My (29/m) wife (28/f) just admitted that she isn't attracted to me but is attracted to a co-worker.

[ElySioNs]

My wife and I have been together for almost 10 years now and have been married for 3 years. Other than this problem, our relationship is really great. We have no kids and as she puts it, we are "thick as thieves".

While we were dating, sex was adventurous and fun for both of us. We always took the chance to play around whenever we could as many times as we could. She loved me going down on her and would be disappointed if I didn't get the chance. However, shortly after we were married, sex has kind of slowed down to once per month. I've been having to persuade her to let me go down on her. At one point she said that she didn't mind if I never did it to her again. I kind of attributed it to us living together, always spending time together and there not being an opportunity to be missed.

Well I was soooooo wrong!!! Two weeks ago we had a conversation about her low libido and I asked if she fantasizes about me during her day when we're not together and she couldn't remember one time that she did in the past 3 years. This led me to ask if she didn't find me attractive. (I hope I'm not being an asshole by thinking that I look pretty good. I workout regularly, am pretty handsome and my female coworkers have always said that I look nice. I was also voted best looking at our recent Christmas party.) It was hard for her to answer the question because she didn't want to hurt my feelings, but ultimately she said no, that I WASN'T unattractive, just that I didn't bring out that feeling in her.

Yesterday it dawned on me to ask her if she is sexually attracted to anyone. Please note that I've asked her this question numerous times before, and aside from a few celebrity cruses, it was ALWAYS a no. However, this time she said that she has become recently attracted to a coworker whom she used to HATE with a passion!!!! She's said a few times that she's filed a complaint against him because he would constantly antagonize her at work. This has led them to "clear the air" and try to become more cordial. This cordiality though, has led to them becoming somewhat of acquaintances. Although, she doesn't text him, or speak to him on the phone, just in the workplace.

This week it sort of hit her that she is sexually attracted to him. She stressed the fact though that he is really ugly in her eyes and short and this really confuses her. She also stressed the fact that his attitude and demeanor is what really turns her on. She realized this because during her working conversations with him throughout the day, she would smell his cologne and the way he talked to her really turned her on, wanting to reach out and kiss him. Yesterday she even said that she was fantasizing about him going down on her and giving him head. This has crushed me. I couldn't sleep last night where I was so devastated.

I understand that we will not be able to control our feelings about someone, but my problem with all of this is that, all I have to do is look at her or smell her scent and I'm ready to jump in bed with her. BUT, I don't bring about that same feelings for her. I've attributed her having sex with me to something like masturbation. She just wants to scratch an itch. She says that she doesn't want to lose me, she loves me and can't live without me, but this is the first time she's had these feelings since we started seeing each other. She wants to see a therapist and work things through to see if this situation can be rectified.

What can be done about this situation? Ladies, have you ever felt this way about your husbands or boyfriends? Men, would you continue in this marriage knowing what I know now? I don't know if I I have the strength to continue knowing that I don't turn my wife on.

 

[Alt Number 3]

he should go er on her and the kids tbh only thing left to do

 

[makeme183]

This week it sort of hit her that she is sexually attracted to him. She stressed the fact though that he is short

lifefuel

 

[JBcollector]

Well at least he should leave her

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Cheat on her of course. Say you were insecure and wanted to be sure you weren't ugly, she'll let you get away with it.

 

[Deleted member 22611]

Reddit always surprises me with these stories. Some are surely some sort of deranged fetish LARP - but even if one out of hundred is real... just imagine it. What a red flag he specifically mentions going down on her. Usually a guy would highlight that his girl or ex gives good head, not the other way around. For example my ex could make me cum with just oral sex, which is very rare as most girls aren't good enough to make me cum. It will feel nice, I'll let them do it until their jaw hurts, and then fuck, but getting such head that I could just bust a nut under five minutes was incredible. Meanwhile this faggot is bragging about how good he is at eating out some bitch who isn't even attracted to him one bit JFL. It's harder to fuck well than to eat someone out. Also no substitute for a good dick size too. Especially if you're going to LTR and it might be brought up in comparison.

Sometimes I feel like I inhabit an entirely different world despite sharing the same physical space.

 

[Deleted member 22126]

But but normies have gfs and sex daily bro

 

[Deleted member 22627]

My wife and I have been together for almost 10 years now and have been married for 3 years. Other than this problem, our relationship is really great. We have no kids and as she puts it, we are "thick as thieves".

