my girlfriend goes out parting a lot - give thoughts

[WishIwasChico]

Average day for LTRcels.

If she goes out without you, she's cheating.

Why is that

 

[Magnus Ironblood]

Why is that

Awesome game and my favourite of the Resident Evil series. It's scary af. But relatively easy and good action.

 

[WishIwasChico]

Awesome game and my favourite of the Resident Evil series. It's scary af. But relatively easy and good action.

What

 

[Magnus Ironblood]

What

It's an enjoyable game and not too hard.

 

[edodalic29]

You dont have a quality women at hand but shoulda done a background check before getting into something serious, you should have just left it at fwb so you dont have to go through something like this again . She is destined to be for the streets and women like that will forever be single im telling you all these women end up on tinder in their 30s , its clear shes entertaining other men and still wants to be in a hoe phase , so she should automatically be disqualified from any serious relationship

 

[WishIwasChico]

its clear shes entertaining other men and still wants to be in a hoe phase , so she should automatically be disqualified from any serious relationship

Why would she do this? And what makes you so sure? Tell me bro and good advice btw mirin

 

[Charisma]

Ok nigga nogga nog

We met on tinder she said she didn’t want ltr.

Then she fell for me after a few months. Said she loved me.

Followed lots of guys including ex on insta and wouldn’t remove them

Opened phone when we hadn’t see. Each other for a while to a guy snapping her


Then went out on freshers 5 times and acted sus. A snap of her I saw with a guy basically grinding on her from behind.

Goes clubbing a lot.

Before we went official she went out with her friend and didn’t text me all night and smelt of sex next day (red flag).


On flip side…

She’s posted me all over social media. FaceTimed all her family with her. Tells me constantly she wants a future with me. She was the first to say I love you etc and wants something serious.

lmfao, I had a 1:1 matching experience

We met on tinder she said she didn’t want ltr. - slut

Then she fell for me after a few months. Said she loved me. - she settled because she has seen you're a good guy and probably had a "fuck it, I want a relationship" moment just because she can

Followed lots of guys including ex on insta and wouldn’t remove them - This girl is a whore so it doesn't matter if you did, but generally you shouldn't pursue girls to do anything like deleting who they're following

Then went out on freshers 5 times and acted sus. A snap of her I saw with a guy basically grinding on her from behind. - If she's a freshman, and especially if she's living in dorms she's going to be surrounded with Chad all the time, unfortunately, dorms are sexhavers and chances are you have already been cucked

Goes clubbing a lot. - slut

She’s posted me all over social media. FaceTimed all her family with her. Tells me constantly she wants a future with me. She was the first to say I love you etc and wants something serious. - Nothing a girl says can be trusted because women aren't rational beings

My verdict is to demote her to a fuck buddy, you will still have all the benefits because now she will try to win you back
Don't give into it, tell everyone that you broke up with her and if you're still having sex with her, deny if people ask and make it known that you and this girl are done with

It is completely logical and normal that you have feelings for this girl having dated her for so long, but with time, that will stop and you will see that you made a right choice

In the mean time pursue a real LTR (NOT ON TINDER CUCK)

 

[edodalic29]

Why would she do this? And what makes you so sure? Tell me bro and good advice btw mirin

I read everything from the thread bro , what i think is she wants to gather up a bunch of options to play it safe if something hits the fan between u two , either that or she just likes attention and its hard to get a women to change her behavior if its rooted in who she is , it could be a manipulation tactic or she just likes attention from multiple guys . I almost went thru something similar but in my case ( my girl ) was just destined to be a hoe , she just liked male attention and there was nothing i could do

 

[WishIwasChico]

she settled because she has seen you're a good guy and probably had a "fuck it, I want a relationship" moment just because she can

You do realise at the time I had over 2.5k matches on tinder right and had over 450 DMs of women many htb??

I don’t think she saw me as a good guy at all. She always says I was out of her league etc.

 

[WishIwasChico]

I read everything from the thread bro , what i think is she wants to gather up a bunch of options to play it safe if something hits the fan between u two , either that or she just likes attention and its hard to get a women to change her behavior if its rooted in who she is , it could be a manipulation tactic or she just likes attention from multiple guys . I almost went thru something similar but in my case ( my girl ) was just destined to be a hoe , she just liked male attention and there was nothing i could do

What happened bro? She cheated?

 

[LVZZO]

Pay attention to her phone and her text messages, girls that like to go out with their group rarely engage with guys at night but it depends, if she cock blocks you and starts to change her behavior treating like shit then it's over.

