lonelynigga
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ND with confidence mogs NT with social anxiety looks being equal
Think about the pure-blood ND guy. He’s obsessed with trains, ratios, or some fucking weird shit. He has zero filter and genuinely doesn’t care about social hierarchy. Because he doesn’t give a fuck, rejection doesn't touch him. That "autistic" confidence is ironically magnetic women pick up on the fact that he isn't seeking their validation.
Compare that to the "Normal" (NT) kid with social anxiety. That was me. I had normal interests, I was mid-tier popularity, and I fit in fine with the guys. But the moment I had to talk to a girl? Total system failure. Sweating, mumbling, and even when I calmed down, I was boring because I was too scared to say anything "wrong." I was invisible.
There’s this ND guy I know legitimately a sped. I told him about the forums once, and the fucking retard started using the lingo in real life. He’d walk up to girls and say, "You have a negative canthal tilt, it's over," right to their faces.
Obviously, 90% of them think he's a freak and reject him. But the other 10%? They’re giggling. They’re engaged. They’re noticing him. Even being "the weird guy" is a superior rank to being the invisible, anxious "normal" guy who’s too afraid to even make eye contact.
If you aren't HMTN+, social anxiety is a death sentence. Being ND is just a different playstyle. The truth? 90% of this sub is just socially anxious. Less than 10% are actually neurodivergent. Stop blaming your brain chemistry for your lack of balls. It’s not that you’re "different" it’s that you’re scared.
Obviously this only applies if your in the same tier If it was htn with social anxiety vs mtn nd confident the htn will win she will think oh he's so quite he must edgy pretty boy but if were just counting slays mtn would win his quality of girls would be lower tho
But the true winner is MTN NT and confidence maxxed
Think about the pure-blood ND guy. He’s obsessed with trains, ratios, or some fucking weird shit. He has zero filter and genuinely doesn’t care about social hierarchy. Because he doesn’t give a fuck, rejection doesn't touch him. That "autistic" confidence is ironically magnetic women pick up on the fact that he isn't seeking their validation.
Compare that to the "Normal" (NT) kid with social anxiety. That was me. I had normal interests, I was mid-tier popularity, and I fit in fine with the guys. But the moment I had to talk to a girl? Total system failure. Sweating, mumbling, and even when I calmed down, I was boring because I was too scared to say anything "wrong." I was invisible.
There’s this ND guy I know legitimately a sped. I told him about the forums once, and the fucking retard started using the lingo in real life. He’d walk up to girls and say, "You have a negative canthal tilt, it's over," right to their faces.
Obviously, 90% of them think he's a freak and reject him. But the other 10%? They’re giggling. They’re engaged. They’re noticing him. Even being "the weird guy" is a superior rank to being the invisible, anxious "normal" guy who’s too afraid to even make eye contact.
If you aren't HMTN+, social anxiety is a death sentence. Being ND is just a different playstyle. The truth? 90% of this sub is just socially anxious. Less than 10% are actually neurodivergent. Stop blaming your brain chemistry for your lack of balls. It’s not that you’re "different" it’s that you’re scared.
Obviously this only applies if your in the same tier If it was htn with social anxiety vs mtn nd confident the htn will win she will think oh he's so quite he must edgy pretty boy but if were just counting slays mtn would win his quality of girls would be lower tho
But the true winner is MTN NT and confidence maxxed
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No you cant slay most likely because of your looks or you have extreme social anxiety