While we were dating, sex was adventurous and fun for both of us. We always took the chance to play around whenever we could as many times as we could. She loved me going down on her and would be disappointed if I didn't get the chance. However, shortly after we were married, sex has kind of slowed down to once per month. I've been having to persuade her to let me go down on her. At one point she said that she didn't mind if I never did it to her again. I kind of attributed it to us living together, always spending time together and there not being an opportunity to be missed.

Well I was soooooo wrong!!! Two weeks ago we had a conversation about her low libido and I asked if she fantasizes about me during her day when we're not together and she couldn't remember one time that she did in the past 3 years. This led me to ask if she didn't find me attractive. (I hope I'm not being an asshole by thinking that I look pretty good. I workout regularly, am pretty handsome and my female coworkers have always said that I look nice. I was also voted best looking at our recent Christmas party.) It was hard for her to answer the question because she didn't want to hurt my feelings, but ultimately she said no, that I WASN'T unattractive, just that I didn't bring out that feeling in her.

Yesterday it dawned on me to ask her if she is sexually attracted to anyone. Please note that I've asked her this question numerous times before, and aside from a few celebrity cruses, it was ALWAYS a no. However, this time she said that she has become recently attracted to a coworker whom she used to HATE with a passion!!!! She's said a few times that she's filed a complaint against him because he would constantly antagonize her at work. This has led them to "clear the air" and try to become more cordial. This cordiality though, has led to them becoming somewhat of acquaintances. Although, she doesn't text him, or speak to him on the phone, just in the workplace.

This week it sort of hit her that she is sexually attracted to him. She stressed the fact though that he is really ugly in her eyes and short and this really confuses her. She also stressed the fact that his attitude and demeanor is what really turns her on. She realized this because during her working conversations with him throughout the day, she would smell his cologne and the way he talked to her really turned her on, wanting to reach out and kiss him. Yesterday she even said that she was fantasizing about him going down on her and giving him head. This has crushed me. I couldn't sleep last night where I was so devastated.

I understand that we will not be able to control our feelings about someone, but my problem with all of this is that, all I have to do is look at her or smell her scent and I'm ready to jump in bed with her. BUT, I don't bring about that same feelings for her. I've attributed her having sex with me to something like masturbation. She just wants to scratch an itch. She says that she doesn't want to lose me, she loves me and can't live without me, but this is the first time she's had these feelings since we started seeing each other. She wants to see a therapist and work things through to see if this situation can be rectified.

What can be done about this situation? Ladies, have you ever felt this way about your husbands or boyfriends? Men, would you continue in this marriage knowing what I know now? I don't know if I I have the strength to continue knowing that I don't turn my wife on.

It suck being in love and all when bad things happen but no man should EVER let this kind of shit stand.

 

[Deleted member 22611]

It suck being in love and all when bad things happen but no man should EVER let this kind of shit stand.

Truly. To me when someone says they are married, unless they have at least decent SMV, I can't help but think that they're somewhat fucked over in one way or another.

And what is up with this socially accepted norm of having celebrity crushes? Miss me with that shit. Not that I have any experience with this, but if I ever heard a bitch bring up anything like that I'd bust a nut in her mouth as a price for annoying me, leave and break off all contact thereafter.

 

[Daniel Plainview]

My wife and I have been together for almost 10 years now and have been married for 3 years. Other than this problem, our relationship is really great. We have no kids and as she puts it, we are "thick as thieves".

While we were dating, sex was adventurous and fun for both of us. We always took the chance to play around whenever we could as many times as we could. She loved me going down on her and would be disappointed if I didn't get the chance. However, shortly after we were married, sex has kind of slowed down to once per month. I've been having to persuade her to let me go down on her. At one point she said that she didn't mind if I never did it to her again. I kind ofattributed it to us living together, always spending time together and there not being an opportunity to be missed.

Well I was soooooo wrong!!! Two weeks ago we had a conversation about her low libido and I asked if she fantasizes about me during her day when we're not together and she couldn't remember one time that she did in the past 3 years. This led me to ask if she didn't find me attractive. (I hope I'm not being an asshole by thinking that I look pretty good. I workout regularly, am pretty handsome and my female coworkers have always said that I look nice. I was also voted best looking at our recent Christmas party.) It was hard for her to answer the question because she didn't want to hurt my feelings, but ultimately she said no, that I WASN'T unattractive, just that I didn't bring out that feeling in her.

