Looks are subjective, beauty is in the eye of the beholder

[Deleted member 18515]

In my opinion, nobody can “be” physically attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all have different types of people that we’re attracted to, and claiming that someone “is” ugly is subjective.

Someone I am attracted to may not be the same person my best friend is attracted to. And I don’t think it’s right to like someone just because of the way they look.

Nowadays each gender has this body image that we feel that we are supposed to conform to. Those who don’t fit that image may feel like they aren’t good enough or feel like nobody will like them because they don’t look like a model.

When someone says that another person is “out of their league,” I don’t get it because physical attractiveness tells you nothing about what type of person they are. And nobody is so great that you should feel like you can’t date them.

 

[Korea]

Wrong.

 

[TrestIsBest]

 

[Deleted member 9467]

half true

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

In my opinion, nobody can “be” physically attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all have different types of people that we’re attracted to, and claiming that someone “is” ugly is subjective.

Someone I am attracted to may not be the same person my best friend is attracted to. And I don’t think it’s right to like someone just because of the way they look.

Nowadays each gender has this body image that we feel that we are supposed to conform to. Those who don’t fit that image may feel like they aren’t good enough or feel like nobody will like them because they don’t look like a model.

When someone says that another person is “out of their league,” I don’t get it because physical attractiveness tells you nothing about what type of person they are. And nobody is so great that you should feel like you can’t date them.

Dumbest take I have ever read on this forum

 

[Deleted member 18515]

what do you mean, this is how love works

 

[Deleted member 18515]

Wrong.

how is this wrong everyone is beautiful in their own ways

 

[alriodai]

Wrong.

He is not wrong but not right too
There is objectively beautiful features that everybody like
But sometimes theres some features that are unattractive and appeal because of the person harmony and ratios

meanwhile there is some people with good features and bad harmony and ratios that look like shit

Hes right as in if you pass the minimum beauty thereshold there will be ppl attracted to u

 

[Deleted member 18515]

Dumbest take I have ever read on this forum

people fall in love with different people

 

[Deleted member 18515]

He is not wrong but not right too
There is objectively beautiful features that everybody like
But sometimes theres some features that are unattractive and appeal because of the person harmony and ratios

meanwhile there is some people with good features and bad harmony and ratios that look like shit

Hes right as in if you pass the minimum beauty thereshold there will be ppl attracted to u

what are someone beautiful features everyone likes vs some that no one does?

 

[Unmoggablegingercel]

such a greycel post. not true at all. looks are attractive across the board regardless of race

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

people fall in love with different people

People fall in love with different types of attractive people

Unattractive people don't love each other, they settle for each other, there is no chemical high experienced

 

[Deleted member 18515]

half true

not half true, everyone is attractive to someone!

 

[exeight]

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In my opinion, nobody can “be” physically attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. We all have different types of people that we’re attracted to, and claiming that someone “is” ugly is subjective.

Someone I am attracted to may not be the same person my best friend is attracted to. And I don’t think it’s right to like someone just because of the way they look.

Nowadays each gender has this body image that we feel that we are supposed to conform to. Those who don’t fit that image may feel like they aren’t good enough or feel like nobody will like them because they don’t look like a model.

When someone says that another person is “out of their league,” I don’t get it because physical attractiveness tells you nothing about what type of person they are. And nobody is so great that you should feel like you can’t date them.

nope.... there IS a objective beauty

for example; im gonna post 2 pic of two different women... first girl = ana de armas second girl = a fat tiktok bitch
what do you think, most men will choose?

 

[TUSSELEIF]

Oh no redditors found the forum

 

[Deleted member 18515]

People fall in love with different types of attractive people

Unattractive people don't love each other, they settle for each other, there is no chemical high experienced

this is absolutely not true !

 

[Deleted member 18515]

n

nope.... there IS a objective beauty

for example; im gonna post 2 pic of two different women... first girl = ana de armas second girl = a fat tiktok bitch
what do you think, most men will choose?

some people like fat people!

 

[Korea]

how is this wrong everyone is beautiful in their own ways

Do you find these women attractive?

Do you find these women ugly?

 

[Deleted member 18515]

Do you find these women attractive?
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Do you find these women ugly?
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

What may seem attractive to you is unattractive to another person, likewise in reverse.

Attraction can’t be explained in such black and white terms.

also based on their personality i might find certain more attactive.

 

[exeight]

some people like fat people!

ye but just the minority and thats why there are fetishes

 

[Deleted member 18515]

Oh no redditors found the forum

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

What may seem attractive to you is unattractive to another person, likewise in reverse.

Attraction can’t be explained in such black and white terms.

 

[Deleted member 18515]

such a greycel post. not true at all. looks are attractive across the board regardless of race

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

What may seem attractive to you is unattractive to another person, likewise in reverse.

Attraction can’t be explained in such black and white terms.

 

[bogii]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

What may seem attractive to you is unattractive to another person, likewise in reverse.

Attraction can’t be explained in such black and white terms.

what the fuck you think those deformed faces do appeal to anyone non deformed?

 

[StrangerDanger]

Its just subjective between the different categories/niches of chads

 

[Constantin Denis]

I used to think beauty is in the eye of the beholder too. But I was so wrong

 

[exeight]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

What may seem attractive to you is unattractive to another person, likewise in reverse.

