My long distance crush just hit me up randomly after 2 months and wanted to talk. Warning: BRUTAL!

[user1728482728]

We had a brief fling and I told her I started to develop feelings for her and she said sorry it was just sex

Then randomly she hit me up and asked how I was doing and said she felt bad she didn’t reciprocate my feelings, she asked how I was doing and I said I was struggling with my mental health and then she asked about it I said I had trouble with depression, she said she is a good listener and happy to talk about it

So I opened up and talked about how I had experienced depersonalization but I’m trying to work on forgiving myself and self improvement.

We talked a bit but she abruptly ended the conversation.

Jfl. I tried to be honest and genuine with my emotions but I don’t think she liked it. Oh well. Guess maybe I’m just too messed up got her. And depression is just a sign of weakness so probs good to never tell girls that No matter what…

 

[lifestyle21873]

Dont ever talk about feelings with whores. They will never be able to help you. Just pretend you have everything under control, even if your falling apart

NO FEELINGS, they are not your brothers or your dad

 

[Deleted member 21182]

As an adult man above 14 never talk to anyone about ur emotions men will see u as weak and so will women it’s only for kids and foids

 

[TheRenaissanceMan]

funny shit.

depersonalization is too non-nt. dont talk about it to girls. find guys

 

[darkness97]

yeah that was a little weird but you didn't do anything 'wrong' per se. you shouldn't treat the girls you like as therapists and you should primarily keep those kinds of things to yourself and close friends. it's a lot to unload on someone who isn't that close to you.

 

[user1728482728]

yeah that was a little weird but you didn't do anything 'wrong' per se. you shouldn't treat the girls you like as therapists and you should primarily keep those kinds of things to yourself and close friends. it's a lot to unload on someone who isn't that close to you.

She literally told me to talk to her about it

 

[user1728482728]

funny shit.

depersonalization is too non-nt. dont talk about it to girls. find guys

She told me she’s a good listener and wanted to talk about mental health

So I did, exactly what she said, and she stopped talking to me

Why the fuck are toilets so retarded

 

[darkness97]

She literally told me to talk to her about it

yeah i kno. did you know that in Germany it's rude to ask how you are doing to someone? this is because in the west when people ask it, it's more of a way of being polite. people aren't actually interested in how you are doing, or at least interested to an extent.

work on your mental health yourself and don't rely on external people or rely on them. dont take it personally by the way.

 

[user1728482728]

yeah i kno. did you know that in Germany it's rude to ask how you are doing to someone? this is because in the west when people ask it, it's more of a way of being polite. people aren't actually interested in how you are doing, or at least interested to an extent.

work on your mental health yourself and don't rely on external people or rely on them. dont take it personally by the way.

Well I told her I’d love to see her when I’m in her city again

She seemed excited but I guess it would be weird to hit her up again just to talk.

I’ll just have to message her when I’m in her city for sex I guess I’m planning to go back this august

 

[Deleted member 12002]

We had a brief fling and I told her I started to develop feelings for her and she said sorry it was just sex

Then randomly she hit me up and asked how I was doing and said she felt bad she didn’t reciprocate my feelings, she asked how I was doing and I said I was struggling with my mental health and then she asked about it I said I had trouble with depression, she said she is a good listener and happy to talk about it

So I opened up and talked about how I had experienced depersonalization but I’m trying to work on forgiving myself and self improvement.

We talked a bit but she abruptly ended the conversation.

Jfl. I tried to be honest and genuine with my emotions but I don’t think she liked it. Oh well. Guess maybe I’m just too messed up got her. And depression is just a sign of weakness so probs good to never tell girls that No matter what…

Dude, she just listened to your bullsh*t so she could feel validated. She'll probably hit you up again and let you pour your heart out to her next time she gets rejected, or pumped and dumped by a dude she really likes. You gotta know when to move on. Don't waste your valuable time on wh*res like that. And don't talk to girls like they're your personal psychologist, droning on about depression and whatnot, nothing good can ever come of it.

 

[Dr. Bludy]

Proof all women are whore

 

[Deleted member 21467]

Dont ever talk about feelings with whores. They will never be able to help you. Just pretend you have everything under control, even if your falling apart

NO FEELINGS, they are not your brothers or your dad

Bro, it's like even my own brothers and sisters use my weakness as a tool to use against me.

Also, this is gonna be underrated for me to say, but i dont think as men we should hide our emotions, i think we should control our emotions and not be afraid of judgment