studiocel
virgin but not incel
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As a guy the current culture has made it incredibly easy to get a girlfriend
It’s literally so easy, the standards have dropped because of how bad other dudes have been fucking up. Think about it: At this point women just want someone that isn’t 1.)A man child 2.)Clean 3.)In a somewhat decent shape (and not even all of them want that!). In college I heard so many horror stories about Nice Guys. If you can’t be better than thinking someone owes you a relationship because you had basic human decency, then you really shouldn’t be in a relationship anyway.
Have a job, have a personality and your own interest, have a goal, have a spine, and you’ll have an easy time. Also dating apps are trash just go talk to her.
Also, uninstall Instagram. A lot of guys I know struggling to find a relationship are the same dudes spending all their free time scroll through Photoshopped Instagram models and expecting all women to look like that. Dumb dumbs, those women’s entire livelihood depends on how they look. Are you putting in that same degree of effort into how you look? We both know the answer.
Do be clean and be in shape (or not, dad bods are in.) Do be willing to acknowledge your mistakes.
A lot of you guys have defeatist minds sets, you’ll find any reason why you’re alone and perpetuate it in your every action and you won’t even know it. Yes if you are on the Spectrum this post does nothing for you, it will be more difficult for you. And I will concede, location does matter. But for 90% of you, you just don’t understand that women are actually just men but with vaginas (sometimes, not everyone’s the same… It’s tricky you’ll understand when you’re older.)
It’s literally so easy, the standards have dropped because of how bad other dudes have been fucking up. Think about it: At this point women just want someone that isn’t 1.)A man child 2.)Clean 3.)In a somewhat decent shape (and not even all of them want that!). In college I heard so many horror stories about Nice Guys. If you can’t be better than thinking someone owes you a relationship because you had basic human decency, then you really shouldn’t be in a relationship anyway.
Have a job, have a personality and your own interest, have a goal, have a spine, and you’ll have an easy time. Also dating apps are trash just go talk to her.
Also, uninstall Instagram. A lot of guys I know struggling to find a relationship are the same dudes spending all their free time scroll through Photoshopped Instagram models and expecting all women to look like that. Dumb dumbs, those women’s entire livelihood depends on how they look. Are you putting in that same degree of effort into how you look? We both know the answer.
Do be clean and be in shape (or not, dad bods are in.) Do be willing to acknowledge your mistakes.
A lot of you guys have defeatist minds sets, you’ll find any reason why you’re alone and perpetuate it in your every action and you won’t even know it. Yes if you are on the Spectrum this post does nothing for you, it will be more difficult for you. And I will concede, location does matter. But for 90% of you, you just don’t understand that women are actually just men but with vaginas (sometimes, not everyone’s the same… It’s tricky you’ll understand when you’re older.)