Attraction can’t be explained in such black and white terms.

also based on their personality i might find certain more attactive.

okay dude... its not worth to write here
for you its OVER

 

[Deleted member 18515]

what the fuck you think those deformed faces do appeal to anyone non deformed?

yes because the face tells a story

 

[Deleted member 18515]

I used to think beauty is in the eye of the beholder too. But I was so wrong

elabortate?

 

[Deleted member 18515]

okay dude... its not worth to write here
for you its OVER

??? do you know what true love is?

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

this is absolutely not true !

No it is completely true. Having been unattractive and being treated like absolute shit and then going through an absolute miracle ascension to not even have to put any effort into social interaction and people make it so easy for you.

If you are more conventionally attractive you will receive more attention which means you have more women to choose from who actually want to be with you vs women who think that they are settling.

 

[Korea]

He is not wrong but not right too
There is objectively beautiful features that everybody like
But sometimes theres some features that are unattractive and appeal because of the person harmony and ratios

meanwhile there is some people with good features and bad harmony and ratios that look like shit

Ratios are a large part of the objective quality a persons face has, so this is why no one likes horse faces.

You can't be unattractive with good ratios 100%.

But, having an ugly nose is bad regardless of your ratios, but once again this plays largely into objective beauty.

Hes right as in if you pass the minimum beauty thereshold there will be ppl attracted to u

Yes, but in his post he didn't say this, so I assume he's trying to say "There's always someone out there for someone" bs.

 

[StrangerDanger]

Youre the guy who started that flat cheekbones are ideal thread
100% troll

 

[TrestIsBest]

When someone says that another person is “out of their league,” I don’t get it because physical attractiveness tells you nothing about what type of person they are. And nobody is so great that you should feel like you can’t date them.

I don't completely disagree. It's stupid to not shoot your shot at a super hot girl just because you think you are out her league even though conditions are right. I remember approaching a girl in the club when I was 17 or so, not expecting anything to happen. And the fucking girl liked me back. ND I DIDNT KNOW HOW TO FUCKING REACT, I JUST FUCKING CHOCKED AND IN THE END THE INTERACTION DIED DOWN. Traumatized by this to this day as this was clearly the hottest girl (10/10 according to my personal preference) that I ever had a chance with.

She looked like this:

 

[Deleted member 18515]

Its just subjective between the different categories/niches of chads

but if chads have a bad personality ppl wont love them long term unlike people with good personalites!

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

 

[Korea]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

No it isn't.

What may seem attractive to you is unattractive to another person, likewise in reverse.

in 0.1% scenarios.

Attraction can’t be explained in such black and white terms.

Yes, it can and I just displayed how.

Answer my questions.

also based on their personality i might find certain more attactive.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

but if chads have a bad personality ppl wont love them long term unlike people with good personalites!

and if you are ugly then you won't be loved at all

 

[StrangerDanger]

but if chads have a bad personality ppl wont love them long term unlike people with good personalites!

mirin gaslighting

 

[KeepGrinding]

people fall in love with different people

@BeyondHope

We need your take on this.

 

[Deleted member 18515]

No it isn't.

in 0.1% scenarios.

Yes, it can and I just displayed how.

Answer my questions.

yes it is i like ppl my friends dont vice verse
and in long term relationships its down to personality

 

[TrestIsBest]

I don't completely disagree. It's stupid to not shoot your shot at a super hot girl just because you think you are out her league even though conditions are right. I remember approaching a girl in the club when I was 17 or so, not expecting anything to happen. And the fucking girl liked me back. ND I DIDNT KNOW HOW TO FUCKING REACT, I JUST FUCKING CHOCKED AND IN THE END THE INTERACTION DIED DOWN. Traumatized by this to this day as this was clearly the hottest girl (10/10 according to my personal preference) that I ever had a chance with.

She looked like this:

Btw, this girls boyfriend kinda confirms what OP says: MTN at best

 

[Deleted member 18515]

and if you are ugly then you won't be loved at all

true but no one is ugly, its all subjective you can only be truly ugly if you have a bad personality!

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

true but no one is ugly, its all subjective you can only be truly ugly if you have a bad personality!

Tell me what could be attractive about this guy then?

 

[Korea]

yes it is i like ppl my friends dont vice verse
and in long term relationships its down to personality

Answer My Question.

 

[Deleted member 18515]

Answer My Question.

i like brunettes so some i find others i dont but it all comes down to personality to me, looks hardly matter because people have limited control over looks

 

[Korea]

No bro watch out! Her personality might be bad!

 

[Deleted member 18515]

Tell me what could be attractive about this guy then?

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clean shaven, thick neck, glasses, small nose, compact midface, brown hair
but its comes to personality

 

[Korea]

i like brunettes so some i find others i dont but it all comes down to personality to me, looks hardly matter because people have limited control over looks

So you find all of the faces in the top category more attractive than the bottom right?

Thread over.

 

[Deleted member 18515]

No bro watch out! Her personality might be bad!

yes i wont date someone with bad personality but i will go head over heels for a good personality

 

[Deleted member 18086]

@BeyondHope

We need your take on this.

Its actually true. Looks are subjective to a degree but some guys (we call them incels) are objectively ugly.