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lilhorizontal32
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some people enjoy bullying for the sake of it, and if not, may just use it as a means to increase their own social status.
however they will only try to do so to people that they do not want to associate with in the first place.
by this I mean people who if they pissed off or got on bad terms with they wouldn't care. this is why popular, charismatic people don't get bullied - no one wants to risk making an off-handed joke at someone that they want to be friends with (to avoid losing a potential friendship), or someone who has high social status, because being on their good side could have benefits down the track
so this is the key. do whatever you can to become someone people want to be friends with, or increase your social status to a point where even if someone doesn't want to be friends with you, they won't dare make a joke/off-handed comment to you so that they don't potentially get on your bad side, and miss out on the potential benefits of being on good terms with you.
thoughts?
however they will only try to do so to people that they do not want to associate with in the first place.
by this I mean people who if they pissed off or got on bad terms with they wouldn't care. this is why popular, charismatic people don't get bullied - no one wants to risk making an off-handed joke at someone that they want to be friends with (to avoid losing a potential friendship), or someone who has high social status, because being on their good side could have benefits down the track
so this is the key. do whatever you can to become someone people want to be friends with, or increase your social status to a point where even if someone doesn't want to be friends with you, they won't dare make a joke/off-handed comment to you so that they don't potentially get on your bad side, and miss out on the potential benefits of being on good terms with you.
thoughts?