Deleted member 2486
Kraken
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This isn't going to be some emo manifesto, that it doesn't matter what you do and you're just going against the inevitable tide with your faulty genetics in pursuit of something unreachable, while spending all the time you were meant to enjoy to begin with, without being neurotic about the process itself.
You obviously should always try to improve yourself, because its logical and what else would you do in life etc. Looks give you the base of your life experience, not here to deny that. My point is about something else.
Part of you being here (apart from not being attractive) has a lot to do with your low amount of risk-taking behaviour. Im not just talking about approaching women, but every single aspect of your life you were steering in towards of "least resistence". When it comes to relationship and choices regarding your guardians, with your friends, with women, with jobs, with your hobbies, everything in your life.
You always knew you aren't "It". PSL boards vocalise what "It" is, but some part of you always knew you are just a supporting actor of your own so called life and you're scared to try to take control of it, because that would jeopardise the safe space you built for yourself. You are scared of being wrong. Yes, tinder experiments, dozens of studies and proof exist, but theres just something so superifical about all this that you are deeply frightened by the fact you could be wrong. Not that you would be suddenly a male model and attractive to women, but that you could be... happy.
Every single day you spend racionalising to yourself why you can't ever be happy, instead of trying to find ways you can be happy.
You are ugly, short, autistic.. I get it. You were dealt a bad hand. You have no "assets" right? Wrong. Your asset is you have nothing to lose. Taking risks is literally how you generate value, there is no other way. While others can "play if safe" and guarantee happiness, you are guaranteed to be unhappy on the same route.
You cant be fucking serious if you think with a little cheek filler or lip lift or "eyebrowmaxxing" and things like that will make an actual NOTABLE difference in your life. It won't. You will be able to take better frauded selfies for your tinder matches you arent even going to meet bcuz ur too high inhib.
How to identify if something is cope:
If it doesnt take decent amount of risk OR a lot of work/discipline(years even), then its cope in 99% cases in the sense it doesnt change how people truly treat you and its all in your head.
Just lol at not hopping on fin
Just lol at not asking your oneitis out
Just lol at not going to the gym bcuz what people will think
Just lol putting up with your parents and not moving out
Just lol at not wearing elegant suits bcuz ur ugly
Just lol feeling inferior everywhere you go
Just lol at not taking drugs for therapeutic reasons
Just lol at not quitting your shitty job
Just lol at not doing some surgery, because its too risky
Just lol at not doing steroids if you have ogre frame
It's over
You obviously should always try to improve yourself, because its logical and what else would you do in life etc. Looks give you the base of your life experience, not here to deny that. My point is about something else.
Part of you being here (apart from not being attractive) has a lot to do with your low amount of risk-taking behaviour. Im not just talking about approaching women, but every single aspect of your life you were steering in towards of "least resistence". When it comes to relationship and choices regarding your guardians, with your friends, with women, with jobs, with your hobbies, everything in your life.
You always knew you aren't "It". PSL boards vocalise what "It" is, but some part of you always knew you are just a supporting actor of your own so called life and you're scared to try to take control of it, because that would jeopardise the safe space you built for yourself. You are scared of being wrong. Yes, tinder experiments, dozens of studies and proof exist, but theres just something so superifical about all this that you are deeply frightened by the fact you could be wrong. Not that you would be suddenly a male model and attractive to women, but that you could be... happy.
Every single day you spend racionalising to yourself why you can't ever be happy, instead of trying to find ways you can be happy.
You are ugly, short, autistic.. I get it. You were dealt a bad hand. You have no "assets" right? Wrong. Your asset is you have nothing to lose. Taking risks is literally how you generate value, there is no other way. While others can "play if safe" and guarantee happiness, you are guaranteed to be unhappy on the same route.
You cant be fucking serious if you think with a little cheek filler or lip lift or "eyebrowmaxxing" and things like that will make an actual NOTABLE difference in your life. It won't. You will be able to take better frauded selfies for your tinder matches you arent even going to meet bcuz ur too high inhib.
How to identify if something is cope:
If it doesnt take decent amount of risk OR a lot of work/discipline(years even), then its cope in 99% cases in the sense it doesnt change how people truly treat you and its all in your head.
Just lol at not hopping on fin
Just lol at not asking your oneitis out
Just lol at not going to the gym bcuz what people will think
Just lol putting up with your parents and not moving out
Just lol at not wearing elegant suits bcuz ur ugly
Just lol feeling inferior everywhere you go
Just lol at not taking drugs for therapeutic reasons
Just lol at not quitting your shitty job
Just lol at not doing some surgery, because its too risky
Just lol at not doing steroids if you have ogre frame
It's over