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lost_mtn223
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Recently I started hanging out with this Russian girl who moved to the US a few years ago multiple times over the span of the past month. In my opinion, she is better looking than me (HTB) and also doesn't seem to be infatuated with me as much as I'd like. She rarely texts me, only to coordinate or plan our next hangout, which always tends to go well, hence why we still go out.
Although she made it clear in the beginning that she liked me, even admitting to stalking me, having her friends take pictures of me in school, saying hi to me, etc., she now doesn't text me as much as I like. I tried bringing it up by crafting a paragraph asking her if I bother her when I text her, and she simply blew it off with an "oh no, sorry," and proceeded to heart my next message, not really taking it into consideration.
My main concern is that because she isn't infatuated with me as she was before, and I am a pretty average guy, she will eventually just leave me for someone better. Should I continue this relationship?
In most cases, I would have ended things here. However, her obsession with me in the beginning, paired with the fact that she is ideal in virtually every aspect (strict parents, doesn't post or party, doesn't have any guy friends, doesn't go out), has made me hesitant.
I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend or become intimate with her other than simple hugs, and I fear I am wasting my time.
Although she made it clear in the beginning that she liked me, even admitting to stalking me, having her friends take pictures of me in school, saying hi to me, etc., she now doesn't text me as much as I like. I tried bringing it up by crafting a paragraph asking her if I bother her when I text her, and she simply blew it off with an "oh no, sorry," and proceeded to heart my next message, not really taking it into consideration.
My main concern is that because she isn't infatuated with me as she was before, and I am a pretty average guy, she will eventually just leave me for someone better. Should I continue this relationship?
In most cases, I would have ended things here. However, her obsession with me in the beginning, paired with the fact that she is ideal in virtually every aspect (strict parents, doesn't post or party, doesn't have any guy friends, doesn't go out), has made me hesitant.
I haven't asked her to be my girlfriend or become intimate with her other than simple hugs, and I fear I am wasting my time.
