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I totally understand that no one cares about virtues, being a good man and trying to make the world a happier place as long as one is ugly looking. Some might cope hard with "virtues don't exist" or "life has no real meaning". In fact many people live like that and let me tell you something, it is the incredibly ignorant lifeview of total antisocial losers who did nothing to improve themselves and did blame everything on environmental factors. When you are ugly this is totally entitled though, since peoples reactions to you where bad. I went through all of that between 13 and 18 and it fucked me up very badly. Once realizing how fucked up it was that my looks where the cause of it and I used to be a good-looking child who was popular until I got my weird rubberband braces in which somehow elongiated and narrowed down my face, I knew I had to try anything in order to become my true self again. I'm turning 21 soon and my looks have improved drastically since highschool. I had decent success with women, even attracted a girl who was 10cm taller than me just by sitting in front of her, we got together. The relationship was short and kinda childish but I don't care. After that I went out with quite a lot of women and as I said had fairly decent success. The point is I seemingly turned around my life which was full of self hate.
Especially after having some of your desires fullfilled you will begin to realize that there is way more to life than just aiming to have as much fun as possible. And once you get to know a lot of people you realize that there is only a minority of people who are truly good people you can actually trust and spend good times with. In fact I get a happy feeling when I accomplish something or make someone happy just with a nice gesture, may it be the tiniest piece of attention.
Aim for:
1. an honest relationship with a women who has the same virtues you got. Making love with her will leave you satisfied and it will feel correct. Just the opposite feeling you get after you are done with some tinder-hoe. She will be supportive too. Ofc it is hard to find women like that, in fact they got super rare. The reason? LOSS OF VIRTUES IN OUR FUCKED UP SOCIETY. And if everyone of you just accepts this and follows like a sheep it will get worse.
2. Keep your body and mind clean and healthy. Once you are done looksmaxing, which does NOT mean to look like one in a million but maxxing out your very own potential which can be very high or at the lower end. Accept it whatever it is or you will spend your whole life trying to become the mystical chad you dreamed of and utterly fail.
Work on your mind, work on your body.
3. Aim for long term goals not short term pleasure. Week people who can't endure the pressure of growing stronger, of biting the nails and push through hard times will give up and fall for short term pleasures- namingly porn, drugs, fucking hoes.
I lied in bed with two virtueless hoes after I lusted for sex and felt super bad about it. I rejected sex with them and just slept. Rejecting dumb women feels better than fucking them. Trust me.
Aim for becoming a strong individual, physically and spiritually. Aim for being able to take those decisions that might upset you in the short time but benefit you in the long term.
Live like that and you will be ahead of the vast majority of people.
Especially after having some of your desires fullfilled you will begin to realize that there is way more to life than just aiming to have as much fun as possible. And once you get to know a lot of people you realize that there is only a minority of people who are truly good people you can actually trust and spend good times with. In fact I get a happy feeling when I accomplish something or make someone happy just with a nice gesture, may it be the tiniest piece of attention.
Aim for:
1. an honest relationship with a women who has the same virtues you got. Making love with her will leave you satisfied and it will feel correct. Just the opposite feeling you get after you are done with some tinder-hoe. She will be supportive too. Ofc it is hard to find women like that, in fact they got super rare. The reason? LOSS OF VIRTUES IN OUR FUCKED UP SOCIETY. And if everyone of you just accepts this and follows like a sheep it will get worse.
2. Keep your body and mind clean and healthy. Once you are done looksmaxing, which does NOT mean to look like one in a million but maxxing out your very own potential which can be very high or at the lower end. Accept it whatever it is or you will spend your whole life trying to become the mystical chad you dreamed of and utterly fail.
Work on your mind, work on your body.
3. Aim for long term goals not short term pleasure. Week people who can't endure the pressure of growing stronger, of biting the nails and push through hard times will give up and fall for short term pleasures- namingly porn, drugs, fucking hoes.
I lied in bed with two virtueless hoes after I lusted for sex and felt super bad about it. I rejected sex with them and just slept. Rejecting dumb women feels better than fucking them. Trust me.
Aim for becoming a strong individual, physically and spiritually. Aim for being able to take those decisions that might upset you in the short time but benefit you in the long term.
Live like that and you will be ahead of the vast majority of people.
