and swapped instagram with- not sure there’s any point messaging her unless I wait till next weekend and could go to the same bar and be like you out this weekend?

Imo she was defo one of the fittest girls at this bar - but it was only about 100 people and maybe 30-35 girls , of which half were boomers so maybe that says more about the quality of foids where I went than her

What do you rate
@ChickenAndRiceBrah
@6ft4
@geezcel

not my taste but seems better than most foids youll find in bars
I've never been able to get anywhere with a girl i swapped instas with if i didn't slay her the night of meeting

 

[ChickenAndRiceBrah]

i go for a few pints alone sometimes it’s not too uncommon but I guess it’s weirder if you’re younger, more acceptable past your early-mid 20s so yeah younger girls will likely be less accepting of it, esp uni students

Have barely ever gone drinking solo, when I have its just been airport or train station bars while I wait for something and approaching or pulling isn't even on my mind, but every now and again I go eat out somewhere alone if no one else is up for it and that doesn't seem especially non NT so I guess it can't be much worse than that

 

[ChickenAndRiceBrah]

Foid who I was tryna flirt with last nigh and swapped instagram with- not sure there’s any point messaging her unless I wait till next weekend and could go to the same bar and be like you out this weekend?

Imo she was defo one of the fittest girls at this bar - but it was only about 100 people and maybe 30-35 girls , of which half were boomers so maybe that says more about the quality of foids where I went than her

What do you rate
@ChickenAndRiceBrah
@6ft4
@geezcel

HTB maybe Stacylite if she has a good body, fogs most if not all of my slays

Also you should try telling your real age and see if that changes anything, tbh I knew some foids at uni that claimed they preferred mid-late 20s guys over student age guys but that might be cope and irrelevant especially if you're going to explicitly student nights or bars

 

[geezcel]

Foid who I was tryna flirt with last nigh and swapped instagram with- not sure there’s any point messaging her unless I wait till next weekend and could go to the same bar and be like you out this weekend?

Imo she was defo one of the fittest girls at this bar - but it was only about 100 people and maybe 30-35 girls , of which half were boomers so maybe that says more about the quality of foids where I went than her

What do you rate
@ChickenAndRiceBrah
@6ft4
@geezcel

looks good to me, worth chatting to and attempting to slay, nothing to lose in trying

Have barely ever gone drinking solo, when I have its just been airport or train station bars while I wait for something and approaching or pulling isn't even on my mind, but every now and again I go eat out somewhere alone if no one else is up for it and that doesn't seem especially non NT so I guess it can't be much worse than that

it does feel aspie at first tbh but I’m used to it now, I travel with work and will usually be in a different city for a few nights so will go for dinner n pints on my own. jfl I kind of like it tho

 

[tyronelite]

Just put your phone in your chest pocket & record your interactions

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

It’s refreshing to know it’s still noticeable I lift even at 73kg if I’m in a fitted top.

You a manlet?

You sure this was the UK like 1/1000 in my city

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

You a manlet?

You sure this was the UK like 1/1000 in my city

I’m 182cm

And yes I’m sure mate didn’t fall asleep on the train and end up in Scandi

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

I’m 182cm

And yes I’m sure mate didn’t fall asleep on the train and end up in Scandi

What body fat then? you must be really top heavy though ngl

Lmfao that would be the best outcome lets be fair

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

What body fat then? you must be really top heavy though ngl

Lmfao that would be the best outcome lets be fair

Pretty low like 12%. And yeah I got no legs - maybe be high 70s if I did

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

My physique @SendMePicsToRate

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

Pretty low like 12%. And yeah I got no legs - maybe be high 70s if I did

That makes sense, I am 186 and 77kg at 13% but looks nothing like that lmfao because I have it all in my legs. Interesting to see the reverse though tbh.

My physique @SendMePicsToRate

Honestly that seems like it would hold up pretty well irl especially with a smaller shirt

 

[mulattomaxxer]

So I was walking around and this girl shouts and me and says ‘nice arms’

It’s refreshing to know it’s still noticeable I lift even at 73kg if I’m in a fitted top.

I start chatting to this girl and she’s pretty ugly tbh but it’s the first bit of attention I’ve got all night so I role with it

She’s says to me you’re not my type cos you’ve not got a beard and I’ve already git with two guys tonight but my friend says you’ve been looking at her.

The friend looks at me and giggles a bit and she’s legit HTN maybe even staceylite to some and I was looking at her tbh considering an approach but I bottled it

I’m tryna flirt with the fit girl now and it’s going semi okay, she didn’t seem super attracted to me but she wasn’t giving me indicators of disgust either. Like she was putting equal effort into the conversation, but at the same time she wasn’t giving me indicators to escalate sexually.

They asked my age and I larped as 21, then they said something about my looking sporty and I larped that I’m a rugby player whic she seems to like and the i flexed my arm and let them squeeze it

Then something funny happened- the ugly girl whispers something in her fit friends ear and they both laugh. I as what they’re talking about? The ugly girl then says to me turn to the side so I can see the side of your face and then they both laugh again. Then the ugly girl shouts out ‘big nose = big dick’

So everything’s going semi decet with this girl but I’m struggling to escalate sexually in anyway. It’s sort of like I’m meeting the requirement to talk to her and give her some validation but not enough to do anything sexual with her.

