Meeting women after college is impossible

[Deleted member 15441]

You honestly have to date the first thing that comes around.

Was sitting here thinking why I havn't come accross anything in like 5 weeks. Stuck with a low tier becky whos asked "So am I like your girlfriend now" through text yesterday. LOL HELL NO.

inb4 Your ugly, no i get a ton iOis from looksmaxing. iOis from becky at gym=/= P in V.

1) Work From Home and No University=No Propinquity. Without Propinquity You honestly don't have a chance to warm/cold approach/build trust.
2) College Sluttiness drys up.
3) Humans are Tribals as fuck, women date almost exclusively from social circles/acquaintances/friends of friends. HTN Friend group>>>Stranger Chadlite
3.5) Women are EXTREMLY weary of stranger men, even if you looksmax/dressmax you could be a legit burger flipping fake designer wearing crimal. She doesn't know shit about you.
4) Wageslaving-Gymceling-Cooking/Cleaning/Getting Read take up 90% of waking time. You can muster 1, mabey 2 nights out at bar/clubs and their generally huge fails.
5) Online, clear fruad for sub 7/10s. Even then time consuming, flakes, exhausting, rarly build enough trust for meet up.
6) Single? Girls are never single for more than 1-2 months. Why roll dice of HTN stranger, when you have a HTN simp from friend group.

Ideas anyone?
-Orange Theory/Group workout classes
-Tyrone Inhibition- Approaching iOis in whole foods/gym infront of tons of people
-Instagram Maxing-Dming

Thats all I can think of off

 

[Deleted member 5802]

Clubs is an option or just traveling to other countries

 

[ChristianChad]

You honestly have to date the first thing that comes around.

Was sitting here thinking why I havn't come accross anything in like 5 weeks. Stuck with a low tier becky whos asked "So am I like your girlfriend now" through text yesterday. LOL HELL NO.

inb4 Your ugly, no i get a ton iOis from looksmaxing. iOis from becky at gym=/= P in V.

1) Work From Home and No University=No Propinquity. Without Propinquity You honestly don't have a chance to warm/cold approach/build trust.
2) College Sluttiness drys up.
3) Humans are Tribals as fuck, women date almost exclusively from social circles/acquaintances/friends of friends. HTN Friend group>>>Stranger Chadlite
3.5) Women are EXTREMLY weary of stranger men, even if you looksmax/dressmax you could be a legit burger flipping fake designer wearing crimal. She doesn't know shit about you.
4) Wageslaving-Gymceling-Cooking/Cleaning/Getting Read take up 90% of waking time. You can muster 1, mabey 2 nights out at bar/clubs and their generally huge fails.
5) Online, clear fruad for sub 7/10s. Even then time consuming, flakes, exhausting, rarly build enough trust for meet up.
6) Single? Girls are never single for more than 1-2 months. Why roll dice of HTN stranger, when you have a HTN simp from friend group.

Ideas anyone?
-Orange Theory/Group workout classes
-Tyrone Inhibition- Approaching iOis in whole foods/gym infront of tons of people
-Instagram Maxing-Dming

Thats all I can think of off

Clubs is an option or just traveling to other countries

ive always thought about this
its literally impossible

 

[Deleted member 15384]

i have no problem making dates from internet, my tactic is make her laugh, then invite to date

 

[Deleted member 15441]

ive always thought about this
its literally impossible

Clubs is an option or just traveling to other countries

Clubs= grinding with some beckies for a couple minutes. Mabey a kiss/makeout. terribly inconsistent unless big chad.

 

[Lux]

Why doing a six year major is ideal.

 

[Deleted member 15441]

i have no problem making dates from internet, my tactic is make her laugh, then invite to date

I prob need to get back on the apps. I just despise them like nothing else. Plus you pay the Online tax which is like 2 points My pictures are poor and the quality of matchs are way below my IRL iOis.

