[MUSLIMCELS GTFIH] Would most foids here in the West (of any race) view being Muslim as a dealbreaker?

[Xangsane]

What's wrong with you? You just don't consider Muslims girls? They're hot

They are, but most Muslims where I live are South Asian girls of a pheno I'm not really attracted to.
I do like ambiguous/light South Asians though.

 

[Xangsane]

Nah bro it takes to be a literal brainlet to be muslim and incel at the same time. Im just telling you that you wont be so flexible while choosing foids, since you will be bound to the religious code and system. Most people with your mindset just trust in their best luck and embracing what comes in front of them as long as she doesn't have a serious condition or another huge failo like that.

In other words, prepare to lower your standards bro

I'm 5.5 PSL and have a similar pheno as my avi - what PSL of foids would I expect to get?

 

[Deleted member 17182]

They are, but most Muslims where I live are South Asian girls of a pheno I'm not really attracted to.
I do like ambiguous/light South Asians though.

Ok and? You can only marry 2 types of women. Muslim or Ahlul kitab .
Where do u live

 

[Xangsane]

Ok and? You can only marry 2 types of women. Muslim or Ahlul kitab .
Where do u live

UK, I'm aware of that

 

[bogii]

arab!= turk?

 

[Xangsane]

arab!= turk?

leb

 

[Deleted member 17182]

UK, I'm aware of that

Marry out of ur ethnicity

 

[Xangsane]

Marry out of ur ethnicity

Don't mind that.

 

[Deleted member 17182]

Don't mind that.

K

 

[bogii]

leb

really lol I thought we were the same breed but I don't think we are any different, are we?

 

[Xangsane]

really lol I thought we were the same breed but I don't think we are any different, are we?

No not at all. I did talk with a Turk foid on Discord (5.25 PSL) who suffers from inceldom because of helicopter parents; as a result she had to take a more observant approach to dating.

 

[bogii]

No not at all. I did talk with a Turk foid on Discord (5.25 PSL) who suffers from inceldom because of helicopter parents; as a result she had to take a more observant approach to dating.

wtf are helicopter parents?

 

[Xangsane]

wtf are helicopter parents?

Parents that check up on you all the damn time.

 

[Xangsane]

 

[KeepGrinding]

I know a bro that converted a western woman for marriage, but I don't trust western women (especially non-religious), too many bad experiences, they lack morals, and just act on their desires plus the state will always take their side if things go sideways.

Start practicing, go to the Masjid, build connections with the guys in the first row, ask them, your parents, aunts, and bros to help you out.
"Halal dating" is almost impossible, you aren't allowed to even touch them, just talking in public and at home with mahram is allowed, as far as I remember.
Also, I would strongly advise against marrying Ahlul-Kitab, which is impossible anyway, since being chaste is a requirement for marriage with them.
There is a chance that you will get divorced by your country's law, not sharia law, which has a high possibility of happening with the average ADHD riddled, TikTok addicted, coomdumpster western woman.
I'd take a practicing Muslimah over a disbeliever, many advantages compared to jews or Christians.
The best-case scenario would be a convert since they tend to be very strong in Iman and look best. (you won't produce incel offspring)

I'm a convert myself and have been struggling recently since I have been on forced nofap since I converted (last year in April) and I am ready to burst, but there is no chance for marriage for the next few years, since I'm still a student and barely make ends meet.

Also, start practicing seriously and offer night prayer (during the last third of the night), while making lots of Dua, I hope you find your wife, it's a royal pain to live in the west and not have a wife.

 

[reputation]

Title. I was brought up Muslim and would prefer to keep dating mostly halal, but I try not to tell that to any foid I'm seeing. No, I don't have to wait to have sex until after marriage (I have a body count of 1 from a failed relationship), but I avoid casual sex for this reason. I live with my parents and go to work (finished my 5-year uni course).

Most foids at first assume I'm white (I have brown hair and blue eyes) until I tell them. They still act interested in me until I try to take things slow to comply with halal dating.

