Lost my last 2 friends. (long post)

[eduardkoopman]

They were never his friends to start with tbh

Maybe.

But still.

It's a skill people need to have.
To not let friendship be ended because of different views about politics, dating in general, society, etc...

Most people change views on above subject matters throughout their life anyways

 

[alriodai]

Maybe.

But still.

It's a skill people need to have.
To not let friendship be ended because of different views about politics, dating in general, society, etc...

Most people change views on above subject matters throughout their life anyways

my best friends IRL are conserative alt right type bigots who hate gays trans n all that shit

meanwhile IRL i always tell them to not hate em n argue my case

we still best friends at the end, doesn't matter alot tbh

 

[eduardkoopman]

my best friends IRL are conserative alt right type bigots who hate gays trans n all that shit

meanwhile IRL i always tell them to not hate em n argue my case

we still best friends at the end, doesn't matter alot tbh

Yeah doesn't matter.
Maybe 10 years from now, they may have become leftists

 

[alriodai]

Yeah doesn't matter.
Maybe 10 years from now, they may have become leftists

yea any person that takes theses opniion serious wasn't ur friend to start w

i'd only cut them off if they're really super extremist on that shit and make it their whole shitty personnality

 

[MoggerGaston]

U have to ask, why was he friends with them in the first place?

I was a 3-3.5PSL abomination in my youth and was looksmatched/statusmaxxed with them. Played videogames with them a lot.

I ascended, they stayed the same.

 

[Bipedal Dog]

I was a 3-3.5PSL abomination in my youth and was looksmatched/statusmaxxed with them. Played videogames with them a lot.

I ascended, they stayed the same.

Good for you. I’m pretty sure most male friend groups are misogynistic/ anti-simping, so you must have had very bad luck lol

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Brutal but you don't have to censor yourself about anything other than dating and sex talk, so just talk about other shit.

Ideally a PSLer friend irl would be great, I'm lucky to have one, but I wouldn't just cut them off.

 

[MoggerGaston]

Good for you. I’m pretty sure most male friend groups are misogynistic/ anti-simping, so you must have had very bad luck lol

Most men are simps/feminist here. Its correlated with inceldom which is massive here

 

[Bipedal Dog]

Most men are simps/feminist here. Its correlated with inceldom which is massive here

Wya? I think it’s Benelux right

 

[Pumanator]

If there is one thing I learned in life is to never talk about: politics, feminism blackpill and other non nt topics. Just move to another topic or the moment it starts say I don't want to talk it and leave.

 

[Adamsmith12345]

boo hoo women have it so hard they need to find a chad to settle down with when theyre 26

 

[Deleted member 20519]

Ur friends are normies and normies gonna norm

 

[MoggerGaston]

Maybe.

But still.

It's a skill people need to have.
To not let friendship be ended because of different views about politics, dating in general, society, etc...

Most people change views on above subject matters throughout their life anyways

You severely over-estimate the value of the average 'friendship'.

I see these people 3-5 times per year, usually some sort of social event/holiday. We have no other interactions, no advice, no business partnership, no support/help, nothing.

If social interactions with them become annoying, all value is basically lost.

Incel-tier friends aren't of any use. They mostly pull you down since you level yourself with their low-value.

Like it's impossible to slay with them on holidays since they are mega-incels and you start feeling incel yourself aswell. They never approach or talk to women, so it becomes weird for you to do it too. Etc.

They just drag you won. Sigma lone wolf life mogs over having shitty friends imo. Especially not that I can't even relate to them at all anymore.

 

[eduardkoopman]

You severely over-estimate the value of the average 'friendship'.
I see these people 3-5 times per year, usually some sort of social event/holiday. We have no other interactions, no advice, no business partnership, no support/help, nothing.

Such connection levels. I call acquitances, not friends.
Everyone puts that at different level

 

[MoggerGaston]

Such connection levels. I call acquitances, not friends.
Everyone puts that at different level

I never had any friends then

 

[HerpDerpson]

No one loses friends like Gaston.

 

[Baldingman1998]

Few weeks ago I went on a holiday to Berlin with my last 2 friends. Knew them since my childhood.


First friend I lost:

At some point the discussion was about women, dating, society. We all know from eachother that we do poorly with women and were not the best looking guys. (although they obviously dont like talking about this fact)
Anyways I made a statement about how I dislike how society makes it seem like female lives are harder than men's, especially considering how easy it is for women to date and the advantages they can get with that. How society treats young women much better than young men, etc.

1 of them disagreed with me completely, referring to 2 female friends he has that cry a lot and both visit psychologists. Telling me that I am wrong and it's clear that women have it much harder than men.

Note: I know both of these female friends, not as closely as he does, but I've had several conversations with them. Been to parties with them, was in the same student club as one of them, etc.
These female friends of his are not 'femcels' that would struggle in any way:

1 is a stacylite. Has dated the jock of the biggest fraternity of my city, then dumped him to date another jock. I was part of that fraternity, was weird seeing a 6'4 chadlite get dumped and cry ngl. I think it ruined his reputation at that fraternity forever, he quit the next year. Anyways typical privileged stacylite life, she's from a rich family too.

and 1 is a make-up maxxed HTB. Has slept around with rich older men in big cities around the world since she was 18yo. At a drinking game she confessed to me she cheated on 2 of her past boyfriends. She's generally known as a girl that hoes around. She's on dating apps a lot although she doesn't meet many guys from there, she will screenshot pathetic messages/dickpics that she gets and show them to us when were chilling, drunk and bored. for entertainment.
Fun fact: I've talked to this girl about skincare routines in the past and she told me I am the only guy she knows that's on retin lol.

