My family doesn't grant me complete Freedom

[LTNUser]

I am not religious ,I am spiritual - and yes,there's a difference that this society conveniently chooses to forget.

Coming from a Sikh family,cutting my hair was labelled as a "blunder".But not a single soul bothered to ask why I made that decision.Not one person cared enough to understand what I was going through mentally or emotionally - because in this household, understanding is secondary,judgement comes first.

I don't align with any religion.Not Sikhism.Not anything,I align with myself,with my peace.But living in a typical mumpsimus Sikh household,where outdated customs are treated as commandments,I feel like a prisoner every single day.

I am not allowed to leave my own house freely.Sometimes,I am not even allowed to step out of my room if guests are sitting outside because apparently,my existence is something to hide.I'm not allowed to wear what I feel comfortable in shorts,sleevless tops,skirts, transparent fabrics everything is on some imaginary banned list created to protect their so-called honor.

@2025cel @Jatt @loyolaxavvierretard

 

[Zeekie]

Do they allow you to work? Cuz I would start working my ass off to save some money, also study like crazy to get into any college far away, preferably outside the country and not seeing them again. Can't control you once you're an adult I suppose, so you better become financially independent as early as possible, preparation is key

Just me tho

 

[LTNUser]

What's so funny @optimisticzoomer ?

 

[optimisticzoomer]

What's so funny @optimisticzoomer ?

 

[Сигма Бой]

Basedment abandoner queccacope.

 

[2025cel]

 

[LTNUser]

The level of suffocation has reached a point where I can't even let my hair air dry peacefully.I rush to blow-dry and tie them up immediately because God forbid my own family makes a snide comment about how I look,how I present myself,or how I should exist in their eyes.

I have a tattoo on my collarbone my own skin,my own body.I recently wore a top that slightly revealed it and my mother,like clockwork,told me to cover it with a scarf or else "people will stare."Why do they want me to shrink myself?Why do they want me to live under-confident,ashamed and uncomfortable in my own body?Why is it so difficult for them to let me breathe freely in my own house the place where one should feel safest?

Our generation is disconnected from our parents because we're the first ones brave enough to break their toxic generational cycles.We're the ones who dare to question,dare to unlearn,dare to heal what they were too scared to confront.And that threatens them.Because we refuse to stay trapped in a cycle of blind submission they've lived their entire lives in.

Let me remind you:my own mother was the first person to ever call me a "whore".Yes,she gave birth to me.Yes,she raised me.But that doesn't give her or anyone the right to emotionally abuse me,to belittle me,to suffocate me,and to strip me of my basic right to exist as who I am.Giving birth to someone does not mean you own them.

We do not owe our parents anything.Nothing,Zero.
And if that makes me ungrateful in your eyes I genuinely don't care.The truth stands unshaken.Not everyone has great parents.BE KIND.

 

[True truecel]

sorry bhai did not read

anyways, JAI HIND

 

[Jatt]

Need to assert your dominance kang

 

[160cmcurry]

bloop

 

[MANLETprettyBOY]

Where tf have yiu been bhai

 

[thereallegend]

Indian... Dnr