Is this a dealbreaker to most western (black, white, mulatta, Latina, westernized Asian, etc) foids?
It doesn't seem to be a problem with Muslim foids here.

I prefer mulattas, then Latinas, other MENAs, some Meds, some Asians, but most of these foids don't tend to be Muslims (with the exception of course being MENAs; most of them near me unfortunately are in London)

Not really attracted to most Pakistanis unless if they share a similar pheno like me, or a Med/ambiguous-like/Yasmeen Ghauri-lite pheno. Been rated 5.5 PSL on average here.

(This is exactly the reason why my sister cannot date/have casual sex at Uni - she's being helicoptered by my dad)

Do not use term MENAs to refer to different ethnicities it is super stupid and unscientific

 

[reputation]

Nah bro it takes to be a literal brainlet to be muslim and incel at the same time. Im just telling you that you wont be so flexible while choosing foids, since you will be bound to the religious code and system. Most people with your mindset just trust in their best luck and embracing what comes in front of them as long as she doesn't have a serious condition or another huge failo like that.

In other words, prepare to lower your standards bro

lowering standards leads to incompatible relationships, it is better to be single instead

 

[Xangsane]

Do not use term MENAs to refer to different ethnicities it is super stupid and unscientific

It's a generalisation, no need to feel that way.

 

[Smoke Fanboy]

lowering standards leads to incompatible relationships, it is better to be single instead

I know, but OP has a tricky situation there. OP claims to be a devout muslim and the religion prohibits the flirting and making it pretty much hit or miss while choosing a partner

 

[Xangsane]

I know, but OP has a tricky situation there. OP claims to be a devout muslim and the religion prohibits the flirting and making it pretty much hit or miss while choosing a partner

I'm not a devout Muslim, but I observe Ramadan and pray often

 

[reputation]

I know, but OP has a tricky situation there. OP claims to be a devout muslim and the religion prohibits the flirting and making it pretty much hit or miss while choosing a partner

Religion allows to ask oneitis for a date under male custodian supervision

 

[Indeed]

I dated a latina who was willing to marry but i had just turned 18 at the time and just wanted to use her to lose my virginity. I never hid the fact I was a muslim and never had an issue with any girls. I know arabs who have married white women or latinas with ok success. Personally I want to marry an arab because I don't want any culture clashes and I am a firm believer in islam. i don't want her to convert for me or because she met me.

 

[Indeed]

Dude if you are high enough SMV a foid will literally disown her family for you if you get her hooked. Your Dad is right to helicopter your sister.

 

[Deleted member 14160]

@Biggdink which is bigger name failo. Muhammad and Ossama or Sanjay and Ranjeet

 

[Deleted member 18522]

I'm a Muslim as well with a body count of around 30

It's a death sentence if you're actually practicing the 'halal dating', even most Muslim women are horny and want sex ASAP (Also you need to be low T to be with a girl that is attracted to you and not want to start sex)

As for perception it's a slightly bigger failo than just being an ethnic. Most women who are okay with dating ethnics would consider Muslims, at least here in the USA, people are actually extremely unracist and will treat basically every race/religion the same if hey act normal.

I want to cope with a religious marriage to a Bosnian or Algerian woman but idk probably whores too but I won't get a decent LTR regardless without leveraging something (I'm not subhuman just not NT and oldcel so I missed the window to get that local long term LTR).

I've had sex with 3 Muslims, 1 Indian and 2 Maghrebi there are a very small number here.

 

[Deleted member 7580]

@Biggdink which is bigger name failo. Muhammad and Ossama or Sanjay and Ranjeet

All bad tbh
Sanjay and ranjeet make me laugh tho

 

[Britmaxxer]

Title. I was brought up Muslim and would prefer to keep dating mostly halal, but I try not to tell that to any foid I'm seeing. No, I don't have to wait to have sex until after marriage (I have a body count of 1 from a failed relationship), but I avoid casual sex for this reason. I live with my parents and go to work (finished my 5-year uni course).