Also drinks with 3-4/10s in not what I want. I need a fucking 6-7/10

 

[khvirgin]

true, that's why I went back to college even if I'm an oldcel

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Complete delusion, girls just aren't attracted to you, or you sit at home all day and aren't successful on dating apps. I've slayed MORE after college, higher quality, still 18-22 age range. If a girl likes you she will integrate you in to her social circle and you can smash without any social proof at all

 

[Deleted member 15441]

true, that's why I went back to college even if I'm an oldcel

Damn mabey I need to go get a masters and shave/botox

 

[chadsmith]

Complete delusion, girls just aren't attracted to you, or you sit at home all day and aren't successful on dating apps. I've slayed MORE after college, higher quality, still 18-22 age range. If a girl likes you she will integrate you in to her social circle and you can smash without any social proof at all

Yeah its possible to slay just online or without social proof, but the threshold is higher. We know that attraction follows an exponential curve, the same applies to real life with propinquity; Its just that with propinquity the inflection point from a cost:benefit standpoint is much lower as compared to online.

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Mb @ calling you delusional bro i didn't see it was you but relax, it's not impossible

 

[Deleted member 15441]

Complete delusion, girls just aren't attracted to you, or you sit at home all day and aren't successful on dating apps. I've slayed MORE after college, higher quality, still 18-22 age range. If a girl likes you she will integrate you in to her social circle and you can smash without any social proof at all

Dude I did 12x girls off the dating apps in past year. 5 landwhales, a couples 4s, 2 beckies, 1 stacey lite.

I shoulda made it clear, but I am talking about quality stacey staceylite girlfriend. One you can show off.

I guess I gotta get some way better pictures and get back on the apps. Mabey thats why I am struggling

 

[Deleted member 15384]

I prob need to get back on the apps. I just despise them like nothing else. Plus you pay the Online tax which is like 2 points My pictures are poor and the quality of matchs are way below my IRL iOis.

Also drinks with 3-4/10s in not what I want. I need a fucking 6-7/10

Just put better pictures. I have 3 pictures, a distant photo, a face photo, and a gymcel photo and I can date 6-6.5 girls

 

[Primordial]

Easiest way is to be a stoner and get with other stoners. If you're a stoner you can go to uni places which have a ton of stoner students and interact with them, depends on ur age tho

 

[Deleted member 4430]

Complete delusion, girls just aren't attracted to you, or you sit at home all day and aren't successful on dating apps. I've slayed MORE after college, higher quality, still 18-22 age range. If a girl likes you she will integrate you in to her social circle and you can smash without any social proof at all

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Dude I did 12x girls off the dating apps in past year. 5 landwhales, a couples 4s, 2 beckies, 1 stacey lite.

I shoulda made it clear, but I am talking about quality stacey staceylite girlfriend. One you can show off.

I guess I gotta get some way better pictures and get back on the apps. Mabey thats why I am struggling

Pics are literally everything on apps. I have some pics where I won't really match anyone except average chicks, then some where I make a new account, and 40 hot matches first day

 

[Deleted member 15441]

Just put better pictures. I have 3 pictures, a distant photo, a face photo, and a gymcel photo and I can date 6-6.5 girls

Pics are literally everything on apps. I have some pics where I won't really match anyone except average chicks, then some where I make a new account, and 40 hot matches first day

Lol mabey im a narcy over estimating myself. I will try some new pics I got from a recent wedding.
Bumble
hinge
tinder?

Best what order?

 

[PURE ARYAN GENETICS]

brutals brutals

 

[Deleted member 14139]

this makes no fucking sense. 40% of young couples in 2021 met online, compared to only 20% that met from school and work. a fuck ton of young girls go on tinder for a quick fuck and chances are you're not good looking enough if you're struggling. meeting people in GENERAL is harder after school and college simply due to the fact that you're no longer in an organic social environment with people your age

 

[Deleted member 15698]

Lol mabey im a narcy over estimating myself. I will try some new pics I got from a recent wedding.
Bumble
hinge
tinder?

Best what order?

Tinder then bumble, hinge is shit in my area, no attractive girls even on the app

Honestly just pm me your pics dawg, I'll help you out. I have strong NT/IG game and know what people look good in, most dudes just don't have an eye for aesthetics

 

[Deleted member 15441]

this makes no fucking sense. 40% of young couples in 2021 met online, compared to only 20% that met from school and work. a fuck ton of young girls go on tinder for a quick fuck and chances are you're not good looking enough if you're struggling. meeting people in GENERAL is harder after school and college simply due to the fact that you're no longer in an organic social environment with people your age

Your Probably right. I deleted the apps about 2 months ago and got a fuckbuddy after 2nd approach some how. So I Will get back on the apps.

