Mental barrier

[sasha108]

A mental barrier is truly a very strong obstacle.

For a long time, I didn't believe I could achieve success in something I loved because I started too late. Now I understand how much potential I actually had. I won't become a professional athlete, but at least I can make my body better.
Some professional athletes whose interviews I've seen emphasize this.

Even though this example is about sports, it translates perfectly to everyday life. And some of you are living proof of that.

You put yourselves into created limitations that keep you from developing or living well. Then you like to look for something to blame it on. Just like I used to blame my late start.

@returnofthecutecel @oxiwoxi

 

[returnofthecutecel]

 

[oxiwoxi]

Its never over, it actually never even began for most of us

 

[sasha108]

This is more for you.
From what I've seen, you look better than a lot of people here. You can't say that it's all because of your looks.

 

[sasha108]

Its never over, it actually never even began for most of us

Looks matter a lot, but you don't have to be anything special just to get laid

 

[oxiwoxi]

Looks matter a lot, but you don't have to be anything special just to get laid

I agree

 

[sasha108]

Its never over, it actually never even began for most of us

That doesn't work like this.

It's no secret that looks are one of the most important factors, but that doesn't mean everyone below average is seen as unattractive, while everyone above average is universally loved.

And believe me, I have my doubts about this myself.

But my friend, who's around 5'7 and I wouldn't say looks much better than me , he's skinny with a bad frame and his face is probably around the same level as mine has already had two relationships. He also happens to be friends with my oneitis, and he's the reason I met her in the first place

 

[oxiwoxi]

That doesn't work like this.

It's no secret that looks are one of the most important factors, but that doesn't mean everyone below average is seen as unattractive, while everyone above average is universally loved.

And believe me, I have my doubts about this myself.

But my friend, who's around 5'7 and I wouldn't say looks much better than me , he's skinny with a bad frame and his face is probably around the same level as mine has already had two relationships. He also happens to be friends with my oneitis, and he's the reason I met her in the first place

Damn

 

[valentine]

mens prime is at 17

 

[sasha108]

A mental barrier is truly a very strong obstacle.

For a long time, I didn't believe I could achieve success in something I loved because I started too late. Now I understand how much potential I actually had. I won't become a professional athlete, but at least I can make my body better.
Some professional athletes whose interviews I've seen emphasize this.

Even though this example is about sports, it translates perfectly to everyday life. And some of you are living proof of that.

You put yourselves into created limitations that keep you from developing or living well. Then you like to look for something to blame it on. Just like I used to blame my late start.

@returnofthecutecel @oxiwoxi

@Mooglesan @ICXCLuvr @Sulfuras @arx @volgograd009 thoughts?

 

[H72]

A mental barrier is truly a very strong obstacle.

For a long time, I didn't believe I could achieve success in something I loved because I started too late. Now I understand how much potential I actually had. I won't become a professional athlete, but at least I can make my body better.
Some professional athletes whose interviews I've seen emphasize this.

Even though this example is about sports, it translates perfectly to everyday life. And some of you are living proof of that.

You put yourselves into created limitations that keep you from developing or living well. Then you like to look for something to blame it on. Just like I used to blame my late start.

@returnofthecutecel @oxiwoxi

If you can breach your mental barrier you can achieve greatness for some people especially here alive and dead the barrier is to hard to break

 

[sasha108]

mens prime is at 17

Like looks prime?

 

[arx]

A mental barrier is truly a very strong obstacle.

For a long time, I didn't believe I could achieve success in something I loved because I started too late. Now I understand how much potential I actually had. I won't become a professional athlete, but at least I can make my body better.
Some professional athletes whose interviews I've seen emphasize this.

Even though this example is about sports, it translates perfectly to everyday life. And some of you are living proof of that.

You put yourselves into created limitations that keep you from developing or living well. Then you like to look for something to blame it on. Just like I used to blame my late start.

@returnofthecutecel @oxiwoxi

This gives me motivation

I need to start my ascension

 

[sasha108]

If you can breach your mental barrier you can achieve greatness for some people especially here alive and dead the barrier is to hard to break

This gives me motivation

I need to start my ascension

Again, this isn't some story about how looks don't matter.

But it's funny to read guys who are above average themselves still claiming that their problems are because of their looks.

 

[H72]

Again, this isn't some story about how looks don't matter.

But it's funny to read guys who are above average themselves still claiming that their problems are because of their looks.

Have to cope somehow

 

[sasha108]

Have to cope somehow

It's easy to tell yourself you're a loser just because of your looks

 

[H72]

It's easy to tell yourself you're a loser just because of your looks

I think most guys that think there blackpilled dont understand the fundamental concept and just see blaming there looks and women as an easy escape

 

[sasha108]

I think most guys that think there blackpilled dont understand the fundamental concept and just see blaming there looks and women as an easy escape

That's true.
Truly black pilled guys have already killed themselves tbh.

 

[H72]

That's true.
Truly black pilled guys have already killed themselves tbh.

They’ve killed themselves or are complete shut ins

 

[Mooglesan]

I’ve dug myself into a hole so deep that there’s no way out whatsoever

 

[sasha108]

I’ve dug myself into a hole so deep that there’s no way out whatsoever

But why? What is the main problem?

 

[Mooglesan]

But why? What is the main problem?

dont kno how to describe it

 

[sasha108]

They’ve killed themselves or are complete shut ins

Either way, that's the lowest percentage. So it's not just "below average." There are people here who are even better than avarage and simply keep whining.

 

[sasha108]

dont kno how to describe it

У тебя с чем это больше всего связано?
Можем дм если чё

 

[Surfsup]

I used to be positive to the point I was delusional (before discovering bp)
It actually works

 

[sasha108]

I used to be positive to the point I was delusional (before discovering bp)
It actually works

Yep
Delusional guy with mid or below looks is more happy than depressed guy with above average

 

[H72]

Either way, that's the lowest percentage. So it's not just "below average." There are people here who are even better than avarage and simply keep whining.

True I think most people just want to be negative to try and seem like there life is terrible but they live a relatively carefree lifestyle

 

[Sulfuras]

@Mooglesan @ICXCLuvr @Sulfuras @arx @volgograd009 thoughts?

it's true, your brain can be at the same time your greatest ally and your biggest enemy. I had and still have problems with the block thinking is it even worth starting new looksmaxxes, hobbies or trying new things when I'm already this old or if they seem "scary"
this plagues the majority of the forum userbase as far as I have seen, I believe this forum would be a chad factory if people, including myself could get over the mental barrier and just do some things (easier said than done)

but regarding the thing you said about starting too late, I always try to keep in mind this quote: "the best time to start was years ago, but the 2nd best time to start is today" and it helped me quite a bit regarding some decisions in my overall life

 

[volgograd009]

@Mooglesan @ICXCLuvr @Sulfuras @arx @volgograd009 thoughts?

Yeah if you're limiting yourself you'll never succeed in anything, never ceil your potential, just try your best and you'll make it