Then the girl asks the dreaded ‘where are your mates question’. I say they’re downstairs I just came up here to talk to you cos you’re cute. Then she goes I bet your lying you came here alone ti try and pull didn’t you- she said it in a giggling laughing way. I maintained my friends were downstairs and even used that as an excuse to ask for her number saying I was about to go get a drink with her but wanted her number before I left. She gave me her Instagram instead which to me is a sign of low interest. I then Tryed to lean in for a kiss but got a hug instead. At this point I decided ti call it a night because the venue just wasn’t busy enough and had too many millennials so it was painfully obvious I was there alone

@6ft4 what did you do when you encountered situations where girls called you out for being alone? Must have happened to you many times. I’m looking back and in hindsight I feel like I should’ve just owned and it said yea I’m here alone just wanted to come out for a drink and socialise and no mates fancied it. It was painfully obvious I was alone so lying about it probably just showed shame and that I was embraced /felt awkward about the situation

Mirin tbh. The teacher was cute. I have never been out by myself in the UK. I like the idea of it but I feel its difficult because people in the UK aren't that friendly towards complete strangers. People go out in their own social circles. Easiest way in is through a mutual friend.

I feel that alot of people don't go out to meet new people. They tend to go out to have a good times with there friends.

Maybe try going to a singles night at a uni bar?

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Mirin tbh. The teacher was cute. I have never been out by myself in the UK. I like the idea of it but I feel its difficult because people in the UK aren't that friendly towards complete strangers. People go out in their own social circles. Easiest way in is through a mutual friend.

I feel that alot of people don't go out to meet new people. They tend to go out to have a good times with there friends.

Maybe try going to a singles night at a uni bar?

Yes in the UK people tend to be hostile towards those outside their social circle. Perhaps the culture leads to people being more cliquey than other countries?

I thought the teacher girl was really attractive tbh - like just my type. But honestly her interest level in me didn’t seem that high and when I lied about not being there alone I felt like I’d been majorly caught out and she could tell so I just decided to call it a night at that point. Te bar was only 5 min walk from my flat and I just had two gin and tonics as pre drinks by myself + had nothing better to do that night so I guess im glad I went out and atleast tried to flirt with an attractive girl vs staying in shitposting on psl and fapping

 

[mulattomaxxer]

Yes in the UK people tend to be hostile towards those outside their social circle. Perhaps the culture leads to people being more cliquey than other countries?

I thought the teacher girl was really attractive tbh - like just my type. But honestly her interest level in me didn’t seem that high and when I lied about not being there alone I felt like I’d been majorly caught out and she could tell so I just decided to call it a night at that point. Te bar was only 5 min walk from my flat and I just had two gin and tonics as pre drinks by myself + had nothing better to do that night so I guess im glad I went out and atleast tried to flirt with an attractive girl vs staying in shitposting on psl and fapping

People from outisde the UK tend to be more friendly from my experience. Its a culture thing. I remember at school having it drilled into our heads to not trust strangers. Combined with all the horror stories the media pumps out it makes it hard to trust strangers. Finally the internet is a death sentence for developing normal social skills. Shy people will also act unfriendly. I still meet friendly people that are young, its just harder then people make it out to be.

The teacher girl was really attractive lol. She looks HQNP.

UK Stacy checklist
1. Cute face
2. No heavy makeup fraud or fake tan
3. Not fat

I could not ask for more. Fair enough calling it a night after that. Atleast you tried.

 

[Pakicel]

Honestly that seems like it would hold up pretty well irl especially with a smaller shirt

First time you have ever complimented a dude. Thought, you'd just call his body crap and pick out minor flaws.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

First time you have ever complimented a dude. Thought, you'd just call his body crap and pick out minor flaws.

Phahah I don't know enough about body aesthetics beyond be lean, be big and have V.

Although might be over for op's 4 pack genetics

 

[Pakicel]

Although might be over for op's 4 pack genetics

And now you are back.

I bet you'd make even prime Gandy feel insecure.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

lightest weight ive ever been in my life today and tempted to go out cold approaching again and I have not a lot else better to do

People from outisde the UK tend to be more friendly from my experience. Its a culture thing. I remember at school having it drilled into our heads to not trust strangers. Combined with all the horror stories the media pumps out it makes it hard to trust strangers. Finally the internet is a death sentence for developing normal social skills. Shy people will also act unfriendly. I still meet friendly people that are young, its just harder then people make it out to be.

The teacher girl was really attractive lol. She looks HQNP.

UK Stacy checklist
1. Cute face
2. No heavy makeup fraud or fake tan
3. Not fat

I could not ask for more. Fair enough calling it a night after that. Atleast you tried.

Problems with the place last time were

-Not crowded enough it was really obvious I was therer alone
-Too many boomers, combined with a shitty male/female ratio, it meant there were only 20 odd young foids in the bar, and most were in groups of like 4 or 5 dancing in a circle which makes it really fucking hard to approach. Also if you approach and get shot down by one girl in a group its basically over for you with that whole group. This meant I had a very limited number of shots to shoot before I was all out of metaphorical bullets.
-I dont wanna go to the ame place every week as the bouncer may start recognising me and think im a rapist or spiker

Anyway its 7pm now, not sure whtether to bother with gym today as Ive had a pint which had killed my moptivation and I wanna get food- I might wait an hour then go, if I end up going out to approach after that ill update this thread