Most foids at first assume I'm white (I have brown hair and blue eyes) until I tell them. They still act interested in me until I try to take things slow to comply with halal dating.

Is this a dealbreaker to most western (black, white, mulatta, Latina, westernized Asian, etc) foids?
It doesn't seem to be a problem with Muslim foids here.

I prefer mulattas, then Latinas, other MENAs, some Meds, some Asians, but most of these foids don't tend to be Muslims (with the exception of course being MENAs; most of them near me unfortunately are in London)

Not really attracted to most Pakistanis unless if they share a similar pheno like me, or a Med/ambiguous-like/Yasmeen Ghauri-lite pheno. Been rated 5.5 PSL on average here.

(This is exactly the reason why my sister cannot date/have casual sex at Uni - she's being helicoptered by my dad)

modern women are not interested in taking things slow. in todays marketplace, if you havent fucked after meeting for the first time, you probably will never fuck.

from what you have told me, you might need to change where you are meeting women. dating apps and bars are only going to have easy women. try an actual club or religous group, or coworkers instead.

 

[Xangsane]

I'm a Muslim as well with a body count of around 30

It's a death sentence if you're actually practicing the 'halal dating', even most Muslim women are horny and want sex ASAP (Also you need to be low T to be with a girl that is attracted to you and not want to start sex)

As for perception it's a slightly bigger failo than just being an ethnic. Most women who are okay with dating ethnics would consider Muslims, at least here in the USA, people are actually extremely unracist and will treat basically every race/religion the same if hey act normal.

I want to cope with a religious marriage to a Bosnian or Algerian woman but idk probably whores too but I won't get a decent LTR regardless without leveraging something (I'm not subhuman just not NT and oldcel so I missed the window to get that local long term LTR).

I've had sex with 3 Muslims, 1 Indian and 2 Maghrebi there are a very small number here.

I thought you said you were Latino. Did you convert?

 

[Xangsane]

modern women are not interested in taking things slow. in todays marketplace, if you havent fucked after meeting for the first time, you probably will never fuck.

from what you have told me, you might need to change where you are meeting women. dating apps and bars are only going to have easy women. try an actual club or religous group, or coworkers instead.

I only met (IRL) only a few foids (all ethnic) who weren't like the typical degenerate Western foid and like to take things slow

I've heard Tinder is full of easy women and Hinge is full of desperate women.

By club you mean something like a book club? And most of my coworkers are middle aged or foids I'm not that interested in

 

[PrinceLuenLeoncur]

Title. I was brought up Muslim and would prefer to keep dating mostly halal, but I try not to tell that to any foid I'm seeing. No, I don't have to wait to have sex until after marriage (I have a body count of 1 from a failed relationship), but I avoid casual sex for this reason. I live with my parents and go to work (finished my 5-year uni course).

Most foids at first assume I'm white (I have brown hair and blue eyes) until I tell them. They still act interested in me until I try to take things slow to comply with halal dating.

Is this a dealbreaker to most western (black, white, mulatta, Latina, westernized Asian, etc) foids?
It doesn't seem to be a problem with Muslim foids here.

I prefer mulattas, then Latinas, other MENAs, some Meds, some Asians, but most of these foids don't tend to be Muslims (with the exception of course being MENAs; most of them near me unfortunately are in London)

Not really attracted to most Pakistanis unless if they share a similar pheno like me, or a Med/ambiguous-like/Yasmeen Ghauri-lite pheno. Been rated 5.5 PSL on average here.

(This is exactly the reason why my sister cannot date/have casual sex at Uni - she's being helicoptered by my dad)

Non white women would be more open but girls who are open to brown men and ethnics as a whole will not care

The msot intresting thing is girls into black guys will not mind a black Muslim even if she doesn’t like Islam herself. I have noticed black
Muslims and normal blacks are treated the same

Girls who hate Islam with a passion will jsut not be open to an brown man regardless of background. I’d say most white women are not open to IR so it’s safe to say “no” but non Whire girls will be dependant on individuals

 

[Britmaxxer]

I only met (IRL) only a few foids (all ethnic) who weren't like the typical degenerate Western foid and like to take things slow

I've heard Tinder is full of easy women and Hinge is full of desperate women.

