my girlfriend goes out parting a lot - give thoughts

[WishIwasChico]

@Amnesia what you think bro? you normally have good advice.

 

[spermium]

My gf goes out quite a lot. She's going out twice this week to the club. The event tonight she didn't invite me too. She said like today when too late 'aww you should come' and then if i had said yes you could tell she'd be like wtf...

Anyways, i feel like a fucking cuck. She sent me a pic earlier of her in a dress all dressed up and i just beyond cucked. Like putting 'looks good go have a good time' like wtf bro. Cuck or what




She went out 5 times during freshers. And goes out a lot. When i've been out with her she's spoke to a guy every single time and never made it clear i'm her bf. I was chatting to two guys and she started chatting to this guy for a few mins. ANyways she goes toilet and i'm waiting outside and this same guy comes up to me and goes 'that girl you're with i wanna get with her' i was like wtf?? thats my gf. I asked her about this and she lied and said she made it clear to him i was her bf


Wtf shall i do bros? She goes out this stauirday with two single friends. She goes out a lot. She also tried to join this society and while their she had to leave early because one of the girls there was giving her evil eyes because she was 'innocently' speaking to one of the guys and then basically all the girls isolated her so she had to leave.

But she said she's gonna go back in january.


What do you think?

Dnr but you're getting cucked. Was at a club a few weeks ago and cucked some faggot bitch was like I wanna be alone when I go out

 

[PARISIEN]

respect urself and dump that hoe, and go out with the boys

 

[WishIwasChico]

respect urself and dump that hoe, and go out with the boys

why a hoe? elaborate

 

[WishIwasChico]

Dnr but you're getting cucked. Was at a club a few weeks ago and cucked some faggot bitch was like I wanna be alone when I go out

how do you know i'm getting cucked though>? she introduced to family etc. ELoaborate

 

[isis_Bleach]

isn't going out in uni norm tho tbh? That's what i'm torn between

no its not normal. not even 1% normal. yes most foids do it, and these foids are not normal, they are whores. do u want to date a whore?

 

[PARISIEN]

why a hoe? elaborate

i've done partis and the girls who were in couple..what they were doing.. my god. nah man dump that hoe, and she go outside without you ?

lol if one day you argue with her, and she go outside with her hoe friend, you just been cucked. Except if there is no chadlite at the party, but everytime a random chadlite might cuck you

 

[PARISIEN]

how do you know i'm getting cucked though>? she introduced to family etc. ELoaborate

ask for her phone and watch inside

 

[WishIwasChico]

i've done partis and the girls who were in couple..what they were doing.. my god. nah man dump that hoe, and she go outside with you ?

lol if one day you argue with her, and she go outside with her hoe friend, you just been cucked. Except if there is no chadlite at the party, but everytime a random chadlite might cuck you

most girls party tho especially in uni so idk what to do, this is so confusing for me

 

[WishIwasChico]

ask for her phone and watch inside

i've checked her phone and found nothing but this when she gave it to me so pointless

 

[PARISIEN]

i've checked her phone and found nothing but this when she gave it to me so pointless

idk man i dont feel it but its my personnal experience tho, a sweet talking chadlite can fuck up ur relationship in one night

 

[WishIwasChico]

idk man i dont feel it but its my personnal experience tho, a sweet talking chadlite can fuck up ur relationship in one night

my instinct tells me i'm getting cucked tbh

 

[WishIwasChico]

@atlantean @TechnoBoss

 

[PARISIEN]

my instinct tells me i'm getting cucked tbh

most of the time when you dont follow ur instinct its garbage, but its my personnal experience

 

[greycel]

OP, all your problems have arisen from you not enforcing strict boundaries before getting into a relationship.
You continue to let her do what she wants, then no need to continue this relationship

i've done partis and the girls who were in couple..what they were doing.. my god.

What did they do?

 

[spermium]

how do you know i'm getting cucked though>? she introduced to family etc. ELoaborate

Nigga she is out alone drunk surrouded by drunk men this bitch had been with her bf for years. Had him all over her insta too

 

[TechnoBoss]

Get rid of her. Boundaries were crossed. Your intuition is telling you something & 9 times out of 10 you aren’t wrong.

 

[WishIwasChico]

Get rid of her. Boundaries were crossed. Your intuition is telling you something & 9 times out of 10 you aren’t wrong.

elaborate bro you are great at giving advice and i know you won't meme me.

 

[spermium]

how do you know i'm getting cucked though>? she introduced to family etc. ELoaborate

Nigga she is out alone drunk surrouded by drunk men this bitch had been with her bf for years. Had him all over her insta too

 

[WishIwasChico]

Nigga she is out alone drunk surrouded by drunk men this bitch had been with her bf for years. Had him all over her insta too

really?? did the guy find out or what?

 

[spermium]

really?? did the guy find out or what?

