Looks are ruining my life

[Benjibanks]

My life is basically being ruined by my looks. I’m a 28 yr male and I’ve been friend zoned by a girl that was legit in love with me. I am terrible with people and girls because I can’t stop thinking about my looks. I’ve been complimented but after hearing truth from this forum I’ve realized to dismiss these lies from people men and women alike.
Please tell me what i should do. Pics are below I’ve been told to lose weight, working on it. And that I need a bimax and under eye orbital implants. Please tell me if there is anything else or immediate that I can do. Thanks

 

[alriodai]

why u squinting so hard jfl at u u dont look like any of theses hunter slayers and ur fucking low tier normie just act NT and football type fan and ur good u fucken faggot

 

[Deleted member 9274]

Ur looks didnt ruin ur life. Ur mind did. If u had the mental strength to fix it then you wouldnt even make this thread

 

[fras]

 

[ChangeOfHeart]

Listening to the autists on this forum to the point where it ruins your relationships...

Not being harsh, but gymaxxx, and stop taking thing posted here seriously. I NEVER see gymmaxxed incels.

 

[Saoirsecel]

U look ok just too high body fat

 

[Deleted member 8699]

My life is basically being ruined by my looks. I’m a 28 yr male and I’ve been friend zoned by a girl that was legit in love with me. I am terrible with people and girls because I can’t stop thinking about my looks. I’ve been complimented but after hearing truth from this forum I’ve realized to dismiss these lies from people men and women alike.
Please tell me what i should do. Pics are below I’ve been told to lose weight, working on it. And that I need a bimax and under eye orbital implants. Please tell me if there is anything else or immediate that I can do. Thanks

papa hammy 2.0?

 

[Rich/Jewish_Gooner$]

i feel you

 

[Deleted member 5859]

Even if you’re 10/10 aint no one in this forum gonna give u compliments

 

[DicedFeta]

Don't be so serious about it. Looks is only one aspect of life but it can affect all other if you let it. Chads life is easy but you're not chad and will never be. Be somewhat satisfied with who you actually are and work on yourself but enjoy the god damn journey.

 

[Deleted member 4106]

Lol you look good, good lower third, sturdy skull.
You are 28 years old, it’s time to develop skills nt

 

[Benjibanks]

Even if you’re 10/10 aint no one in this forum gonna give u compliments

I don’t want compliments I want truth. People calling me normie or low tier so I figure that’s the truth

 

[Benjibanks]

Don't be so serious about it. Looks is only one aspect of life but it can affect all other if you let it. Chads life is easy but you're not chad and will never be. Be somewhat satisfied with who you actually are and work on yourself but enjoy the god damn journey.

I can’t enjoy the journey because chad life is the only one worth while

 

[Deleted member 5859]

I don’t want compliments I want truth. People calling me normie or low tier so I figure that’s the truth

You could slip in with looksmaxing into normie tier, or upper by a bit

 

[Benjibanks]

Lol you look good, good lower third, sturdy skull.
You are 28 years old, it’s time to develop skills nt

Like three other people here said i look like shit. Girls ignore me or are nice just to be polite.

 

[Benjibanks]

You could slip in with looksmaxing into normie tier, or upper by a bit

Am I normie or low tier because every other thread I made here there were some saying low tier and most saying normie. Now you’re all calling me ugly

 

[FacialAesthetics]

I don’t want compliments I want truth. People calling me normie or low tier so I figure that’s the truth

So fucking deal with it. Who gives a fuck if you're a normie in looks. Normies can get gfs, even though they eventually get cucked anyway, and a girl will never see you the same way she sees hot dudes, but it's time to cope

You will NEVER be attractive, so who cares. Just be NT and you'll get a few party sluts

 

[Deleted member 4106]

Like three other people here said i look like shit. Girls ignore me or are nice just to be polite.

