Male attention when dating

[nobodylovesme]

Why do some guys randomly start talking to you when you're walking with your gf? I remember people approaching us and they'd always only talk to me, kinda ignoring her.

One time we were at a student bar crawl and one stop was at some gaming bar so we decided to play like 1 game of league there. Then some goofball just appeared and started glazing me and asking me questions while pretending my gf wasn't there. She tried to talk to him too but he just ignored her, lol.

At one point I bought a "BF sword"

in the match, and then the guy said "boyfriend sword, hehe." That was most cringe shit I've heard in my life.

It was only the guys too, so odd. What is this behavior?

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Why do some guys randomly start talking to you when you're walking with your gf? I remember people approaching us and they'd always only talk to me, kinda ignoring her.

One time we were at a student bar crawl and one stop was at some gaming bar so we decided to play like 1 game of league there. Then some goofball just appeared and started glazing me and asking me questions while pretending my gf wasn't there. She tried to talk to him too but he just ignored her, lol.

At one point I bought a "BF sword"

in the match, and then the guy said "boyfriend sword, hehe." That was most cringe shit I've heard in my life.

It was only the guys too, so odd. What is this behavior?

What an old B.F sword icon.. Brings back some memories

I've never experienced this, whenever I'm out with my girlfriend no one approaches us. Once another girl called my girlfriend 'very pretty' but i never got any attention. I'm not complaining tho, attention from random guys is the last thing I'm looking for

 

[failedathlete]

if you cant figure out on your own that this means they think they can take your girl then its over for ur iq

 

[greycel]

Would you have preferred they acknowledge her and talk to her?

Also can you be more specific with how the convos started, what they said, and who these people are to you

 

[nobodylovesme]

if you cant figure out on your own that this means they think they can take your girl then its over for ur iq

They literally didn't even talk to her, only me. Are you retarded?

 

[KT-34]

Same shit happens to me when I'm walking with a girl, weird af

 

[nobodylovesme]

Would you have preferred they acknowledge her and talk to her?

Also can you be more specific with how the convos started, what they said, and who these people are to you

I mean it was student events and stuff. Like some random guys or just purely male groups would sometimes just approach us and they'd only just talk to me. I mean yeah, I don't mind having a little chat. It's just weird to her if she gets excluded. She just thought it was funny.

I had no idea who they were, ngl.

 

[greycel]

if you cant figure out on your own that this means they think they can take your girl then its over for ur iq

Not necessarily tbh. It could just be them subconsciously giving respect.. that he was good looking enough to get a girl

Or maybe the closest interaction they've had with a girl in the past few weeks. Doing it more for attention than trying to take her

 

[greycel]

I mean it was student events and stuff. Like some random guys or just purely male groups would sometimes just approach us and they'd only just talk to me. I mean yeah, I don't mind having a little chat. It's just weird to her if she gets excluded. She just thought it was funny.

I had no idea who they were, ngl.

If you're at a student event then they're trying to invite you to socs likely

And they aren't talking to your girl because they're being respectful

 

[CelestialEmpire]

if ur short, ethnic or LTN/low MTN its social proof so guys who would otherwise ignore u cuz they think ur socially way below them will be nicer to u if u have a white HTB+ gf

 

[CelestialEmpire]

if ur short, ethnic or LTN/low MTN its social proof so guys who would otherwise ignore u cuz they think ur socially way below them will be nicer to u if u have a white HTB+ gf

im not ethnic short or ugly (6'5.5 235lb chadlite with blue eyes and i usually get tons of social attention from both genders when at bars) but when i was with my honest to god 5'9 mid-stacylite insane pheno/coloring situationship in greece literally every girl was glazing her to her face or complimenting me for "having her" and guys would glaze me too like 15x a night in crete/mykonos/naxos deadass