My take on why hypergamy is at a all time high.

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Heres a chart from 2015 showing the changes of dating patterns from 1955 to the current year 2015. that is a 60 year difference. As you can see on top there are the interesting and good looking and on the bottom theres the vast majority of this forum. the lower ends and the regular dudes. what I've noticed is that as celebrities grew and social media and as we became very focused on the lifes of others dating preferences have changed. I wouldn't say celebrities back then where ugly but I would say that they weren't as attractive as celebrities now. Most celebrities now become celebrities because of their looks and this is a growing majority of most people because the celebrities we see are actors and actresses or influencers. and what do celebrities have? they have money. I believe this has wired the brain of the human race into thinking that the hotter the person is the more money they have or at least in a sense.


one of my female friends is dating a guy whos 6'3 and fairly good looking not crazy but she's 5'4 and I wouldn't say she's ugly but she's a regular person. I asked her why she wants to date a man on such a higher scale than her and she said it makes her feel like she's dating a celebrity because of how handsome he is. she then compared him to a celebrity and thats when it clicked. by dating hotter men these women r living out their wet dreams of dating their celebrity crush.

As more and more women advocate for moving up and dating men better than themselves this type of thing is pushed down the throats of a younger generation and they begin taking after their favorite women influencers.

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This has caused tinder to be a shithole.
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In times like these men are desperate to find a woman but it has become increasignly harder to because now they want millionare chads but who can blame them.
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On the left is the average user on org (I'm gonna use a european cs thats the easiest avg 19 year old morph I could find :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:) and on the right is what I asked 14 women and my family a who they'd rather date between (Chico, Sean O, Jordan, Tom Brady, Michael B jordan, Simon Nessman and the average person.) 9/14 of them said they liked Simon because he has soft feautures rather than sean o and jordan but he had a sharper edge than Chico (Don't get me started on the normie talk) but anyways hes our top dude. (they were all women who voted no men.)

If we look at Simon Nessman compared to the average 19 year old on org what do we see? we see he terra's us to death. but yet they'd rather choose this supermodel over a regular dude. this shows that mentally women will always strive for better no matter if they're able to have their looksmatch.

Hypergamy has always exsisted obviously since women could choose who they wanted to marry but as social media came around it began to enable it even more.
We are not the problem social media is.
Morgan out. :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek: (Sorry if this was really badly written I'm on a plane flight coming home from vacation)

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Heres a chart from 2015 showing the changes of dating patterns from 1955 to the current year 2015. that is a 60 year difference. As you can see on top there are the interesting and good looking and on the bottom theres the vast majority of this forum. the lower ends and the regular dudes. what I've noticed is that as celebrities grew and social media and as we became very focused on the lifes of others dating preferences have changed. I wouldn't say celebrities back then where ugly but I would say that they weren't as attractive as celebrities now. Most celebrities now become celebrities because of their looks and this is a growing majority of most people because the celebrities we see are actors and actresses or influencers. and what do celebrities have? they have money. I believe this has wired the brain of the human race into thinking that the hotter the person is the more money they have or at least in a sense.


one of my female friends is dating a guy whos 6'3 and fairly good looking not crazy but she's 5'4 and I wouldn't say she's ugly but she's a regular person. I asked her why she wants to date a man on such a higher scale than her and she said it makes her feel like she's dating a celebrity because of how handsome he is. she then compared him to a celebrity and thats when it clicked. by dating hotter men these women r living out their wet dreams of dating their celebrity crush.

As more and more women advocate for moving up and dating men better than themselves this type of thing is pushed down the throats of a younger generation and they begin taking after their favorite women influencers.

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This has caused tinder to be a shithole.
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In times like these men are desperate to find a woman but it has become increasignly harder to because now they want millionare chads but who can blame them.
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On the left is the average user on org (I'm gonna use a european cs thats the easiest avg 19 year old morph I could find :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:) and on the right is what I asked 14 women and my family a who they'd rather date between (Chico, Sean O, Jordan, Tom Brady, Michael B jordan, Simon Nessman and the average person.) 9/14 of them said they liked Simon because he has soft feautures rather than sean o and jordan but he had a sharper edge than Chico (Don't get me started on the normie talk) but anyways hes our top dude. (they were all women who voted no men.)

If we look at Simon Nessman compared to the average 19 year old on org what do we see? we see he terra's us to death. but yet they'd rather choose this supermodel over a regular dude. this shows that mentally women will always strive for better no matter if they're able to have their looksmatch.

