NEED HELP.GIRLFRIEND CHIMPING OUT CUZ I WONT LET HER GO TO A PARTY

[7nclave]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

 

[theonlytallirish]

niggatron……

 

[iabsolvenico]

Asking org for relationship advice

 

[Vannx]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

break up

 

[7nclave]

Asking org for relationship advice

there are some experienced guys on here bro

 

[7nclave]

break up

i’m very much contemplating it

 

[Vannx]

i’m very much contemplating it

do it its just gna get worse from there shes for the strreet

 

[2s2f]

your girlfriend sounds like a bitch

 

[mewzilla]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

if youve set up a clear boundary about parties, and if you've upheld that boundary previously to this, ask to meet up with her

if shes drunk or something then she isnt thinking clearly and theres no reason to do anything drastic, if she isnt drunk and is still insisting on going to the party, remind her of the boundary you guys set up.

if she still goes, blames you for her not going, or worse, goes behind your back, break up.

 

[loneiqlet]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

 

[7nclave]

if youve set up a clear boundary about parties, and if you've upheld that boundary previously to this, ask to meet up with her

if shes drunk or something then she isnt thinking clearly and theres no reason to do anything drastic, if she isnt drunk and is still insisting on going to the party, remind her of the boundary you guys set up.

if she still goes or worse, goes behind her back, break up.

thank you,i been thinking this too if she goes i’m gonna uphold it
she isn’t drunk and ive upheld the boundary but now for her she doesn’t want to so it’s unfair

 

[mewzilla]

thank you,i been thinking this too if she goes i’m gonna uphold it
she isn’t drunk and ive upheld the boundary but now for her she doesn’t want to so it’s unfair

when is the party

if it isnt tomorrow, let her think about it for a day then ask her if she still thinks about going.
this may seem like a stupid thing to break up about, but if she's willing to go against something she's agreed to in a relationship, theres no reason for her not to start breaking other boundaries.

you'll feel like shit after, you'll feel like it was your fault, but give it a week or two and you'll realise it was the right choice. (if you do end up breaking up with her.)

 

[jayk11x3]

Keep getting cucked or end this imaginary "relationship"

 

[Divineincel]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

You have to beat her, it’s just the way it is, I’m just the messenger

 

[7nclave]

You have to beat, it’s just the way it is, I’m just the messenger

beat her?

 

[Joeseminate]

Lowk need to beat her up and dick her down, bitch needs to shut up

 

[miserycel]

break up

she’s sounds like a dumb non-sentient whore

 

[7nclave]

(if you do end up breaking up with her.)

i will,i’m ready for a new chapter in my life anyways
if she chooses to go it shows how much she values our relationship anyways

 

[Divineincel]

beat her?

Beat her, I mean she started the fight, you are just defending yourself

 

[7nclave]

Lowk need to beat her up and dick her down, bitch needs to shut up

i already have,and she did shut up.
until her idiot friend messaged her again crying when she said she’s not going

 

[7nclave]

Beat her, I mean she started the fight, you are just defending yourself

i have,should i make a thread on when i did?
it was crazy

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

A party should never be this big of a deal, I'd be worried with this behavior and start looking for a new girl

If this happens year one, she will act up worse later

 

[7nclave]

A party should never be this big of a deal, I'd be worried with this behavior and start looking for a new girl

If this happens year one, she will act up worse later

this isn’t even year one,we been on and off a lot for 4 years
as i said she previously never let me go to a party so this is a double standard which i will adress
she really wants to go but doesn’t want to lose me so i told her to make her decision and i was sticking firm to it

 

[Divineincel]

i have,should i make a thread on when i did?
it was crazy

Sure, make a thread on it

 

[7nclave]

update:she’s been airing me since
she went out and said she was with her sister
location off

 

[shngstaaaa107]

update:she’s been airing me since
she went out and said she was with her sister
location off

I mean dude if shes not abiding by her boundaries you two are not equals in this relationship

It also seems like A. simply communicating with her is a hassle and B. this party is way too much of a "big deal" for year 1

 

[bogaboga]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

Thats deadass a strong red flag If I were in your place I'd fuck her one last time and them brake up

 

[7nclave]

I mean dude if shes not abiding by her boundaries you two are not equals in this relationship

It also seems like A. simply communicating with her is a hassle and B. this party is way too much of a "big deal" for year 1

i don’t know if she is
she does everything i say
i mean everything
and also it’s been 4 years of on and off

she’s airing me and location off i’m gonna crash out on her

 

[foreverstuckinLTN]

before i wanted to go to a party and she said absolutely not so i said cool
now she’s invited to one i said no and she got really upset and was hitting me and everything

now she’s been acting weird with me the past few days i told her it’s her choice and that if she wants to go then ill break up so for the past few days she’s been really annoyed with me

This is the boundary we set and all of a sudden when she wants to go to a party it’s ok,
she’s bisexual and the party will have gay girls and druggie guys
- a paragraph she sent today after 4 days of acting weird

Bruh I told X i couldn’t go to the party and she’s rlly sad and I feel so horrible cause she asked my parents if I can go too and they said yeah but then i randomly switched up saying I’m not allowed too like she was sending outfit ideas and mums I feel like such a bad friend oh my god but I don’t want you to break up with me at all and i want us to last i really want us to work out I don’t know what to do obviously u want me to chose u ur my bf but X my best friend