Yesterday it dawned on me to ask her if she is sexually attracted to anyone. Please note that I've asked her this question numerous times before, and aside from a few celebrity cruses, it was ALWAYS a no. However, this time she said that she has become recently attracted to a coworker whom she used to HATE with a passion!!!! She's said a few times that she's filed a complaint against him because he would constantly antagonize her at work. This has led them to "clear the air" and try to become more cordial. This cordiality though, has led to them becoming somewhat of acquaintances. Although, she doesn't text him, or speak to him on the phone, just in the workplace.

This week it sort of hit her that she is sexually attracted to him. She stressed the fact though that he is really ugly in her eyes and short and this really confuses her. She also stressed the fact that his attitude and demeanor is what really turns her on. She realized this because during her working conversations with him throughout the day, she would smell his cologne and the way he talked to her really turned her on, wanting to reach out and kiss him. Yesterday she even said that she was fantasizing about him going down on her and giving him head. This has crushed me. I couldn't sleep last night where I was so devastated.

I understand that we will not be able to control our feelings about someone, but my problem with all of this is that, all I have to do is look at her or smell her scent and I'm ready to jump in bed with her. BUT, I don't bring about that same feelings for her. I've attributed her having sex with me to something like masturbation. She just wants to scratch an itch. She says that she doesn't want to lose me, she loves me and can't live without me, but this is the first time she's had these feelings since we started seeing each other. She wants to see a therapist and work things through to see if this situation can be rectified.

What can be done about this situation? Ladies, have you ever felt this way about your husbands or boyfriends? Men, would you continue in this marriage knowing what I know now? I don't know if I I have the strength to continue knowing that I don't turn my wife on.

What a loser

 

[Allandro]

My wife and I have been together for almost 10 years now and have been married for 3 years. Other than this problem, our relationship is really great. We have no kids and as she puts it, we are "thick as thieves".

While we were dating, sex was adventurous and fun for both of us. We always took the chance to play around whenever we could as many times as we could. She loved me going down on her and would be disappointed if I didn't get the chance. However, shortly after we were married, sex has kind of slowed down to once per month. I've been having to persuade her to let me go down on her. At one point she said that she didn't mind if I never did it to her again. I kind of attributed it to us living together, always spending time together and there not being an opportunity to be missed.

Well I was soooooo wrong!!! Two weeks ago we had a conversation about her low libido and I asked if she fantasizes about me during her day when we're not together and she couldn't remember one time that she did in the past 3 years. This led me to ask if she didn't find me attractive. (I hope I'm not being an asshole by thinking that I look pretty good. I workout regularly, am pretty handsome and my female coworkers have always said that I look nice. I was also voted best looking at our recent Christmas party.) It was hard for her to answer the question because she didn't want to hurt my feelings, but ultimately she said no, that I WASN'T unattractive, just that I didn't bring out that feeling in her.

Yesterday it dawned on me to ask her if she is sexually attracted to anyone. Please note that I've asked her this question numerous times before, and aside from a few celebrity cruses, it was ALWAYS a no. However, this time she said that she has become recently attracted to a coworker whom she used to HATE with a passion!!!! She's said a few times that she's filed a complaint against him because he would constantly antagonize her at work. This has led them to "clear the air" and try to become more cordial. This cordiality though, has led to them becoming somewhat of acquaintances. Although, she doesn't text him, or speak to him on the phone, just in the workplace.

This week it sort of hit her that she is sexually attracted to him. She stressed the fact though that he is really ugly in her eyes and short and this really confuses her. She also stressed the fact that his attitude and demeanor is what really turns her on. She realized this because during her working conversations with him throughout the day, she would smell his cologne and the way he talked to her really turned her on, wanting to reach out and kiss him. Yesterday she even said that she was fantasizing about him going down on her and giving him head. This has crushed me. I couldn't sleep last night where I was so devastated.

I understand that we will not be able to control our feelings about someone, but my problem with all of this is that, all I have to do is look at her or smell her scent and I'm ready to jump in bed with her. BUT, I don't bring about that same feelings for her. I've attributed her having sex with me to something like masturbation. She just wants to scratch an itch. She says that she doesn't want to lose me, she loves me and can't live without me, but this is the first time she's had these feelings since we started seeing each other. She wants to see a therapist and work things through to see if this situation can be rectified.

What can be done about this situation? Ladies, have you ever felt this way about your husbands or boyfriends? Men, would you continue in this marriage knowing what I know now? I don't know if I I have the strength to continue knowing that I don't turn my wife on.