I had oppurtunties to date 2x beckies in past 12 months, Just a narcy Normie I guess think I deserve stacey. I'll hop back on apps and prob get a becky looksmatch, fuck me.

 

[Deleted member 14139]

Your Probably right. I deleted the apps about 2 months ago and got a fuckbuddy after 2nd approach some how. So I Will get back on the apps.

I had oppurtunties to date 2x beckies in past 12 months, Just a narcy Normie I guess think I deserve stacey lol and pump and dumped those beckies for a few weeks. I'll hop back on apps and prob get a becky looksmatch lol fuck me.

lol even giga chads like Tyler Maher and Jorge Deli Rio Romero are dating high tier beckies. you're indeed a narcy cel, but if you're getting decent looking pussy consistently you're doing a better than most men in general

 

[Cigarette]

just got off a date. thank god its over

 

[Deleted member 15441]

lol even giga chads like Tyler Maher and Jorge Deli Rio Romero are dating high tier beckies. you're indeed a narcy cel, but if you're getting decent looking pussy consistently you're doing a better than most men in general

Well my low tier beckys face is Bad, but has a great body/ass so I cope.

Just Get so pissed seeing 21-24 staceys around my complex and having zero access/way to meet them. Thats what this post was about.

 

[TeraCope54]

Humans are Tribals as fuck, women date almost exclusively from social circles/acquaintances/friends of friends. HTN Friend group>>>Stranger Chadlite

Bluepilled bs. If that was true, tinder wouldn't work. Women fuck strangers from other countries and shit.

 

[Deleted member 14139]

Well my low tier beckys face is Bad, but has a great body/ass so I cope.

Just Get so pissed seeing 21-24 staceys around my complex and having zero access/way to meet them. Thats what this post was about.

how old are you and how good do you look? 21-24 college girls arent going to be attracted to status just yet. depending on your occupation you're not going to meet them in your workplace either

 

[Deleted member 15441]

how old are you and how good do you look? 21-24 college girls arent going to be attracted to status just yet. depending on your occupation you're not going to meet them in your workplace either

26.5. tan,gymaxed 5'10. face 6/10 normie rating

I have options, mabey it's partly being a bitch on the approach/talking to women sober.

When do they start to go for betabuxer/Status?
What age do these 21-24 girls prefer. I am REALLY not interested in 26+ year olds.
I have a strong feeling that 22-26 they're already looking for BF and LTR/Marriage. And their done with pump and dumps. Mabey I am wrong.

 

[Preoximerianas]

Tinder then bumble, hinge is shit in my area, no attractive girls even on the app

Honestly just pm me your pics dawg, I'll help you out. I have strong NT/IG game and know what people look good in, most dudes just don't have an eye for aesthetics

Bro can I PM you for tips? I'm trying to IGmaxx and eventually OLDmaxx.

 

[Mongrelcel]

thats why you literally have to structure your life around being able to meet new people

 

[Lawton88]

You honestly have to date the first thing that comes around.

Was sitting here thinking why I havn't come accross anything in like 5 weeks. Stuck with a low tier becky whos asked "So am I like your girlfriend now" through text yesterday. LOL HELL NO.

inb4 Your ugly, no i get a ton iOis from looksmaxing. iOis from becky at gym=/= P in V.

1) Work From Home and No University=No Propinquity. Without Propinquity You honestly don't have a chance to warm/cold approach/build trust.
2) College Sluttiness drys up.
3) Humans are Tribals as fuck, women date almost exclusively from social circles/acquaintances/friends of friends. HTN Friend group>>>Stranger Chadlite
3.5) Women are EXTREMLY weary of stranger men, even if you looksmax/dressmax you could be a legit burger flipping fake designer wearing crimal. She doesn't know shit about you.
4) Wageslaving-Gymceling-Cooking/Cleaning/Getting Read take up 90% of waking time. You can muster 1, mabey 2 nights out at bar/clubs and their generally huge fails.
5) Online, clear fruad for sub 7/10s. Even then time consuming, flakes, exhausting, rarly build enough trust for meet up.
6) Single? Girls are never single for more than 1-2 months. Why roll dice of HTN stranger, when you have a HTN simp from friend group.