Hypergamy has always exsisted obviously since women could choose who they wanted to marry but as social media came around it began to enable it even more.
We are not the problem social media is.
Morgan out. :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek: (Sorry if this was really badly written I'm on a plane flight coming home from vacation)

Tags: @Short @Nootropicloverr @erome @IBlameManlet @Fynn @Tesarossa @Scarlet
Honorary tag: @mohito 😢
Couldn’t agree more
I love this take
It’s always been like a thought but recently social media is upping the standard and making Ltbs think they deserve someone 100x more attractive
Well done @Morgan
 
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muh hypergamy
 
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People I didnt wanna bother but now I wanna tag them 😢:
@buccalfatremoval @pleasevanity @Lemic @RandomAutist @Stalker
 
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Skimmed through, you didn’t disprove anything and kinda proved it’s “at an all time high”
 
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If hypergamy is so "out of control" then why do we not see it often in real life?​


Landwhale is almost with another overweight/obese man (85% of the time) or some low income black/hispanic/non-European immigrant guy(10% of the time)

Average looking women- are usually with average looking men. This is where you could argue hypergamy , as there are some average looking foids with Chads though, but its not the norm, esp for marriage.

Gym/frat/handsome/high value/Chad men- usually with an attractive (typically blonde) fit, usually white woman. Some ethnic fit gym guys are with other fit latina, Asian or black women.

I mean I don't walk into a walmart/fast food joint/government office and see filthy landwhales with handsome men;I mean usually the couples I see at a fast food joint or walmart are 2 fat people. Nor do I walk into a college gym and see fit men with some dawrf or an obese freak. :unsure:
 
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Skimmed through, you didn’t disprove anything and kinda proved it’s “at an all time high”
It wasn't to prove I was js saying why I believe its at a all time high
 
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If hypergamy is so "out of control" then why do we not see it often in real life?​


Landwhale is almost with another overweight/obese man (85% of the time) or some low income black/hispanic/non-European immigrant guy(10% of the time)

Average looking women- are usually with average looking men. This is where you could argue hypergamy , as there are some average looking foids with Chads though, but its not the norm, esp for marriage.

Gym/frat/handsome/high value/Chad men- usually with an attractive (typically blonde) fit, usually white woman. Some ethnic fit gym guys are with other fit latina, Asian or black women.

I mean I don't walk into a walmart/fast food joint/government office and see filthy landwhales with handsome men;I mean usually the couples I see at a fast food joint or walmart are 2 fat people. Nor do I walk into a college gym and see fit men with some dawrf or an obese freak. :unsure:
trust me I've seen it alot IRL and in school. its absolutely horrible but idk abt the rest of u guys
 
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It wasn't to prove I was js saying why I believe its at a all time high
Ahhh, yeah I misread the title lol (dyslexic unironically)

Yea good thread then
 
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Heres a chart from 2015 showing the changes of dating patterns from 1955 to the current year 2015. that is a 60 year difference. As you can see on top there are the interesting and good looking and on the bottom theres the vast majority of this forum. the lower ends and the regular dudes. what I've noticed is that as celebrities grew and social media and as we became very focused on the lifes of others dating preferences have changed. I wouldn't say celebrities back then where ugly but I would say that they weren't as attractive as celebrities now. Most celebrities now become celebrities because of their looks and this is a growing majority of most people because the celebrities we see are actors and actresses or influencers. and what do celebrities have? they have money. I believe this has wired the brain of the human race into thinking that the hotter the person is the more money they have or at least in a sense.


one of my female friends is dating a guy whos 6'3 and fairly good looking not crazy but she's 5'4 and I wouldn't say she's ugly but she's a regular person. I asked her why she wants to date a man on such a higher scale than her and she said it makes her feel like she's dating a celebrity because of how handsome he is. she then compared him to a celebrity and thats when it clicked. by dating hotter men these women r living out their wet dreams of dating their celebrity crush.

As more and more women advocate for moving up and dating men better than themselves this type of thing is pushed down the throats of a younger generation and they begin taking after their favorite women influencers.

View attachment 5476942
This has caused tinder to be a shithole.
View attachment 5476949
In times like these men are desperate to find a woman but it has become increasignly harder to because now they want millionare chads but who can blame them.
View attachment 5476958View attachment 5476969
On the left is the average user on org (I'm gonna use a european cs thats the easiest avg 19 year old morph I could find :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:) and on the right is what I asked 14 women and my family a who they'd rather date between (Chico, Sean O, Jordan, Tom Brady, Michael B jordan, Simon Nessman and the average person.) 9/14 of them said they liked Simon because he has soft feautures rather than sean o and jordan but he had a sharper edge than Chico (Don't get me started on the normie talk) but anyways hes our top dude. (they were all women who voted no men.)

