My Dad is Dying and I Have No Money

[SerpentVenom25]

Hey guys, so for the last few years my dad has died twice due to heart failure usually at random in the middle of the night meaning we’d have to call 911 and have him transported to the hospital. In one week from now, he’s getting open heart surgery and there is a decent chance that he doesn’t make it. If he does, I would have to be with him in 24 seven and be a caretaker their would be nobody else except me. The second biggest thing is the lack of money to fund all of his medical bills. Over the years, a lot of money has went into his medical bills, and to be honest, it’s hard to keep up. On top of this, I am struggling with my own issues, of course. Crazy, bad depression, insomnia, (which I take pills for, but I don’t find them very helpful) ed, I’m literally starving, and issues with my legs (walking issues) due to a deformity I developed for being inside and immobile for the last year or so not to mention I, myself, was in a hospital recently. And I really feel like I’m not making much progress on my looksmaxing journey at this point in time. Please let me know if you have any suggestions.

 

[ZygolessBum]

Hey guys, so for the last few years my dad has died twice due to heart failure usually at random in the middle of the night meaning we’d have to call 911 and have him transported to the hospital. In one week from now, he’s getting open heart surgery and there is a decent chance that he doesn’t make it. If he does, I would have to be with him in 24 seven and be a caretaker their would be nobody else except me. The second biggest thing is the lack of money to fund all of his medical bills. Over the years, a lot of money has went into his medical bills, and to be honest, it’s hard to keep up. On top of this, I am struggling with my own issues, of course. Crazy, bad depression, insomnia, (which I take pills for, but I don’t find them very helpful) ed, I’m literally starving, and issues with my legs (walking issues) due to a deformity I developed for being inside and immobile for the last year or so not to mention I, myself, was in a hospital recently. And I really feel like I’m not making much progress on my looksmaxing journey at this point in time. Please let me know if you have any suggestions.

dont worry about making progress for now, reach out to anyobdy that you know for help, whether its a friend, family member, legitimately anybody, things will get better.

 

[SerpentVenom25]

dont worry about making progress for now, reach out to anyobdy that you know for help, whether its a friend, family member, legitimately anybody, things will get better.

Thank you. It’s really just me and my mom. She’s working all the time and I have no other friends or family literally no one. So I’m just kinda stuck up.

 

[ZygolessBum]

Thank you. It’s really just me and my mom. She’s working all the time and I have no other friends or family literally no one. So I’m just kinda stuck up.

This is part of you becoming a man. Not saying it's good, but trial and error builds character. Support your mom in any way you can, try not to give her trouble, remember, it's about keeping the peace. If you are in high school, you need to find a way to make friends; if you are in college, there are even more connections; if you are past that point in life, volunteer for something, offer to do some jobs for neighbors, while making money. Go to fundraisers or community events; hell, make some friends at the gym, join a club where people have the same interests as you.