No she was on the phone with him calling him love while I was groping her ass

 

[WishIwasChico]

No she was on the phone with him calling him love while I was groping her ass

fr or joking? where did you fuck?> my gf has location sharing on

 

[PARISIEN]

OP, all your problems have arisen from you not enforcing strict boundaries before getting into a relationship.
You continue to let her do what she wants, then no need to continue this relationship


What did they do?

One story
they flirt very very hard, and at one moment you are ready to make out and she will say "wait i have a boyfriend". i have actually insulted her, she destroyed my whole boner.

but if i say "i really like you and i'm sure we can be serious together" or another bullshit like "dont ever stop your boyfriend to find your husband". OVER.

they looking for to switch they boyfriend legit, they do test, they look if he looks better, or have a better career.

 

[TechnoBoss]

elaborate bro you are great at giving advice and i know you won't meme me.

I will never meme you. I’m saying that your intuition/subconscious is picking up on something that you may may not be able to describe with words. It’s pattern recognition which is intelligence in my book. I would tell you if you’re just being paranoid but if you see these things that are suspicious I recommend you proceed with caution.

 

[WishIwasChico]

OP, all your problems have arisen from you not enforcing strict boundaries before getting into a relationship.
You continue to let her do what she wants, then no need to continue this relationship

ye because we wasn't serious at first that's why

 

[TechnoBoss]

fr or joking? where did you fuck?> my gf has location sharing on

But it doesn’t matter if she has location sharing on. You don’t think she can figure out a way to mess around even if her location is on?

 

[WishIwasChico]

But it doesn’t matter if she has location sharing on. You don’t think she can figure out a way to mess around even if her location is on?

can you do this? and ye i worry she could just bring someone back to her place and fuck and i'd just think she's at home

 

[spermium]

fr or joking? where did you fuck?> my gf has location sharing on

Went to a friend's house but was too drunk and fell asleep so didn't smash bitch was upset we didn't fuck tho jfl

If she's clubbing she's looking for new dick 100% pump and dump her or just gaslight the bitch and cuck her too

 

[TechnoBoss]

can you do this? and ye i worry she could just bring someone back to her place and fuck and i'd just think she's at home

Yeah I think you just turn on airplane mode or something. Even if her location said she was at her house you wouldn’t know she’s with a guy. Let’s say her location says she’s out somewhere and then it says she’s home. You wouldn’t know she’s with someone.

Personally I don’t think she’s necessarily cheating on you but I think the going out to clubs is a bit suspicious. I think that if you’re wondering whether or not she’s cheating would be a red flag to break up with her. If you don’t know how she would be acting then you don’t trust her which is an automatic break up in my opinion. You have to decide if her trust her or not. If you don’t then you will be thinking and wondering for the rest of your life. You can’t have your cake and eat it too.

Do you trust her? Is she trustworthy?

 

[greycel]

One story
they flirt very very hard, and at one moment you are ready to make out and she will say "wait i have a boyfriend". i have actually insulted her, she destroyed my whole boner.

but if i say "i really like you and i'm sure we can be serious together" or another bullshit like "dont ever stop your boyfriend to find your husband". OVER.

they looking for to switch they boyfriend legit, they do test, they look if he looks better, or have a better career.

Damn man
It's because women nowadays don't form emotional connections like they used to a few decades ago

Everything is purely transactional

 

[WishIwasChico]

. You can’t have your cake and eat it too.

my problem exactly, i think she is in ltr but acting single

 

[TechnoBoss]

my problem exactly, i think she is in ltr but acting single

I’d recommend ending it then. She’s a very pretty girl but there’s something about her face that doesn’t give me “trustworthy” vibes. On top of that she’s going to clubs. Location sharing doesn’t really give much. In fact it might give a false sense of security. I’ve never shared my location and I’ve always been loyal.

 

[PARISIEN]

Damn man
It's because women nowadays don't form emotional connections like they used to a few decades ago

Everything is purely transactional

i'm an oldcel tho, but if you didnt propose your girl and she is past 25 and she go outside, the cukery is inevitable fr.

 

[PARISIEN]

my problem exactly, i think she is in ltr but acting single

VILLAIN ARC RN

 

[TechnoBoss]

If you don’t trust her then it will never work out. Tell her “hey the relationship isn’t working out but I still want to fuck” and see where it goes from there. Don’t stress yourself out thinking about these possibilities. If you find the right girl it will be evident that she’s the right girl. Something is telling you to be cautious about this girl.

 

[WishIwasChico]

If you don’t trust her then it will never work out. Tell her “hey the relationship isn’t working out but I still want to fuck” and see where it goes from there. Don’t stress yourself out thinking about these possibilities. If you find the right girl it will be evident that she’s the right girl. Something is telling you to be cautious about this girl.

Hahaha that line is too based bro mirin. She also when we’ve been out together she flirts with guys so imagine when I’m not there

 

[TechnoBoss]

Hahaha that line is too based bro mirin. She also when we’ve been out together she flirts with guys so imagine when I’m not there

Bro get rid of her man

 

[WishIwasChico]

Bro get rid of her man

fuck man it's hard what if this is all in my head tho?