Don't take everything they say here seriously

 

[Benjibanks]

So fucking deal with it. Who gives a fuck if you're a normie in looks. Normies can get gfs, even though they eventually get cucked anyway, and a girl will never see you the same way she sees hot dudes, but it's time to cope

You will NEVER be attractive, so who cares. Just be NT and you'll get a few party sluts

Because I don’t want to lead a fucking pathetic life like you’re dipshit. Now fucking tell me what your using to gauge this and how I can fucking change to what I WANT you stupid ass shit

 

[Benjibanks]

Don't take everything they say here seriously

I can’t do this anymore. If I can’t be a hot guy I can’t live properly. I came here asking for help and so far I’ve been told lose weight and bimax. My face looks fat no matter what because of this fucking retruded maxilla shit

 

[Benjibanks]

So fucking deal with it. Who gives a fuck if you're a normie in looks. Normies can get gfs, even though they eventually get cucked anyway, and a girl will never see you the same way she sees hot dudes, but it's time to cope

You will NEVER be attractive, so who cares. Just be NT and you'll get a few party sluts

I never get party sluts either btw. And why would I want a girl that doesn’t see me as a man anyway. Please I can’t fucking do this I need to be hot

 

[FacialAesthetics]

Because I don’t want to lead a fucking pathetic life like you’re dipshit. Now fucking tell me what your using to gauge this and how I can fucking change to what I WANT you stupid ass shit

I'm not incel, you subhuman. I have a "girlfriend" and probably 7-10 side bitches.

If you weren't such a fat fuck you'd go and gymcel and look better. And also stop squinting. It looks so cringey and try hard.

After you gymcel and get to your "full potential" accept that this is for your fucking looks, and you'll get ugly bitches, and a few drunk sluts. And that's it. That's fucking life. Some are born lucky. Some aren't.

 

[DicedFeta]

Just stop whining like a little bitch expecting some magic. NOTHING here will save you. Maybe a real therapist will. Chadlife ain't happening for you, GET REAL and gtfo .

 

[Benjibanks]

I'm not incel, you subhuman. I have a "girlfriend" and probably 7-10 side bitches.

If you weren't such a fat fuck you'd go and gymcel and look better. And also stop squinting. It looks so cringey and try hard.

After you gymcel and get to your "full potential" accept that this is for your fucking looks, and you'll get ugly bitches, and a few drunk sluts. And that's it. That's fucking life. Some are born lucky. Some aren't.

I’m not fucking fat. I lift everyday. My face looks like shit because of no bones

 

[Benjibanks]

Just stop whining like a little bitch expecting some magic. NOTHING here will save you. Maybe a real therapist will. Chadlife ain't happening for you, GET REAL and gtfo .

So I’m not gonna bother with the bimax then

 

[homo_faber]

I can’t do this anymore. If I can’t be a hot guy I can’t live properly. I came here asking for help and so far I’ve been told lose weight and bimax. My face looks fat no matter what because of this fucking retruded maxilla shit

most guys are not hot yet are in relationships and have an okay life

just accept that you will not be one of the hot guys and move on

 

[FacialAesthetics]

So I’m not gonna bother with the bimax then

Bimax is a meme surgery

 

[Deleted member 10536]

most guys are not hot yet are in relationships and have an okay life

just accept that you will not be one of the hot guys and move on

What does most even mean? Most guys aren't in a relationship and are sexless...

 

[owlofathena]

Can we get more but with good lighting

 

[Benjibanks]

most guys are not hot yet are in relationships and have an okay life

just accept that you will not be one of the hot guys and move on

Look this is a pic from today. I lost ten fucking pound I still look like shit.

 

[Benjibanks]

Can we get more but with good lighting

I just posted on in a reply here it is again. I lost ten pound on the diet probably a lot of water weight but I was 183 now I’m 171. Still facially look like shit and still have fat on my lower stomach.

 

[homo_faber]

Bimax is a meme surgery

i saw his profile on another forum it wouldnt be a meme surgery. but op isnt getting any surgeries so no point in discussing it further

Look this is a pic from today. I lost ten fucking pound I still look like shit.

yes you look recessed but we both know you wont get jaw surgery so just accept it. mediocre look which will get worse in the following years though agepill

chad life was never meant for you. it is what it is

yo can still have a decent happy life with family etc

 

[Benjibanks]

i saw his profile on another forum it wouldnt be a meme surgery. but op isnt getting any surgeries so no point in discussing it further


yes you look recessed but we both know you wont get jaw surgery so just accept it. mediocre look which will get worse in the following years though agepill

chad life was never meant for you. it is what it is

yo can still have a decent happy life with family etc

You’re talking like I wasn’t ready to get the nomad which apparently still won’t make me chad or anything close to it. The fucking insurance stopped and I don’t have 20000 to spend on it otherwise I’d have gotten it already.

