My mother is "abusive" but it doesn't affect me.

[SecularIslamist]

My fellow siblings often describe her as toxic, abusive and controlling. She is very critical. She does nothing but criticise and compares to more 'successful' examples - whether it's neighbours, cousins or friends sons. She's actually never praised me for anything in her life. Not that I care...

A lot of you guys would be crying your pants off if you had to spend a day with her. Apart from her nagging it doesn't affect me. I just don't and never have taken anything she says seriously. She is literal noise like traffic outside, and that's the only thing that annoys me. To give you an example of things she says to me /siblings

• Always says we will suffer in later life for everything we've done to her (?) We've actually done nothing - but whatever.
• Calls us losers and outcasts because we can't get married.
• Compares our jobs to other more successful examples - even if they're a minority.
• Chastises us for lack of religiousity to others.
• Tells my brother to man up get over his estranged daughter.
• Calls out my sister hypergamous and egotistical mindset (very true) but I'm sure she cries inside about it.

A lot of this is actually motherly love of a FOB villager with no idea how the modern world operates. A different generational attitude and cultural upbeinging. Her sole job is to cook food and clean the house which she does well. So I can't fault her for what she does. That is after all her role as a mother.

Right now she has been constantly nagging me for the last 15 minutes about how much of a failure I am. I'm literally looking right back at her, laughing in her face, sarcastically mocking everything she says and pulling faces like a child

Idk man maybe I've reversed mentally abused her. I can't blame her for anything in my life. I can't even give her credit for anything. She feeds me and continues to do so and that's her job.

 

[Clark]

Larping faggot

 

[looksmaxer3431413]

Emotional abuse is nothing
worst thing parrents can do is feed you soy food during your childhood

 

[CHRIST_764]

Damn shitskin

 

[SecularIslamist]

Emotional abuse is nothing

It exists but just like rape, the victim isn't totally free of blame and self-responsibility. Sometimes people need a kick up the ass. Some people are too soft and start blaming their abuser. The abuser points out your vulnerabilities and you should turn that into a strength..

Idk I grew up reading Nietzsche so I internalised shit like ' what doesn't kill me makes me stronger' and not letting others define my values and making the best of adversity. Too many cucks fold.

worst thing parrents can do is feed you soy food during your childhood

I got fed curry so all good

 

[SecularIslamist]

Damn shitskin

Stfu whiteboy. She is based. When it comes to women she says they should stay in the kitchen. Not dress like sluts. Calls my sister a hypergamous roastie that no one will want because of her age and career..

She's the perfect mother. Just a low IQ one.

 

[Notorious_1676]

My Mum sounds similar to yours when I was younger except a bit smarter and more reasonable. Except she can't really criticise my grades or anything besides the fact that I'm a bit rude to others. She probably would criticise me if she could though. She was very critical when I was younger.

I remember having a spelling test and writing the words in the wrong order so the Teacher gave me a 0 and she was having a mental breakdown and pulling on her hair when I told her. I thought something else was bothering her but she seemed quite joyful to me when she came to pick me up. Her main issue was that she is very dramatic

 

[Notorious_1676]

Larping faggot

Aren't you literally an actual faggot? If you and him were to switch lives you'd probably have tried to kill yourself like 19% of your kind. I hate when faggots think they can speak up

 

[Clark]

Aren't you literally an actual faggot? If you and him were to switch lives you'd probably have tried to kill yourself like 19% of your kind. I hate when faggots think they can speak up

Jesus fucking christ mate. Is this about that one argument? You win, get off my dick.

 

[Notorious_1676]

Jesus fucking christ mate. Is this about that one argument? You win, get off my dick.

No, I want you to kill yourself. Low T faggots such as yourself are the reason as to why the Jews have such an easy time controlling the world

 

[SecularIslamist]

My Mum sounds similar to yours when I was younger except a bit smarter and more reasonable. Except she can't really criticise my grades or anything besides the fact that I'm a bit rude to others. She probably would criticise me if she could though. She was very critical when I was younger.

I remember having a spelling test and writing the words in the wrong order so the Teacher gave me a 0 and she was having a mental breakdown and pulling on her hair when I told her. I thought something else was bothering her but she seemed quite joyful to me when she came to pick me up. Her main issue was that she is very dramatic

Yeah she is very dramatic here as well. It might be having high expectations and expecting your children to be successful in everything as soon as they fail in one thing and later age they dont hit milestones their illusions break down. The irony is my situation and my sisters situation is very good.

Even I got married, started prayermaxxing and became a mummy's boy she will find something else to criticise.

 

[Notorious_1676]

Yeah she is very dramatic here as well. It might be having hugh expectations and expecting your children to be successful in everything as soon as they fail in one thing their illusions break down. The irony is my situation and my sisters situation is very good.

Even I got married, started prayermaxxing and became a mummy's boy she will find something else to criticise.

Unless your Dad can beat you up, you should talk back and insult her. I was on vacation with one of my cousins one time and when he finally talked back and mentioned his Mum's divorce she had a whole mental breakdown about it and they got in a huge argument but from what he said is that she toned it down a bit after that because her feelings were hurt and she was probably scared that he'd bring up her divorce again.

Your Mum is still a Woman, if you mention her life, friends or whatever it is that yiu can insult her with you'll get her off your back