Man, pay 10 prostitutes and let them come to ur house, start an orge and wait ur wife to come back home... She'll see! U will fuck those 10 foids in front of her eyes and laugh at her.

 

[MoggerGaston]

I'll never eat out my ltr/girlfriend. That's some serious degenerate stuff.

You only do that shit with hookers/one-night stands and make sure nobody ever finds out.

 

[SubSigma]

My wife and I have been together for almost 10 years now and have been married for 3 years. Other than this problem, our relationship is really great. We have no kids and as she puts it, we are "thick as thieves".

While we were dating, sex was adventurous and fun for both of us. We always took the chance to play around whenever we could as many times as we could. She loved me going down on her and would be disappointed if I didn't get the chance. However, shortly after we were married, sex has kind of slowed down to once per month. I've been having to persuade her to let me go down on her. At one point she said that she didn't mind if I never did it to her again. I kind of attributed it to us living together, always spending time together and there not being an opportunity to be missed.

Well I was soooooo wrong!!! Two weeks ago we had a conversation about her low libido and I asked if she fantasizes about me during her day when we're not together and she couldn't remember one time that she did in the past 3 years. This led me to ask if she didn't find me attractive. (I hope I'm not being an asshole by thinking that I look pretty good. I workout regularly, am pretty handsome and my female coworkers have always said that I look nice. I was also voted best looking at our recent Christmas party.) It was hard for her to answer the question because she didn't want to hurt my feelings, but ultimately she said no, that I WASN'T unattractive, just that I didn't bring out that feeling in her.

Yesterday it dawned on me to ask her if she is sexually attracted to anyone. Please note that I've asked her this question numerous times before, and aside from a few celebrity cruses, it was ALWAYS a no. However, this time she said that she has become recently attracted to a coworker whom she used to HATE with a passion!!!! She's said a few times that she's filed a complaint against him because he would constantly antagonize her at work. This has led them to "clear the air" and try to become more cordial. This cordiality though, has led to them becoming somewhat of acquaintances. Although, she doesn't text him, or speak to him on the phone, just in the workplace.

This week it sort of hit her that she is sexually attracted to him. She stressed the fact though that he is really ugly in her eyes and short and this really confuses her. She also stressed the fact that his attitude and demeanor is what really turns her on. She realized this because during her working conversations with him throughout the day, she would smell his cologne and the way he talked to her really turned her on, wanting to reach out and kiss him. Yesterday she even said that she was fantasizing about him going down on her and giving him head. This has crushed me. I couldn't sleep last night where I was so devastated.

I understand that we will not be able to control our feelings about someone, but my problem with all of this is that, all I have to do is look at her or smell her scent and I'm ready to jump in bed with her. BUT, I don't bring about that same feelings for her. I've attributed her having sex with me to something like masturbation. She just wants to scratch an itch. She says that she doesn't want to lose me, she loves me and can't live without me, but this is the first time she's had these feelings since we started seeing each other. She wants to see a therapist and work things through to see if this situation can be rectified.

What can be done about this situation? Ladies, have you ever felt this way about your husbands or boyfriends? Men, would you continue in this marriage knowing what I know now? I don't know if I I have the strength to continue knowing that I don't turn my wife on.

Lol I saw this on reddit earlier. OvER

 

[Lihito]

She stressed the fact though that he is really ugly in her eyes and short and this really confuses her

either a big fat LARP or some heavy coping

 

[Lihito]

lifefuel

manlet bad boys winning again

 

[Lihito]

Also no substitute for a good dick size too

r/BigDickProblems is expecially based when it comes to this , these guys are usually DHT maxxed chads alongside their huge dicks and they realized they do better in sex hierarchies

Sometimes I feel like I inhabit an entirely different world despite sharing the same physical space.

i feel like this every second of my fucking life

 

[Lihito]

But but normies have gfs and sex daily bro

i legit knew truecells from incels.is that still believed this bullshit

also i debunked my college profesor when she said 60% of young males in croatian society are having sex JFL i started sperging out about incels and hypergamy and since its sociology college some guys even agreed JFL

 

[Deleted member 22126]

i legit knew truecells from incels.is that still believed this bullshit

also i debunked my college profesor when she said 60% of young males in croatian society are having sex JFL i started sperging out about incels and hypergamy and since its sociology college some guys even agreed JFL

Its brutal af im the only guy from my friendgroup who had a gf. That too was for a short time