Ideas anyone?
-Orange Theory/Group workout classes
-Tyrone Inhibition- Approaching iOis in whole foods/gym infront of tons of people
-Instagram Maxing-Dming

Thats all I can think of off

After college age a lot of females never date among their group of friends and just treat those guys as simps. If females go to a bar/clubs they are usually looking for possible hook ups if you meet their standards. Problem is these mid 20s females that are single have insane standards many times now and a Chad banging them occasionally inflates their egos even more.

 

[Deleted member 15441]

thats why you literally have to structure your life around being able to meet new people

Thats fair. I see alot of normies do it. They stand same place/time dog park around complex and probably do group workout classes. I guess I gotta start doing that.

 

[Deleted member 15441]

After college age a lot of females never date among their group of friends and just treat those guys as simps. If females go to a bar/clubs they are usually looking for possible hook ups if you meet their standards. Problem is these mid 20s females that are single have insane standards many times now and a Chad banging them occasionally inflates their egos even more.

Mabey your right. IDK i see ALOT of ltrs.

The single staceys 22-25 still looking for just hookups? I thought they were leverageing youth for LMS Maxed late 20s guys.

Will agree on their standard being insanly high.

So the 2-3 staceys walking on the treadmill this morning at 7:15 am are still looking for pump and dumps or think there going to lockdown a big chad?

 

[Mongrelcel]

Thats fair. I see alot of normies do it. They stand same place/time dog park around complex and probably do group workout classes. I guess I gotta start doing that.

thats not enought unless youre super good at making friends + keeping the connections, you gotta get a job that allows you to be social

 

[Lawton88]

26.5. tan,gymaxed 5'10. face 6/10 normie rating

I have options, mabey it's partly being a bitch on the approach/talking to women sober.

When do they start to go for betabuxer/Status?
What age do these 21-24 girls prefer. I am REALLY not interested in 26+ year olds.
I have a strong feeling that 22-26 they're already looking for BF and LTR/Marriage. And their done with pump and dumps. Mabey I am wrong.

I am older now but the females I see around here in their 20s appear to still be partying a lot. I think the ones that aren't in a LTR by the end of college usually don't plan to settle down until their very late 20s/30.

 

[Deleted member 15441]

I am older now but the females I see around here in their 20s appear to still be partying a lot. I think the ones that aren't in a LTR by the end of college usually don't plan to settle down until their very late 20s/30.

This could make since. I believe chicks to be VERY bluepilled on agepill for themselves.

 

[metagross]

This could make since. I believe chicks to be VERY bluepilled on agepill for themselves.

This is absolutely true.
Women basically go through their entire lives on tutorial mode up to the age of 25.
And then it starts to get harder. Slowly but surely it gets harder. Of course it's still life on easy mode at that point. But it's no longer tutorial mode. They basically think that they will have hundreds of simps forever. But this is not the case. The simps will get fewer and fewer as time goes on.

 

[Deleted member 15441]

This is absolutely true.
Women basically go through their entire lives on tutorial mode up to the age of 25.
And then it starts to get harder. Slowly but surely it gets harder. Of course it's still life on easy mode at that point. But it's no longer tutorial mode. They basically think that they will have hundreds of simps forever. But this is not the case. The simps will get fewer and fewer as time goes on.

Yeah. They confuse getting iOis and getting pumped with being able to MARRY a LMS maxer/HTN. Most wait wayy to long and then have to really settle down low.

 

[TITUS]

Im only getting IOIs from single moms, it's over.

 

[klamus]

Clubs is an option or just traveling to other countries

Going to Clubs alone is literally impossible. I just tried this

 

[eduardkoopman]

Ideas anyone?
-Orange Theory/Group workout classes
-Tyrone Inhibition- Approaching iOis in whole foods/gym infront of tons of people
-Instagram Maxing-Dming

Thats all I can think of off

*NEET maxx, and spent all waking time chatting up women, socialising.
*move to a university city
*travelling/locationmaxxing
*insta-famous


How good looking/ugly are you??????