Anyways both of them are way out of our leagues and none of us could ever date them, maybe the HTB at some point but unlikely.
These 2 women are the typical 'privileged young women', but both of them visit therapists.

You can probably guess already where this conversation went.

I told my friend that he shouldn't take their struggles as serious, because they are women and they will visit therapists for the smallest of issues. Unlike guys, guys like us, that wouldn't do such a thing.
My friend got mad at me for talking shit about his female friends, told me they cry all the time and they have it much harder than men. That life is stacked against women and there's far more pressure on women than men. That his female friends are dealing with pressure to settle-down in a relationship already at 26yo, while we as guys don't have any of that. That they are discriminated against professionally for being women and they tell him this. That feminism hasn't gone far enough yet and we need 'positive discrimination' against men, put women in power, to counter the sexism that women face. Etc this kinda stuff.

During this the other friend was mostly silent and didn't participate much in the conversation. Anyways I ended the conversation here because things were getting heated. The vibe/mood was kinda ruined for the rest of the day for all of us. Untill we talked it through shortly while we were on XTC at a rave, apologized for misunderstandings, etc. Things were good after that, but I definitely feel a barrier between us, a rift since then.
He started a conversation about women/feminism again the next day with the other friend. I said: yeah I am not joining this convo, cya guys later.

We haven't talked much anymore since Berlin.
I am not good friends with him anymore tbh. It's over.


Anyways my other friend, the one that was also in Berlin. He was sorta mediating between us back then, didn't really take a stance. Still talk to him regularly.

We had a few hours of conversation yesterday, because of a girl (typical). He has been in the friendzone of this hot JB for years now while she was in a relationship. Their relationship broke off, he waited to make a move till she was going to be over her ex. Turns out she didn't need any time to get over him and started hoeing around immediately. Telling my friendzoned friend about the guys she's fucking. He got pissed and made a move, got rejected and their friendship ended too.

He was asking me about advice on what to do, how to get over her, if he did anything wrong, etc.

I was caging inside since it's just so typical female behavior, but I didn't say anything, didn't judge the girl he is/was in love with.
I found myself giving bluepilled advice to him, unlike the typical red/blackpills I spill out to him. I am just not interested in confrontation for telling people the truth anymore? Probably cuz of the confrontation in Berlin.

Woke up today thinking about this shit during my morning coffee and decided to write this essay.

I am questioning whether my relationship with this guy is anything more than superficial at this point, if I can't be myself and have to censor my real thoughts with you. At that point you're just another schmuck to me with no other value than what you bring to the table in terms of social status/experiences/jokes/knowledge, etc.
At that point I have to play a role, an act, around you just like I have to around my colleagues, girls I am dating, strangers, etc.


I think I lost my last friend. They're both just acquintainces now.

Tbh the other friend who was friend zoned and then got rejected you should have told him the truth since he seemed to trust you. The first guy is a cuck white knight but second dude just bluepilled .


On the other hand me and my best friend watch Andrew Andrew tate videos about stoning women and laugh together he is my childhood best friend. I gave him blackpill advice about women natural and all that shit and he is unironically a slayer now and thinks I'm a god and all my words are law (JFL UNIRONICALLY BRO).
cuz every time he dm girls or talks to them irl I spew blackpill shit and tell him what's gonna happen and 95% of times I'm right. I love non sissy men. High t honest friends are the best tbh.

Also he fucked a 16 year old that cheated on her bf. It's an evil world we live in.

 

[looksmaxxed]

you just have to be a disagreeable guy and be brutally honest with people. destroy his looks and say how they are incel faggots and that's why he's a simp but wymxn will always seem him as emotional tampoon rather than a sex partner

 

[MoggerGaston]

you just have to be a disagreeable guy and be brutally honest with people. destroy his looks and say how they are incel faggots and that's why he's a simp but wymxn will always seem him as emotional tampoon rather than a sex partner

people can't handle the truth bro. It'll just make me look bad and misogynistic.

daily reminder that if you argue that women care just as much about looks as guys do, then you are considered a misogynist. Because women are better than men, aren't as shallow, etc. and if you reject that you hate women.

 

[Baldingman1998]

people can't handle the truth bro. It'll just make me look bad and misogynistic.

daily reminder that if you argue that women care just as much about looks as guys do, then you are considered a misogynist. Because women are better than men, aren't as shallow, etc. and if you reject that you hate women.

Tbh I'd depends who you tell it to and how you say it. I pretty much convinced my mom that I'm a egenic and I need to breed a stacy regardless of her personality

 

[Cali Yuga]

most people will never get it and wouldnt want to even if they could

when you try to blackpill someone, especially an unsuccessful mediocre looking dude, you aren tjust convincing them of the truth or falsity of a particular position you're UNDERMINING THEIR ENTIRE LIFE, WORLDVIEW, AND IDENTITY. You should not be surprised when they shrink back and freak out and get emotional.

stop trying to blackpill them, hang out with them to do the things you enjoy doing together and just never talk about this stuff

"Oh you have girl problems? Wow too bad sorry bro haha bummer lets go play football."