 

[Deleted member 22611]

r/BigDickProblems is expecially based when it comes to this , these guys are usually DHT maxxed chads alongside their huge dicks and they realized they do better in sex hierarchies

I genuinely maintain that having a small dick is not bad for ONS. It's horrible for LTR's. To think of it, would you really care if the chick was satisfied or thought you were small if you only see her once? Meanwhile with a LTR there is are expectations. Ideally your girlfriend should always mention that your penis size is big. Most girls, unless they are turbo sluts, will think anything above 6" is quite big. Statistically, and I mean statistically, not make-believe measurements, most men aren't impressive. I think with good health, strong erections and some sort of jelqing (still not sure if this works as I have never tested it properly and I don't particularly enjoy looking through penis photos with measurements for proof; I'm leaning towards believing it in a limited scale) it is possible to reach at least 6".

 

[Survivor95]

My wife and I have been together for almost 10 years now and have been married for 3 years. Other than this problem, our relationship is really great. We have no kids and as she puts it, we are "thick as thieves".

While we were dating, sex was adventurous and fun for both of us. We always took the chance to play around whenever we could as many times as we could. She loved me going down on her and would be disappointed if I didn't get the chance. However, shortly after we were married, sex has kind of slowed down to once per month. I've been having to persuade her to let me go down on her. At one point she said that she didn't mind if I never did it to her again. I kind of attributed it to us living together, always spending time together and there not being an opportunity to be missed.

Well I was soooooo wrong!!! Two weeks ago we had a conversation about her low libido and I asked if she fantasizes about me during her day when we're not together and she couldn't remember one time that she did in the past 3 years. This led me to ask if she didn't find me attractive. (I hope I'm not being an asshole by thinking that I look pretty good. I workout regularly, am pretty handsome and my female coworkers have always said that I look nice. I was also voted best looking at our recent Christmas party.) It was hard for her to answer the question because she didn't want to hurt my feelings, but ultimately she said no, that I WASN'T unattractive, just that I didn't bring out that feeling in her.

Yesterday it dawned on me to ask her if she is sexually attracted to anyone. Please note that I've asked her this question numerous times before, and aside from a few celebrity cruses, it was ALWAYS a no. However, this time she said that she has become recently attracted to a coworker whom she used to HATE with a passion!!!! She's said a few times that she's filed a complaint against him because he would constantly antagonize her at work. This has led them to "clear the air" and try to become more cordial. This cordiality though, has led to them becoming somewhat of acquaintances. Although, she doesn't text him, or speak to him on the phone, just in the workplace.

This week it sort of hit her that she is sexually attracted to him. She stressed the fact though that he is really ugly in her eyes and short and this really confuses her. She also stressed the fact that his attitude and demeanor is what really turns her on. She realized this because during her working conversations with him throughout the day, she would smell his cologne and the way he talked to her really turned her on, wanting to reach out and kiss him. Yesterday she even said that she was fantasizing about him going down on her and giving him head. This has crushed me. I couldn't sleep last night where I was so devastated.

I understand that we will not be able to control our feelings about someone, but my problem with all of this is that, all I have to do is look at her or smell her scent and I'm ready to jump in bed with her. BUT, I don't bring about that same feelings for her. I've attributed her having sex with me to something like masturbation. She just wants to scratch an itch. She says that she doesn't want to lose me, she loves me and can't live without me, but this is the first time she's had these feelings since we started seeing each other. She wants to see a therapist and work things through to see if this situation can be rectified.

What can be done about this situation? Ladies, have you ever felt this way about your husbands or boyfriends? Men, would you continue in this marriage knowing what I know now? I don't know if I I have the strength to continue knowing that I don't turn my wife on.

I can't belive some younger guys are so dumb and get married nowardays.

 

[Verse]

Reddit always surprises me with these stories. Some are surely some sort of deranged fetish LARP - but even if one out of hundred is real... just imagine it. What a red flag he specifically mentions going down on her. Usually a guy would highlight that his girl or ex gives good head, not the other way around. For example my ex could make me cum with just oral sex, which is very rare as most girls aren't good enough to make me cum. It will feel nice, I'll let them do it until their jaw hurts, and then fuck, but getting such head that I could just bust a nut under five minutes was incredible. Meanwhile this faggot is bragging about how good he is at eating out some bitch who isn't even attracted to him one bit JFL. It's harder to fuck well than to eat someone out. Also no substitute for a good dick size too. Especially if you're going to LTR and it might be brought up in comparison.

