My GF is angry at me for Suddenly Quitting my Job without notice

[eyelidcel]

Well she wants you to continue to have money.. bitches like to spend money..

 

[eyelidcel]

Tell her to fuck off. Leave if she doesn't like it. If you don't take control of your girl ub the first place, you will totally lose later.

its not hard for her to say OK when you don't even have money coming.. all the shit that builds real connection costs money in some way..

 

[inyerta]

It's about losing the job not about quitting the job or how you quit it. Foids hate men with no job because they feel threatened from security point of view.

Curious though you said this job was exhausting were you working remote or in person?

In person, its next to impossible to find a remote job in Australia

 

[Lefty Rankin]

She says its not professional to just quit suddenly after a month, with no notice

She said this is what Zoomers do when they quit with a text

They were treating me like shit, they gave me the work of 2 people
Underpaid me
Constantly micro managed me

Of course i don't owe them shit, its a large corporation

How do i explain this to her

@SecularIslamist

Don't explain it to her. Tell her that it's none of her businesses and as far as professionalism goes maybe she's right. Tell her that maybe you aren't professional, and if that's the case then you're cool with that. Tell her if she's not cool with it too then maybe you aren't the guy for her.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

she says not professional toyou shouldst quit suddenly after a month, with no notice

She said this is what Zoomers do when they quit with a text

They were treating me like shit, they gave me the work of 2 people
Underpaid me
Constantly micro managed me

Of course i don't owe them shit, its a large corporation

How do i explain this to her

@SecularIslamist

Have either of you guys even been in a long term relationship?

You've been conditioned by to society to believe this is normal. And while it might be for 90% of people in relationships, 90% of relationships are not favoring to the detriment of the man.

I'm a millennial and so is my wife. In the 8 years that we've been married there's been a few times that I've come home from work early informing my wife that I've quit my job on the spot. Of course I'll give her the details, but not so she can judge whether or not I made the right decision.

You are a man. Any woman who's in a relationship with you should trust your judgement when it comes to these sorts of things. Even if she does have doubts she should keep them to herself.q

 

[inyerta]

You've been conditioned by to society to believe this is normal. And while it might be for 90% of people in relationships, 90% of relationships are not favoring to the detriment of the man.

I'm a millennial and so is my wife. In the 8 years that we've been married there's been a few times that I've come home from work early informing my wife that I've quit my job on the spot. Of course I'll give her the details, but not so she can judge whether or not I made the right decision.

You are a man. Any woman who's in a relationship with you should trust your judgement when it comes to these sorts of things. Even if she does have doubts she should keep them to herself.q

Ur 100% right but idk how to get the point across to her

 

[Lefty Rankin]

never had a gf and hate my life
you have a lMiterm relationship, all that i needed

Not all relationships are beneficial. Sometimes being alone us better. Most times these days actually.

 

[Light•]

if she cant understand, u dont owe shit to a shitty corporation then she's a retard and u should leave her

 

[Brus Wane]

Did HR at least try to counter offer you ?

 

[Lefty Rankin]

t 100% right but idk how to get the point across to her

It's just a "this is the way things are, I'm not gonna argue, you're gonna have to take it or leave or leave it" sort of thing. If you don't nip it in the bud now and continue to explain in this situation you'll be more and more miserable as time goes on because she'll get worse. What she's doing is nagging. Death by a thousand cuts.

Just tell her that she needs to trust that quitting was the best thing for you to do. Tell her it's fine if she doesn't agree but you're not gonna change your mind and won't argue about it any further. If she wants to give you the silent treatment then she's not good for you.

 

[Lefty Rankin]

its not hard for her to say OK when you don't even have money coming.. all the shit that builds real connection costs money in some way..

Not at all. Going for walks is the most bonding thing I've ever done, regardless of the backdrop. Walking and talking.

 

[inyerta]

It's just a "this is the way things are, I'm not gonna argue, you're gonna have to take it or leave or leave it" sort of thing. If you don't nip it in the bud now and continue to explain in this situation you'll be more and more miserable as time goes on because she'll get worse. What she's doing is nagging. Death by a thousand cuts.

Just tell her that she needs to trust that quitting was the best thing for you to do. Tell her it's fine if she doesn't agree but you're not gonna change your mind and won't argue about it any further. If she wants to give you the silent treatment then she's not good for you.

Elite tier advice thank u

 

[Jgns]

i have to return to uni and grind my curriculum, cant be neet forever

yeah same, unfortunately i gt wait for my surgeries to happen first then ill hit uni, making money in the meantime