modern relationships

[Farlea]

How do people expect to wife up a random girl they cold approach

how do you build a relationship with someone without knowing them first i’ve never understood this.

i’m not talking about slaying for you low iq troglodytes i mean finding a real woman you would want to raise your kids with.

especially the cucks who “dm girls” or use dating apps that shit is not natural and i feel like this is why at least in the west there are so many loveless marriages.

i feel like the only way is to naturally approach like in a work setting or school maybe certain hobbies that allow you to get to know them before dating.



i’m still gonna wait until marriage or i know she’s the one to slay because id expect the same from my wife.

 

[pslturi]

"OR i know she’s the one" you won't know.

 

[Farlea]

"OR i know she’s the one" you won't know.

false

 

[pslturi]

false

hmmmm okay

 

[fukmylyf]

wanting to raise kids is crazy

 

[Informationcapitali]

not sure. but this question has plagued my life for 3 years now

 

[Farlea]

wanting to raise kids is crazy

how so

 

[InanimatePragmatist]

How do people expect to wife up a random girl they cold approach

how do you build a relationship with someone without knowing them first i’ve never understood this.

i’m not talking about slaying for you low iq troglodytes i mean finding a real woman you would want to raise your kids with.

especially the cucks who “dm girls” or use dating apps that shit is not natural and i feel like this is why at least in the west there are so many loveless marriages.

i feel like the only way is to naturally approach like in a work setting or school maybe certain hobbies that allow you to get to know them before dating.



i’m still gonna wait until marriage or i know she’s the one to slay because id expect the same from my wife.

Honestly if modern relationships were an image, it would be this.

 

[LTNUser]

Honestly if modern relationships were an image, it would be this.
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Have you ever been in any relationship before ?

 

[Farlea]

glory to israel

 

[InanimatePragmatist]

Have you ever been in any relationship before ?

Yes. She was my first as I was hers too. I will leave it at that.

 

[takethewhitepill]

Okay, I can tell you are still quite young. In the real world, you dont have a crush on your friend and going on a date is a big deal. If I find a girl cute and we have alright chemistry in our texting interactions leading up (except in certain cases I only text to plan a meet up really) as well as obviously when we met irl, I go on a date to get to know them. So rather than a date meaning you are dating, you approach however you like and see if you want to get to know this stranger, each date you decide whether you want to get deeper into their character. I cant recommend against finding friends and trying to date them enough, it sort of works but it is very very flawed. Even in highschool, you will find dating doesnt happen as much between classmates, when it does it sucks, and when it ends its a pain. Personally I like to get to know someone for a couple of months before you decide anything, but you are intentional with romantic intent. Now I dont actually do this, and instead give it about two weeks of constant talking. But thats mostly just titles in my eyes, after 1 or 2 years I think she should be courted by you (at around 6 months) then you meet her family properly in a new context, build rapport and ask for her hand in marriage (takes a year) then propose and get married 6 months later. Fit the timeline to your needs but thats pretty good if you ask me.

 

[ShowerMaxxing]

How do people expect to wife up a random girl they cold approach

how do you build a relationship with someone without knowing them first i’ve never understood this.

i’m not talking about slaying for you low iq troglodytes i mean finding a real woman you would want to raise your kids with.

especially the cucks who “dm girls” or use dating apps that shit is not natural and i feel like this is why at least in the west there are so many loveless marriages.

i feel like the only way is to naturally approach like in a work setting or school maybe certain hobbies that allow you to get to know them before dating.



i’m still gonna wait until marriage or i know she’s the one to slay because id expect the same from my wife.

The issue with mediums of meeting is - dating apps: mostly whores. In real life: risk rejection, humiliation or position (in social hierarchy and potentially job/school).

If you are an attractive man you will never have to try it will happen organically. Women will come and go, dating is only problematic for avg and below avg men. You will notice moggers never feel cut over a breakup and replace within days, avg joes wallow for years