ND with confidence mogs NT with social anxiety looks being equal

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ND with confidence mogs NT with social anxiety looks being equal
Think about the pure-blood ND guy. He’s obsessed with trains, ratios, or some fucking weird shit. He has zero filter and genuinely doesn’t care about social hierarchy. Because he doesn’t give a fuck, rejection doesn't touch him. That "autistic" confidence is ironically magnetic women pick up on the fact that he isn't seeking their validation.

Compare that to the "Normal" (NT) kid with social anxiety. That was me. I had normal interests, I was mid-tier popularity, and I fit in fine with the guys. But the moment I had to talk to a girl? Total system failure. Sweating, mumbling, and even when I calmed down, I was boring because I was too scared to say anything "wrong." I was invisible.

There’s this ND guy I know legitimately a sped. I told him about the forums once, and the fucking retard started using the lingo in real life. He’d walk up to girls and say, "You have a negative canthal tilt, it's over," right to their faces.

Obviously, 90% of them think he's a freak and reject him. But the other 10%? They’re giggling. They’re engaged. They’re noticing him. Even being "the weird guy" is a superior rank to being the invisible, anxious "normal" guy who’s too afraid to even make eye contact.

If you aren't HMTN+, social anxiety is a death sentence. Being ND is just a different playstyle. The truth? 90% of this sub is just socially anxious. Less than 10% are actually neurodivergent. Stop blaming your brain chemistry for your lack of balls. It’s not that you’re "different" it’s that you’re scared.

Obviously this only applies if your in the same tier If it was htn with social anxiety vs mtn nd confident the htn will win she will think oh he's so quite he must edgy pretty boy but if were just counting slays mtn would win his quality of girls would be lower tho

But the true winner is MTN NT and confidence maxxed
 
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People on here treat being ND like its cancer

90% of people who say they are ND don't have an actual diagnosis.

Their brains are just scarred from poor social interactions because they are/were ugly.
 
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People on here treat being ND like its cancer

90% of people who say they are ND don't have an actual diagnosis.

Their brains are just scarred from poor social interactions because they are/were ugly.
Thats what im saying they think ND means having social anxiety Social anxiety is an actual death sentence i would have it top 2 pussy repellent 1. Sub 5 2. Social Anxiety
 
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Thats what im saying they think ND means having social anxiety Social anxiety is an actual death sentence i would have it top 2 pussy repellent 1. Sub 5 2. Social Anxiety
They just have social anxiety because people treat them poorly because they are ugly.

Thats the real blackpill
 
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nd with confidence

oxymoron you fucking oxy moron
 
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nd with confidence

oxymoron you fucking oxy moron
Holy iqlet your telling me you actually believe that being autistic means you have to have social anxiety
 
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They just have social anxiety because people treat them poorly because they are ugly.

Thats the real blackpill
Obviously everything is the blackpill, i merely responding to people that say i cant slay because ND :lul: No you cant slay most likely because of your looks or you have extreme social anxiety
It really pisses me off people conflating the two
 
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Obviously everything is the blackpill, i merely responding to people that say i cant slay because ND :lul: No you cant slay most likely because of your looks or you have extreme social anxiety
It really pisses me off people conflating the two
People aren't conflating they are coping.

"its because I'm ND" is easier to accept than "its because I'm even uglier than I thought" :lul:
 
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People aren't conflating they are coping.

"its because I'm ND" is easier to accept than "its because I'm even uglier than I thought" :lul:
While I do agree, I think you are underrating how much social anxiety holds people back. While this is anecdotal and you’re free to believe me or not my friends and I are MTNs and some LTNs, yet we constantly slay when we go to bars and clubs. I even pull the rare HTB, though most of my slays are MTBs tho.

Volume game + Confidence is King. If you’re an MTN, obviously looksmaxxing will be the highest ROI, but while you’re looksmaxxing, you might as well improve your social skills and bed-max. :blackpill::redpill:

And my rejection rate 80 to 90% :lul: but it really doesn't matter to me if i get some poontang
 
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While I do agree, I think you are underrating how much social anxiety holds people back. While this is anecdotal and you’re free to believe me or not my friends and I are MTNs and some LTNs, yet we constantly slay when we go to bars and clubs. I even pull the rare HTB, though most of my slays are MTBs tho.

Volume game + Confidence is King. If you’re an MTN, obviously looksmaxxing will be the highest ROI, but while you’re looksmaxxing, you might as well improve your social skills and bed-max. :blackpill::redpill:
No I agree with you.

Looks are the most important thing but they are not the only thing.

Being charismatic and good at sex goes is a major boon.
 
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Implying we all don’t have both ND and social anxiety on here.

The mistreatment you’ll get from being confident ND with bad face card will turn you socially anxious eventually anyway.
 
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Holy iqlet your telling me you actually believe that being autistic means you have to have social anxiety
confidence and social anxiety two diff things brotherman

autistic confidence vs nt confidence also very different in effectiveness

just the truth mate
 
ND with confidence mogs NT with social anxiety looks being equal
Think about the pure-blood ND guy. He’s obsessed with trains, ratios, or some fucking weird shit. He has zero filter and genuinely doesn’t care about social hierarchy. Because he doesn’t give a fuck, rejection doesn't touch him. That "autistic" confidence is ironically magnetic women pick up on the fact that he isn't seeking their validation.