 

[Deleted member 5802]

Going to Clubs alone is literally impossible. I just tried this

Go to clubs in a different country

 

[Nautica]

You honestly have to date the first thing that comes around.

Was sitting here thinking why I havn't come accross anything in like 5 weeks. Stuck with a low tier becky whos asked "So am I like your girlfriend now" through text yesterday. LOL HELL NO.

inb4 Your ugly, no i get a ton iOis from looksmaxing. iOis from becky at gym=/= P in V.

1) Work From Home and No University=No Propinquity. Without Propinquity You honestly don't have a chance to warm/cold approach/build trust.
2) College Sluttiness drys up.
3) Humans are Tribals as fuck, women date almost exclusively from social circles/acquaintances/friends of friends. HTN Friend group>>>Stranger Chadlite
3.5) Women are EXTREMLY weary of stranger men, even if you looksmax/dressmax you could be a legit burger flipping fake designer wearing crimal. She doesn't know shit about you.
4) Wageslaving-Gymceling-Cooking/Cleaning/Getting Read take up 90% of waking time. You can muster 1, mabey 2 nights out at bar/clubs and their generally huge fails.
5) Online, clear fruad for sub 7/10s. Even then time consuming, flakes, exhausting, rarly build enough trust for meet up.
6) Single? Girls are never single for more than 1-2 months. Why roll dice of HTN stranger, when you have a HTN simp from friend group.

Ideas anyone?
-Orange Theory/Group workout classes
-Tyrone Inhibition- Approaching iOis in whole foods/gym infront of tons of people
-Instagram Maxing-Dming

Thats all I can think of off

"Stuck with a low tier becky whos asked "So am I like your girlfriend now" through text yesterday. LOL HELL NO."



JFL, your complaining that low tier Beckie's only want you, you're not a Chad, wtf did you expect?

I would fucking kill to even have a low tier Becky interested in me.

 

[JosephGarrot123]

true, that's why I went back to college even if I'm an oldcel

No fucking way

 

[loksr]

None of that is even a little bit true, you’re either ugly or have no clue how to talk to people (aka autistic, aka over)

 

[Deleted member 14138]

You honestly have to date the first thing that comes around.

Was sitting here thinking why I havn't come accross anything in like 5 weeks. Stuck with a low tier becky whos asked "So am I like your girlfriend now" through text yesterday. LOL HELL NO.

inb4 Your ugly, no i get a ton iOis from looksmaxing. iOis from becky at gym=/= P in V.

1) Work From Home and No University=No Propinquity. Without Propinquity You honestly don't have a chance to warm/cold approach/build trust.
2) College Sluttiness drys up.
3) Humans are Tribals as fuck, women date almost exclusively from social circles/acquaintances/friends of friends. HTN Friend group>>>Stranger Chadlite
3.5) Women are EXTREMLY weary of stranger men, even if you looksmax/dressmax you could be a legit burger flipping fake designer wearing crimal. She doesn't know shit about you.
4) Wageslaving-Gymceling-Cooking/Cleaning/Getting Read take up 90% of waking time. You can muster 1, mabey 2 nights out at bar/clubs and their generally huge fails.
5) Online, clear fruad for sub 7/10s. Even then time consuming, flakes, exhausting, rarly build enough trust for meet up.
6) Single? Girls are never single for more than 1-2 months. Why roll dice of HTN stranger, when you have a HTN simp from friend group.

Ideas anyone?
-Orange Theory/Group workout classes
-Tyrone Inhibition- Approaching iOis in whole foods/gym infront of tons of people
-Instagram Maxing-Dming

Thats all I can think of off

This is why I advocate for looks maxing as a means of self validation, career development, and money maxing after a certain age. Because it becomes impossible to impress women once you have missed too many opportunities. I am doing the most invasive and painful cosmetic surgeries in the next couple years, and with no plans of dating or getting married.

 

[thereallegend]

Why doing a six year major is ideal.

If you can actually pay for it

 

[thereallegend]

Im only getting IOIs from single moms, it's over.

Be a real man you betabuxxer

 

[TITUS]

Be a real man you betabuxxer

Teach me, bro.

 

[Slayerino]

true, that's why I went back to college even if I'm an oldcel

How is it? Do they treat you like a normal human being or a decrepit oldcel?