If we look at Simon Nessman compared to the average 19 year old on org what do we see? we see he terra's us to death. but yet they'd rather choose this supermodel over a regular dude. this shows that mentally women will always strive for better no matter if they're able to have their looksmatch.

Hypergamy has always exsisted obviously since women could choose who they wanted to marry but as social media came around it began to enable it even more.
We are not the problem social media is.
Morgan out. :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek: (Sorry if this was really badly written I'm on a plane flight coming home from vacation)

Tags: @Short @Nootropicloverr @erome @IBlameManlet @Fynn @Tesarossa @Scarlet
Honorary tag: @mohito 😢
only the first five tags actually get tagged keep that in mind

good thread👍
 
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View attachment 5476923
Heres a chart from 2015 showing the changes of dating patterns from 1955 to the current year 2015. that is a 60 year difference. As you can see on top there are the interesting and good looking and on the bottom theres the vast majority of this forum. the lower ends and the regular dudes. what I've noticed is that as celebrities grew and social media and as we became very focused on the lifes of others dating preferences have changed. I wouldn't say celebrities back then where ugly but I would say that they weren't as attractive as celebrities now. Most celebrities now become celebrities because of their looks and this is a growing majority of most people because the celebrities we see are actors and actresses or influencers. and what do celebrities have? they have money. I believe this has wired the brain of the human race into thinking that the hotter the person is the more money they have or at least in a sense.


one of my female friends is dating a guy whos 6'3 and fairly good looking not crazy but she's 5'4 and I wouldn't say she's ugly but she's a regular person. I asked her why she wants to date a man on such a higher scale than her and she said it makes her feel like she's dating a celebrity because of how handsome he is. she then compared him to a celebrity and thats when it clicked. by dating hotter men these women r living out their wet dreams of dating their celebrity crush.

As more and more women advocate for moving up and dating men better than themselves this type of thing is pushed down the throats of a younger generation and they begin taking after their favorite women influencers.

View attachment 5476942
This has caused tinder to be a shithole.
View attachment 5476949
In times like these men are desperate to find a woman but it has become increasignly harder to because now they want millionare chads but who can blame them.
View attachment 5476958View attachment 5476969
On the left is the average user on org (I'm gonna use a european cs thats the easiest avg 19 year old morph I could find :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:) and on the right is what I asked 14 women and my family a who they'd rather date between (Chico, Sean O, Jordan, Tom Brady, Michael B jordan, Simon Nessman and the average person.) 9/14 of them said they liked Simon because he has soft feautures rather than sean o and jordan but he had a sharper edge than Chico (Don't get me started on the normie talk) but anyways hes our top dude. (they were all women who voted no men.)

If we look at Simon Nessman compared to the average 19 year old on org what do we see? we see he terra's us to death. but yet they'd rather choose this supermodel over a regular dude. this shows that mentally women will always strive for better no matter if they're able to have their looksmatch.

Hypergamy has always exsisted obviously since women could choose who they wanted to marry but as social media came around it began to enable it even more.
We are not the problem social media is.
Morgan out. :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek::feelskek: (Sorry if this was really badly written I'm on a plane flight coming home from vacation)

Tags: @Short @Nootropicloverr @erome @IBlameManlet @Fynn @Tesarossa @Scarlet
Honorary tag: @mohito 😢
Bro caught me right before bedtime. Will read tomorrow goodnight man rest well. 😄
 
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cheers morgan
 
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Heres a chart from 2015 showing the changes of dating patterns from 1955 to the current year 2015. that is a 60 year difference.​
Dnr but yhea social media def the cause, and also ngl males also got hypergamous towards women but not on such extreme measures like hoes have
 
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No tdlr or summary
 
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Dnr but yhea social media def the cause, and also ngl males also got hypergamous towards women but not on such extreme measures like hoes have
Yes this is true I forgot to mention this :forcedsmile:
 
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I asked 14 women and my family a who they'd rather date between (Chico, Sean O, Jordan, Tom Brady, Michael B jordan, Simon Nessman and the average person.) 9/14 of them said they liked Simon
@Resonance
foids like nessman over o pry

btw ask about vito pls
 
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@Resonance
foids like nessman over o pry

btw ask about vito pls
Will do. I'll ask my mom and friends to see what they think about him from a normies pov
 
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