 

[WishIwasChico]

lmfao, I had a 1:1 matching experience

We met on tinder she said she didn’t want ltr. - slut

Then she fell for me after a few months. Said she loved me. - she settled because she has seen you're a good guy and probably had a "fuck it, I want a relationship" moment just because she can

Followed lots of guys including ex on insta and wouldn’t remove them - This girl is a whore so it doesn't matter if you did, but generally you shouldn't pursue girls to do anything like deleting who they're following

Then went out on freshers 5 times and acted sus. A snap of her I saw with a guy basically grinding on her from behind. - If she's a freshman, and especially if she's living in dorms she's going to be surrounded with Chad all the time, unfortunately, dorms are sexhavers and chances are you have already been cucked

Goes clubbing a lot. - slut

She’s posted me all over social media. FaceTimed all her family with her. Tells me constantly she wants a future with me. She was the first to say I love you etc and wants something serious. - Nothing a girl says can be trusted because women aren't rational beings

My verdict is to demote her to a fuck buddy, you will still have all the benefits because now she will try to win you back
Don't give into it, tell everyone that you broke up with her and if you're still having sex with her, deny if people ask and make it known that you and this girl are done with

It is completely logical and normal that you have feelings for this girl having dated her for so long, but with time, that will stop and you will see that you made a right choice

In the mean time pursue a real LTR (NOT ON TINDER CUCK)

So you think she’s cheating then or what? I love her a lot and there’s no proof she’s cheated

 

[WishIwasChico]

Pay attention to her phone and her text messages, girls that like to go out with their group rarely engage with guys at night but it depends, if she cock blocks you and starts to change her behavior treating like shit then it's over.

I’d never let that happen. If she switched on me and treated me like shit she knows I can go on tinder. I’ve had so many girls dming me that are htb when we’ve been together. She knows I can get women easy

 

[edodalic29]

What happened bro? She cheated?

She just wanted male attention like that and i was forced to stop the interaction i just felt off about everything and i still love her til this day

 

[LVZZO]

She knows I can get women easy

Lmao you deserve to be cheated tbh
Either you commit to her and she to you or you are just friends and you can both do whatever
Check her phone

 

[WishIwasChico]

She just wanted male attention like that and i was forced to stop the interaction i just felt off about everything and i still love her til this day

She’s been out for 2 hours and not texted at all? Is this a red flag?

 

[Clown Show]

 

[edodalic29]

She’s been out for 2 hours and not texted at all? Is this a red flag?

should be fine
I would get tinder back just incase lol , at least if she does something you already have a backup plan

 

[WishIwasChico]

should be fine
I would get tinder back just incase lol , at least if she does something you already have a backup plan

Not texting when out not a red flag then? Like she forgot about me?

 

[edodalic29]

Not texting when out not a red flag then? Like she forgot about me?

If its longer than 6 hours red flag indeed

 

[WishIwasChico]

If its longer than 6 hours red flag indeed

While she’s out in the club I mean

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

If my girl told me she's going to the club I'd tell her, her bags will be packed when she gets home

There is nothing to do there but drink and makeout with men

I wouldn't be upset about it, you lose aura

You literally just pack her things and act nonchalant, say you're not gonna date a party whore

If she hasn't cheated on you yet (she has) she'll beg for forgiveness and say she'll never go out

If she's your daddy (sounds like it) she'll act masculine and claim she didn't nothing wrong and yell at you.

end it this way tbh that way you can literally Guage whether or not she'd be willing to give up partying for you

If you directly ask she will of course say no

 

[WishIwasChico]

If my girl told me she's going to the club I'd tell her, her bags will be packed when she gets home

There is nothing to do there but drink and makeout with men

I wouldn't be upset about it, you lose aura

You literally just pack her things and act nonchalant, say you're not gonna date a party whore

If she hasn't cheated on you yet (she has) she'll beg for forgiveness and say she'll never go out

If she's your daddy (sounds like it) she'll act masculine and claim she didn't nothing wrong and yell at you.

end it this way tbh that way you can literally Guage whether or not she'd be willing to give up partying for you

If you directly ask she will of course say no

Brutal

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Brutal

Dude what the fuck do you think people do at clubs? Jesus nigga

They don't just drink makeout and fuck

They drink SO THEY can makeout, SO THEY can fuck

They could drink at one of their houses, girls at night at Kelly's!

But they don't. They hit the club.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Can't hardly believe this is real tbh

How do niggas get blackpilled without being redpilled

Straight to the deep end

 

[Troglodyte452]

Ngl I dont think you can somehow turn this around and gain full trust back. This is just gonna go downhill from now on

 

[whiteislandpill]

Soydit cuck moment

 

[chickenwithrice]

run a loyalty test on her via ig dm’s, i can give you an ig account that’s got nt pics and decent follow ratio we can manipulate it to where it’ll be a pheno you think she’s into lmk tbh