 

[Charisma]

what is she like in general bhai

do you want me to chadfish her

 

[WishIwasChico]

what is she like in general bhai

do you want me to chadfish her

She won’t fall for it and idk very loving but then acts single and shit. Very confusing

 

[Charisma]

She won’t fall for it and idk very loving but then acts single and shit. Very confusing

whats her rating and whats yours

do you incorporate redpill into maintaining this relationship or are you a bluepilled behaving cuck with blackpill awareness

 

[WishIwasChico]

whats her rating and whats yours

do you incorporate redpill into maintaining this relationship or are you a bluepilled behaving cuck with blackpill awareness

@TechnoBoss can answer I guess

 

[TechnoBoss]

fuck man it's hard what if this is all in my head tho?

She flirted infront of you and your intuition is telling you something is off. Your subconscious is seeing something. Based on experience I don’t think you’re wrong. Something is wrong. That’s why you’re feeling the way you feel. I don’t think it’s you. Something seems to be wrong and this is confirmed by the fact she’s flirted infront of you and goes clubbing all the time. Also there’s something about her face that doesn’t seem trustworthy . You’d know if she was the right girl.

Tell her you want to fuck but don’t want a relationship.

 

[TechnoBoss]

whats her rating and whats yours

do you incorporate redpill into maintaining this relationship or are you a bluepilled behaving cuck with blackpill awareness

HTN and HTB.

 

[WishIwasChico]

She flirted infront of you and your intuition is telling you something is off. Your subconscious is seeing something. Based on experience I don’t think you’re wrong. Something is wrong. That’s why you’re feeling the way you feel. I don’t think it’s you. Something seems to be wrong and this is confirmed by the fact she’s flirted infront of you and goes clubbing all the time. Also there’s something about her face that doesn’t seem trustworthy . You’d know if she was the right girl.

Tell her you want to fuck but don’t want a relationship.

So true bro tbh

 

[Charisma]

as much as it's frowned up upon and jfl'd at here, REDPILL is a must when maintaining relationships with foids and other people in general

if you're a needy cuck then of course she's displaying this form of discrespect

 

[WishIwasChico]

as much as it's frowned up upon and jfl'd at here, REDPILL is a must when maintaining relationships with foids and other people in general

if you're a needy cuck then of course she's displaying this form of discrespect

I don’t act needy tho tbh

 

[Charisma]

I don’t act needy tho tbh

well you just wrote up an event of her being blatantly disrespectful

this has to stem down from something deeper, you're just giving short answers and you can't get helped if you don't provide perspective on your relationship in general

give some insight, how is it like, how did it start, how long are you two together currently, who initiated the "be together part" and how did it come to that girlfriend-boyfriend dynamic in the first place

nigga

 

[WishIwasChico]

well you just wrote up an event of her being blatantly disrespectful

this has to stem down from something deeper, you're just giving short answers and you can't get helped if you don't provide perspective on your relationship in general

give some insight, how is it like, how did it start, how long are you two together currently, who initiated the "be together part" and how did it come to that girlfriend-boyfriend dynamic in the first place

nigga

Ok nigga nogga nog

We met on tinder she said she didn’t want ltr.

She went on a date with someone else after meeting me. Was speaking to other guys while we weren’t official. Wasn’t serious at all really at first.
Then she fell for me after a few months. Said she loved me.

Followed lots of guys including ex on insta and wouldn’t remove them

Opened phone when we hadn’t see. Each other for a while to a guy snapping her


Then went out on freshers 5 times and acted sus. A snap of her I saw with a guy basically grinding on her from behind.

Goes clubbing a lot.

Before we went official she went out with her friend and didn’t text me all night and smelt of sex next day (red flag).


On flip side…

She’s posted me all over social media. FaceTimed all her family with her. Tells me constantly she wants a future with me. She was the first to say I love you etc and wants something serious.

 

[Magnus Ironblood]

My gf goes out quite a lot. She's going out twice this week to the club. The event tonight she didn't invite me too. She said like today when too late 'aww you should come' and then if i had said yes you could tell she'd be like wtf...

Anyways, i feel like a fucking cuck. She sent me a pic earlier of her in a dress all dressed up and i just beyond cucked. Like putting 'looks good go have a good time' like wtf bro. Cuck or what




She went out 5 times during freshers. And goes out a lot. When i've been out with her she's spoke to a guy every single time and never made it clear i'm her bf. I was chatting to two guys and she started chatting to this guy for a few mins. ANyways she goes toilet and i'm waiting outside and this same guy comes up to me and goes 'that girl you're with i wanna get with her' i was like wtf?? thats my gf. I asked her about this and she lied and said she made it clear to him i was her bf


Wtf shall i do bros? She goes out this stauirday with two single friends. She goes out a lot. She also tried to join this society and while their she had to leave early because one of the girls there was giving her evil eyes because she was 'innocently' speaking to one of the guys and then basically all the girls isolated her so she had to leave.

But she said she's gonna go back in january.


What do you think?

Average day for LTRcels.

If she goes out without you, she's cheating.