Compare that to the "Normal" (NT) kid with social anxiety. That was me. I had normal interests, I was mid-tier popularity, and I fit in fine with the guys. But the moment I had to talk to a girl? Total system failure. Sweating, mumbling, and even when I calmed down, I was boring because I was too scared to say anything "wrong." I was invisible.

There’s this ND guy I know legitimately a sped. I told him about the forums once, and the fucking retard started using the lingo in real life. He’d walk up to girls and say, "You have a negative canthal tilt, it's over," right to their faces.

Obviously, 90% of them think he's a freak and reject him. But the other 10%? They’re giggling. They’re engaged. They’re noticing him. Even being "the weird guy" is a superior rank to being the invisible, anxious "normal" guy who’s too afraid to even make eye contact.

If you aren't HMTN+, social anxiety is a death sentence. Being ND is just a different playstyle. The truth? 90% of this sub is just socially anxious. Less than 10% are actually neurodivergent. Stop blaming your brain chemistry for your lack of balls. It’s not that you’re "different" it’s that you’re scared.

Obviously this only applies if your in the same tier If it was htn with social anxiety vs mtn nd confident the htn will win she will think oh he's so quite he must edgy pretty boy but if were just counting slays mtn would win his quality of girls would be lower tho

But the true winner is MTN NT and confidence maxxed
Social anxiety is better

Foids can just take initiative and ‘open up’ the male to reveal an NTmaxxed HTN. Whereas loud non-NTs are just an annoying presence that follows you around wherever you go. Ugh.
 
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OF course. low inhib is law
 
People aren't conflating they are coping.

"its because I'm ND" is easier to accept than "its because I'm even uglier than I thought" :lul:
Just because you are ugly doesn’t mean you can’t be autistic either
 
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You can't afford to be rejection sensitive as a sub 8 man. The moment you try to play life like a woman and just only have positive reinforcement from everyone it's game over.

If you're born in a lower position you have to fight for scraps and whatever you can get.
 
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You can't afford to be rejection sensitive as a sub 8 man. The moment you try to play life like a woman and just only have positive reinforcement from everyone it's game over.
When you put it that way it’s legit
 


NT is pure cope. Always remember this when women tell you to work on yourself etc etc.
 
Agreed. Too bad im the NT with social anxiety :lul:
 
ND with confidence mogs NT with social anxiety looks being equal
Think about the pure-blood ND guy. He’s obsessed with trains, ratios, or some fucking weird shit. He has zero filter and genuinely doesn’t care about social hierarchy. Because he doesn’t give a fuck, rejection doesn't touch him. That "autistic" confidence is ironically magnetic women pick up on the fact that he isn't seeking their validation.

Compare that to the "Normal" (NT) kid with social anxiety. That was me. I had normal interests, I was mid-tier popularity, and I fit in fine with the guys. But the moment I had to talk to a girl? Total system failure. Sweating, mumbling, and even when I calmed down, I was boring because I was too scared to say anything "wrong." I was invisible.

There’s this ND guy I know legitimately a sped. I told him about the forums once, and the fucking retard started using the lingo in real life. He’d walk up to girls and say, "You have a negative canthal tilt, it's over," right to their faces.

Obviously, 90% of them think he's a freak and reject him. But the other 10%? They’re giggling. They’re engaged. They’re noticing him. Even being "the weird guy" is a superior rank to being the invisible, anxious "normal" guy who’s too afraid to even make eye contact.

If you aren't HMTN+, social anxiety is a death sentence. Being ND is just a different playstyle. The truth? 90% of this sub is just socially anxious. Less than 10% are actually neurodivergent. Stop blaming your brain chemistry for your lack of balls. It’s not that you’re "different" it’s that you’re scared.

Obviously this only applies if your in the same tier If it was htn with social anxiety vs mtn nd confident the htn will win she will think oh he's so quite he must edgy pretty boy but if were just counting slays mtn would win his quality of girls would be lower tho

But the true winner is MTN NT and confidence maxxed

Barely

Both are shit

Shy > ND for most men. Shy is passable as you're still genetically normal. BP is about generics which includes looks, not just looks.

That guy is likely not even autistic. Having weird interests or saying strange lingo doesn't matter.

It's about eye contact, voice intonation, body language, timing of when you speak etc.

Genuine autistic even with good looks won't cut it almost always except in nightclubs.

Also that guy I'm assuming is in school? They already know him, know he's not a serial killer etc

Autistic stranger approaching women is never gonna work unless you're Chad lite. Their guard is up as you're a stranger and then you're weird.

The Blackpill barely exists in school ROFL. Just be first and confidence unironically matter more than looks in this artificial environment that will never exist past 18

Also varies by location. USA NT matters less. UK has rigid social circles. Any weirdness/aspieness = over
 
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