My Girlfriend hates me for ascending

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I’ve been working on myself for almost a year now, really locking in on the gym, eating clean, skincare, and overall self improvement. I’m finally starting to look and feel like the best version of myself. But the more I level up, the more my girlfriend seems to get annoyed or negative about it. When I take pics or say I feel good about how I look, she’ll make comments that feel dismissive or like she’s hating on it. I don’t get it because I’m not doing this for anyone else, I’m just trying to improve myself. It’s starting to feel like instead of support, I’m getting criticism for my ascension. Is she jealous? Does she feel like i’ll cheat?

Has anyone dealt with something like this before?
 
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If you feel like she's trying to drag you down

Drop her
 
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dump the bitch why the fuck would she care tbh. She not letting you be you and mog
 
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I’ve been working on myself for almost a year now, really locking in on the gym, eating clean, skincare, and overall self improvement. I’m finally starting to look and feel like the best version of myself. But the more I level up, the more my girlfriend seems to get annoyed or negative about it. When I take pics or say I feel good about how I look, she’ll make comments that feel dismissive or like she’s hating on it. I don’t get it because I’m not doing this for anyone else, I’m just trying to improve myself. It’s starting to feel like instead of support, I’m getting criticism for my ascension. Is she jealous? Does she feel like i’ll cheat?

Has anyone dealt with something like this before?
shes feeling inferior and insecure, because youre ascending and shes staying in place, she feel envy
 
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I’ve been working on myself for almost a year now, really locking in on the gym, eating clean, skincare, and overall self improvement. I’m finally starting to look and feel like the best version of myself. But the more I level up, the more my girlfriend seems to get annoyed or negative about it. When I take pics or say I feel good about how I look, she’ll make comments that feel dismissive or like she’s hating on it. I don’t get it because I’m not doing this for anyone else, I’m just trying to improve myself. It’s starting to feel like instead of support, I’m getting criticism for my ascension. Is she jealous? Does she feel like i’ll cheat?

Has anyone dealt with something like this before?
Leave her dnr
 
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Real talk it’s semi projection, most women use their own looks/SMV to monkey branch she assumed you’d do the same
 

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