FailedNormieManlet
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Probably the biggest blackpill for aspiring chads is the demographics pill, it hits you badly when you are young and eases when you're older. Younger looking guys like me are brutally raped by it. The typical normie advice of "meet girls through work/hobbies" can only work in some cases. If you are working in a place full of older people or your hobby has older people then you will know what I'm on about. For example, I train BJJ and Judo. Now while my judo club has girls younger than me, they're a bit too young - literally 15-16 years old. My BJJ club on the other hand has girls much older than me (27+). Thus I get fucked over by the demographics pill, lets say I end up teaching science in a secondary school after uni too, the demographics pill will hit me again. I'll be the youngest teacher in the room, and thus all co-workers will be too old to date (and I'm not a pedo who is going to date literal children JFL).
The demographics pill is perhaps one of the worst pills there is, I know I'm not autistic and could talk to most people. But if your hobbies and work aren't full of people your age, you are fucked. It's only when you're a bit older does your net widen and thus demographic pill isn't as harsh.
Demographics pill, I'd argue is the #1 cause of inceldom for most folks, say we take the typical boomer advice of "just meet girls at salsa" or "just meet girls at a cooking class"
We need to really ask ourselves, what 18-23 year old girl will be going to these places? Hardly any, if you're lucky you will see women in their 30s or mothers - all of whom will not date you off the bat if you're a young man. So where does one find girls their age?
Lets try the library? Nope, wrong. Most libraries are fuckign empty, barely anyone goes to them and especially not girls in their early 20s.
So where do these girls hang out? They hang out in clubs and bars (both enviros which are highly dependent on looks) or they are in their own social circles (circles which you will have a hard time getting into past uni). Boomers and bluepillers will cope and say there are plenty of young girls at work, but seriously that's only for a select few industries. If you're working in somewhere like finance, construction or engineering there aren't going to be many girls, you will rarely interact with girls.
If we look at the % of people in the UK who are 18-24, we see that it is only a mere 9.4%. Only 9.4% of the population is within your age group to date, now half that (50% men, 50% women), you end up with an awful figure of only 4.7%
4.7% of the population is dateable. 4.7% of the fucking population, which is already a stupidly low figure. Then take into account the sort of people who will be joining salsa, yoga, etc. It paints a bleak picture.
Women's standards aren't going up, it's that women are not literally going outside. Women and men are literally not having hobbies and are instead staying indoors all day - thus will use tinder more.
Unless you are willing to work in retail and some other low end job - where you'll find plenty of young people, you need to realise that the cause of societal inceldom is not only due to hypergamy and other reductionist responses.
Thus I conclude with this:- Hypergamy has always remained there, it's not that wome have woken up one day and realised they are "getting a better deal" by going on tinder and thus hypergamy happens. It's that women are literally not going outside/having hobbies which put them into proximity with people, women are unironically staying indoors all day and only going out to socialise with friends or go clubs and bars (enviros where looks matters). The avg man before could meet girls at church or through their hobbies, but young women simply are not going joining hobbies and thus most hobbies/meetup groups are filled with old people. So as a result women are using dating apps due to lack of contact they have with men irl outside of shallow enviros such as clubs/bars.
What this means for the future:-
I predict that the west will end up like Japan soon, if we normalise working from home and not going to the office, this is seriously going to cause a crisis amongst men. Dating will be so tightly regulated that companies such as tinder, hinge and bumble will effectively be able to control your life - if they ban you, you become an incel forever.
The solution to meeting women, as corny as it is. It's to legit approach women at places like the gym or places where there are a signifcant amount of women. But as we all know these things are legit difficult. The average male in a few decades will be legit sexless past college.
The demographics pill is perhaps one of the worst pills there is, I know I'm not autistic and could talk to most people. But if your hobbies and work aren't full of people your age, you are fucked. It's only when you're a bit older does your net widen and thus demographic pill isn't as harsh.
Demographics pill, I'd argue is the #1 cause of inceldom for most folks, say we take the typical boomer advice of "just meet girls at salsa" or "just meet girls at a cooking class"
We need to really ask ourselves, what 18-23 year old girl will be going to these places? Hardly any, if you're lucky you will see women in their 30s or mothers - all of whom will not date you off the bat if you're a young man. So where does one find girls their age?
Lets try the library? Nope, wrong. Most libraries are fuckign empty, barely anyone goes to them and especially not girls in their early 20s.
So where do these girls hang out? They hang out in clubs and bars (both enviros which are highly dependent on looks) or they are in their own social circles (circles which you will have a hard time getting into past uni). Boomers and bluepillers will cope and say there are plenty of young girls at work, but seriously that's only for a select few industries. If you're working in somewhere like finance, construction or engineering there aren't going to be many girls, you will rarely interact with girls.
If we look at the % of people in the UK who are 18-24, we see that it is only a mere 9.4%. Only 9.4% of the population is within your age group to date, now half that (50% men, 50% women), you end up with an awful figure of only 4.7%
4.7% of the population is dateable. 4.7% of the fucking population, which is already a stupidly low figure. Then take into account the sort of people who will be joining salsa, yoga, etc. It paints a bleak picture.
Women's standards aren't going up, it's that women are not literally going outside. Women and men are literally not having hobbies and are instead staying indoors all day - thus will use tinder more.
Unless you are willing to work in retail and some other low end job - where you'll find plenty of young people, you need to realise that the cause of societal inceldom is not only due to hypergamy and other reductionist responses.
Thus I conclude with this:- Hypergamy has always remained there, it's not that wome have woken up one day and realised they are "getting a better deal" by going on tinder and thus hypergamy happens. It's that women are literally not going outside/having hobbies which put them into proximity with people, women are unironically staying indoors all day and only going out to socialise with friends or go clubs and bars (enviros where looks matters). The avg man before could meet girls at church or through their hobbies, but young women simply are not going joining hobbies and thus most hobbies/meetup groups are filled with old people. So as a result women are using dating apps due to lack of contact they have with men irl outside of shallow enviros such as clubs/bars.
What this means for the future:-
I predict that the west will end up like Japan soon, if we normalise working from home and not going to the office, this is seriously going to cause a crisis amongst men. Dating will be so tightly regulated that companies such as tinder, hinge and bumble will effectively be able to control your life - if they ban you, you become an incel forever.
The solution to meeting women, as corny as it is. It's to legit approach women at places like the gym or places where there are a signifcant amount of women. But as we all know these things are legit difficult. The average male in a few decades will be legit sexless past college.