TLDR:Girlfriend upset she can’t go to a party when she doesn’t even allow me.Been acting weird past few days and idk what to do i told her u can go but ill just breakup

What the actual fuck dude, break up she is a bitch

 

[Bipolar2Cel]

Go to the party with her maybe? But yeah lmfao if she is even hitting you it is kind of over dude. She is probably already contemplating hoping to see if she can find another guy she thinks is better or more fun and/or getting drunk and doing drugs and shit. Alternatively let her go and hope she doesn't cheat or break up. But honestly dude, these days? You can't really prevent women from doing this and partying, travelling etc and still be with them. Yes we all know what likely happens during these events very often but you can't really control/prevent it kind of honestly lol. I mean yah seems like she is gonna go there regardless. Tough situation to be in.

 

[7nclave]

Go to the party with her maybe? But yeah lmfao if she is even hitting you it is kind of over dude. She is probably already contemplating hoping to see if she can find another guy she thinks is better or more fun and/or getting drunk and doing drugs and shit. Alternatively let her go and hope she doesn't cheat or break up. But honestly dude, these days? You can't really prevent women from doing this and partying, travelling etc and still be with them. Yes we all know what likely happens during these events very often but you can't really control/prevent it kind of honestly lol. I mean yah seems like she is gonna go there regardless. Tough situation to be in.

you think she’d let me go with her
her lesbian gbsf hates me
i’m only controlling and preventing her from going cuz it’s the same shit she does to me so how’s it fair?
anyways she likes when i’m controlling but i told her im not gonna do that when she picks and chooses when she likes me to be.
you’re right man.she probably really wants to go to see if she can get someone more fun
but she’s devoted her life to me when i try break up with her previously she tries killing herself

 

[Bipolar2Cel]

you think she’d let me go with her
her lesbian gbsf hates me
i’m only controlling and preventing her from going cuz it’s the same shit she does to me so how’s it fair?
anyways she likes when i’m controlling but i told her im not gonna do that when she picks and chooses when she likes me to be.
you’re right man.she probably really wants to go to see if she can get someone more fun
but she’s devoted her life to me when i try break up with her previously she tries killing herself

Damn that is crazy. Oh right, you can't go to parties either as part of an agreement, yet she thinks she can?? Yeah dude then she freaking sucks. Man her threatening suicide is messed up too especially when she treats you bad like this. Your life is worth more than hers. She seems to value you less than her own life in some ways.

 

[7nclave]

Damn that is crazy. Oh right, you can't go to parties either as part of an agreement, yet she thinks she can?? Yeah dude then she freaking sucks. Man her threatening suicide is messed up too especially when she treats you bad like this. Your life is worth more than hers. She seems to value you less than her own life in some ways.

yeah she didn’t let me and she thinks i should let her
she doesn’t threat suicide she genuinely tries.
god forbid she’s in my vicinity and i tell her ill break up with her
she goes ape shit on me

 

[vexd]

break up with her seems pretty obvious
she wants ur attention by not letting u go to parties and lose her
but wants to get cracked in the parties by frat chads bbut keep you, if u dont then its GGs

 

[FatCatLoafing]

i have,should i make a thread on when i did?
it was crazy

Yes, please do I have to hear this shit

 

[vexd]

i have,should i make a thread on when i did?
it was crazy

tag me pls bro

 

[vexd]

A party should never be this big of a deal, I'd be worried with this behavior and start looking for a new girl

If this happens year one, she will act up worse later

exactly its suspicious she is just keeping him around for the attention and wanting to get cracked by chads at the party, very manipulative

 

[Jason5000]

leave her. she will cause you more pain in the future

 

[Tsar_MMX11]

there are some experienced guys on here bro

fuck her last time and dump her

 

[optimisticzoomer]

Why do you have a gf?

 

[Bipolar2Cel]

yeah she didn’t let me and she thinks i should let her
she doesn’t threat suicide she genuinely tries.
god forbid she’s in my vicinity and i tell her ill break up with her
she goes ape shit on me

Be careful she doesn't stab you if she is like that lol... seriously, she may very well be that type of girl.

 

[optimisticzoomer]

there are some experienced guys on here bro

 

[7nclave]

Why do you have a gf?

i don’t know man i don’t know
i have nothing left in my life
atleast it keeps me busy

Be careful she doesn't stab you if she is like that lol... seriously, she may very well be that type of girl.

yeah read my recent thread she is like that
i’m not scared though

 

[optimisticzoomer]

i don’t know man i don’t know
i have nothing left in my life
atleast it keeps me busy

You have everything if you’re healthy

 

[7nclave]

You have everything if you’re healthy

what do you define as healthy?

 

[optimisticzoomer]

what do you define as healthy?

Free of pain or sickness or other symptoms that reduce your quality of life

 

[Bipolar2Cel]

Be careful she doesn't stab you if she is like that lol... seriously, she may very well be that type of girl.

Oh damn didn't see she even attempted suicide. Well honestly fuck her man, she seems to still think she is worth way more than you on some level anyway and doesn't respect you whatsoever, like you are some slave. @7nclave . If she suicides it is only funny anyway at this point.

 

[LeanByDecemer]

what is the point of a relationship when you can't even control your own bitch

Abuse and leave her immediately.