By club you mean something like a book club? And most of my coworkers are middle aged or foids I'm not that interested in

clubs like this are probably your only option. you could also try more ethnic focused dating apps such as tantan.

 

[Xangsane]

clubs like this are probably your only option. you could also try more ethnic focused dating apps such as tantan.

Muzmatch?

 

[Xangsane]

Non white women would be more open but girls who are open to brown men and ethnics as a whole will not care

The msot intresting thing is girls into black guys will not mind a black Muslim even if she doesn’t like Islam herself. I have noticed black
Muslims and normal blacks are treated the same

Girls who hate Islam with a passion will jsut not be open to an brown man regardless of background. I’d say most white women are not open to IR so it’s safe to say “no” but non Whire girls will be dependant on individuals

It does seem the only acceptable Muslim is a black Muslim because BBC halo.

What I'm worried about are the self hating ethnics; these to me often have unideal phenos (eg hindu curries, full noodles) compared to ideal phenos (eg mulatta, Latina, mena, Blasian, hapa)

 

[Deleted member 18522]

I thought you said you were Latino. Did you convert?

My great grandfather has Syrian roots and Islam has been kept alive in my side of the family alhumdillah

 

[Xangsane]

My great grandfather has Syrian roots and Islam has been kept alive in my side of the family alhumdillah

I also have syrian heritage

 

[Deleted member 18522]

I also have syrian heritage

Nice where are you from

 

[Xangsane]

Nice where are you from

UK

 

[Anyanglover]

brother,you can marry a Fulani or amhara mulatto muslima in a muslim country and bring her over.this is a bad idea.

and yes,the western people and also hindus hate the muslims.only ahlulkitab that don't are brazilians and latinos in latin america where muslims are seen as exotic and interesting rather than the stereotypes like in the west.

there are 1 million mexican converts to islam in mexico too if you prefer latinas.100k in the states.

also as one brother said,to marry a kitabiya the requirment is that shes chaste and not a zaniyah,wich is impossible today.

 

[Venomkore]

If it’s not that obvious they usually don’t mind, if you bring it up a lot/live by it devoutly it spooks them same as any religion does

 

[Deleted member 18522]

I know a bro that converted a western woman for marriage, but I don't trust western women (especially non-religious), too many bad experiences, they lack morals, and just act on their desires plus the state will always take their side if things go sideways.

Start practicing, go to the Masjid, build connections with the guys in the first row, ask them, your parents, aunts, and bros to help you out.
"Halal dating" is almost impossible, you aren't allowed to even touch them, just talking in public and at home with mahram is allowed, as far as I remember.
Also, I would strongly advise against marrying Ahlul-Kitab, which is impossible anyway, since being chaste is a requirement for marriage with them.
There is a chance that you will get divorced by your country's law, not sharia law, which has a high possibility of happening with the average ADHD riddled, TikTok addicted, coomdumpster western woman.
I'd take a practicing Muslimah over a disbeliever, many advantages compared to jews or Christians.
The best-case scenario would be a convert since they tend to be very strong in Iman and look best. (you won't produce incel offspring)

I'm a convert myself and have been struggling recently since I have been on forced nofap since I converted (last year in April) and I am ready to burst, but there is no chance for marriage for the next few years, since I'm still a student and barely make ends meet.

Also, start practicing seriously and offer night prayer (during the last third of the night), while making lots of Dua, I hope you find your wife, it's a royal pain to live in the west and not have a wife.

Alhumdillah.
What is your country and background?
Gonna run arranged marriage game on a Bosnian or Algerian Stacy, and I honest don't give a crap if it goes sideways, I need to stop committing zina and frying my dopamine receptors.