Sometimes I feel like I inhabit an entirely different world despite sharing the same physical space.

okay chad

 

[Aypo129]

I can already guess it's a cumskin brutal

 

[maxeverything]

Lol I read that post. The Reddit cheating threads are brutal, it’s almost always men getting cucked into oblivion. The few female threads the men are almost always cheating with escorts or sending onlyfans girls money. Although I have noticed the older the couple is, the more likely it is the man is the cheater. It’s still usually the woman, but you never see a 21 year old chick posting about getting cheated on

 

[Downey]

I tracked down the post so I could see update. Turns out wife later had an affair with the guy, husband divorced her and became some sort of gymcelled red pill chad, then 2 years later she came back and they are just fuck buddies now

Reddit - The heart of the internet

www.reddit.com

 

[AchooWhalesAreBlue]

she says we are "thick as thieves" this nigga said

HUH

ARE UGLY PEOPLE ACTUALLY THIS INSANE

 

[utcrew]

My wife and I have been together for almost 10 years now and have been married for 3 years. Other than this problem, our relationship is really great. We have no kids and as she puts it, we are "thick as thieves".

While we were dating, sex was adventurous and fun for both of us. We always took the chance to play around whenever we could as many times as we could. She loved me going down on her and would be disappointed if I didn't get the chance. However, shortly after we were married, sex has kind of slowed down to once per month. I've been having to persuade her to let me go down on her. At one point she said that she didn't mind if I never did it to her again. I kind of attributed it to us living together, always spending time together and there not being an opportunity to be missed.

Well I was soooooo wrong!!! Two weeks ago we had a conversation about her low libido and I asked if she fantasizes about me during her day when we're not together and she couldn't remember one time that she did in the past 3 years. This led me to ask if she didn't find me attractive. (I hope I'm not being an asshole by thinking that I look pretty good. I workout regularly, am pretty handsome and my female coworkers have always said that I look nice. I was also voted best looking at our recent Christmas party.) It was hard for her to answer the question because she didn't want to hurt my feelings, but ultimately she said no, that I WASN'T unattractive, just that I didn't bring out that feeling in her.

Yesterday it dawned on me to ask her if she is sexually attracted to anyone. Please note that I've asked her this question numerous times before, and aside from a few celebrity cruses, it was ALWAYS a no. However, this time she said that she has become recently attracted to a coworker whom she used to HATE with a passion!!!! She's said a few times that she's filed a complaint against him because he would constantly antagonize her at work. This has led them to "clear the air" and try to become more cordial. This cordiality though, has led to them becoming somewhat of acquaintances. Although, she doesn't text him, or speak to him on the phone, just in the workplace.

This week it sort of hit her that she is sexually attracted to him. She stressed the fact though that he is really ugly in her eyes and short and this really confuses her. She also stressed the fact that his attitude and demeanor is what really turns her on. She realized this because during her working conversations with him throughout the day, she would smell his cologne and the way he talked to her really turned her on, wanting to reach out and kiss him. Yesterday she even said that she was fantasizing about him going down on her and giving him head. This has crushed me. I couldn't sleep last night where I was so devastated.

I understand that we will not be able to control our feelings about someone, but my problem with all of this is that, all I have to do is look at her or smell her scent and I'm ready to jump in bed with her. BUT, I don't bring about that same feelings for her. I've attributed her having sex with me to something like masturbation. She just wants to scratch an itch. She says that she doesn't want to lose me, she loves me and can't live without me, but this is the first time she's had these feelings since we started seeing each other. She wants to see a therapist and work things through to see if this situation can be rectified.

What can be done about this situation? Ladies, have you ever felt this way about your husbands or boyfriends? Men, would you continue in this marriage knowing what I know now? I don't know if I I have the strength to continue knowing that I don't turn my wife on.

1) Don’t date/marry a western woman, too late for that tho
2) You must have done something to provoke this, might be that you have looksmined due to old age. If not, then you mentioned something about her preferring the guy you’re working with cause he’s more dominant. You’ve probably given into too much shit and let her make too many decisions throughout the years and she has grown to resent you and hate you for that. No such thing as a democracy in a marriage. You have to win the power struggle or else it’s over and might as well divorce her.

Remember, a woman will always mould you into something she hates and a man will always mould a woman into something he loves.

 

[Deleted member 20399]

he should go er on her and the kids tbh only thing left to do

That’s real