 

[Benjibanks]

Just stop whining like a little bitch expecting some magic. NOTHING here will save you. Maybe a real therapist will. Chadlife ain't happening for you, GET REAL and gtfo .

So what is chad to you. Because there’s fucking people here that say if you literally look like Jordan barret you’re fucked. Not saying you’re saying that. I just wanna know what I’m being compared to

 

[homo_faber]

You’re talking like I wasn’t ready to get the nomad which apparently still won’t make me chad or anything close to it. The fucking insurance stopped and I don’t have 20000 to spend on it otherwise I’d have gotten it already.

ah i didnt know that, well you doesnt change the fact that you can stil have a decent life. its not like you giga deformed. you a normal looking dude. be happy

 

[Benjibanks]

ah i didnt know that, well you doesnt change the fact that you can stil have a decent life. its not like you giga deformed. you a normal looking dude. be happy

I’m not. And I ruined things with this one girl so now I don’t even have her. No I’m sorry she’s my friend which means only a matter of time before she finds a real man and leaves my ass.

 

[Benjibanks]

i saw his profile on another forum it wouldnt be a meme surgery. but op isnt getting any surgeries so no point in discussing it further


yes you look recessed but we both know you wont get jaw surgery so just accept it. mediocre look which will get worse in the following years though agepill

chad life was never meant for you. it is what it is

yo can still have a decent happy life with family etc

Also what are you talking about by it wouldn’t be a meme. Am I really missing out on being chadlite or some shit just because of bimax?

 

[Venix]

He has the most who is content with the least. You’re normal, be grateful atleast you can have a girl if you take better care of yourself and get rid of this mindset. It’s all in your head.

 

[FacialAesthetics]

I wonder why you're so bloated from the front yet more defined in side or 3/4 view

 

[owlofathena]

I just posted on in a reply here it is again. I lost ten pound on the diet probably a lot of water weight but I was 183 now I’m 171. Still facially look like shit and still have fat on my lower stomach.

your eyes are a little too far apart. Plus scelra show and infraorbitals are recessed

 

[Venix]

I’m not. And I ruined things with this one girl so now I don’t even have her. No I’m sorry she’s my friend which means only a matter of time before she finds a real man and leaves my ass.

Exactly why she left you, you don’t even see yourself as a real man, and you don’t like the way you look. Why would she? Others can’t love you if you don’t love yourself.

 

[owlofathena]

So what is chad to you. Because there’s fucking people here that say if you literally look like Jordan barret you’re fucked. Not saying you’re saying that. I just wanna know what I’m being compared to

NCT as well btw

 

[Benjibanks]

I wonder why you're so bloated from the front yet more defined in side or 3/4 view

I don’t know. People tell me my pics don’t look like me irl but I’ve tried everything and the front always looks like I’m ten pounds heavier.

 

[Benjibanks]

Exactly why she left you, you don’t even see yourself as a real man, and you don’t like the way you look. Why would she? Others can’t love you if you don’t love yourself.

I don’t because no one should. I thought all this self love shit was delusional.

 

[Bert7]

OP I believe inner work would serve you much better than improving your aesthetics. Honestly blaming your appearance is a cop out. Be accountable to yourself and very honest about your behaviors. You're too old to be getting friend zoned.

 

[Benjibanks]

OP I believe inner work would serve you much better than improving your aesthetics. Honestly blaming your appearance is a cop out. Be accountable to yourself and very honest about your behaviors. You're too old to be getting friend zoned.

Alright lemme just explain how I think and I thought this forum thought the same way. I read about blackpill years ago and basically I think this. If you aren’t considered hot chadlite or better life is a joke. That’s it. All the inner work in the world won’t fix that. Believe me I’m not someone that likes to just give up but this is the first time in my life I’ve truly felt like there isn’t a point in fighting

 

[Benjibanks]

NCT as well btw

Is mewing a thing? Not the pineal gland shit or test boosting but the movement or maxilla part? At this point face pulling or mewing is my best plan for the maxilla.

 

[Rabbi]

Die in a hole faggot at least you have hair

 

[owlofathena]

Is mewing a thing? Not the pineal gland shit or test boosting but the movement or maxilla part? At this point face pulling or mewing is my best plan for the maxilla.

not at 28 just get bimax if you want it

 

[Benjibanks]

not at 28 just get bimax if you want it

I do. I’m just hoping it’s not a cope. It’s the money that’s stopping me