Never been anyone’s first choice

[SideProfiler]

Im a pretty social person, been pretty happy with my life until recently when I fought with one of my friends, he was like my best friend so naturally we had lots of circles colliding,
Ever since I cut him off, not a single person reached out to me, like we do text, some asked if something’s off but I’m being ignored a lot, no one asks me if I wanna hang out with them anymore. We used to sit together (the whole friend group) now I’m coping sitting with some retard

The guy I fought with apologized to me yesterday but I’m not sure I should forgive him, and I’m almost like I got no friends rn all I do is either study or watch reels.

Is there some magical way I can become a friend group first option, or at least one friend?

 

[zygosmasher]

Unless you’re a high status htn+ or get used by your friend group for money/status etc. You will never be the first option

 

[copingmaxnt]

Im a pretty social person, been pretty happy with my life until recently when I fought with one of my friends, he was like my best friend so naturally we had lots of circles colliding,
Ever since I cut him off, not a single person reached out to me, like we do text, some asked if something’s off but I’m being ignored a lot, no one asks me if I wanna hang out with them anymore. We used to sit together (the whole friend group) now I’m coping sitting with some retard

The guy I fought with apologized to me yesterday but I’m not sure I should forgive him, and I’m almost like I got no friends rn all I do is either study or watch reels.

Is there some magical way I can become a friend group first option, or at least one friend?

The answer is right there bro forgive him

 

[SideProfiler]

Unless you’re a high status htn+ or get used by your friend group for money/status etc. You will never be the first option

It’s true that the best looking guy in the friend group is the first option, and there’s like some jesters. But I can’t be sure it’s correlated lol

 

[trump]

me neither

 

[SideProfiler]

The answer is right there bro forgive him

I don’t want to be a push over, wouldn’t that just let him do wtv

 

[SideProfiler]

me neither

Ur trump that’s why

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

Those arent your friends, the guy you fought with is your friend and the others are his friends

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

Ur trump that’s why

Son

 

[trump]

Ur trump that’s why

wdym

 

[SideProfiler]

Those arent your friends, the guy you fought with is your friend and the others are his friend

So what should I do, cut them off and find new friends?
It’s hard to when it’s the middle of school

 

[MouthBreathingElite]

So what should I do, cut them off and find new friends?
It’s hard to when it’s the middle of school

"Find new friends" jfl, that would be ideal but unlikely to happen

 

[SideProfiler]

"Find new friends" jfl, that would be ideal but unlikely to happen

True shi

 

[diddeh]

So what should I do, cut them off and find new friends?
It’s hard to when it’s the middle of school

finding new friends will be hard especially at school

do you play any sports? if so you can find people there or people with the same general interests

 

[SideProfiler]

finding new friends will be hard especially at school

do you play any sports? if so you can find people there or people with the same general interests

I did Make lots of friends in the gym, in some clubs and shi but I don’t think I can be as close to someone to when he’s ur classmate or school friend, especially this and probably the next year where it’s almost only studying

 

[diddeh]

I did Make lots of friends in the gym, in some clubs and shi but I don’t think I can be as close to someone to when he’s ur classmate or school friend, especially this and probably the next year where it’s almost only studying

Yeah I hear u it might be over

 

[SideProfiler]

Yeah I hear u it might be over

should be, guess girls da only hope

 

[diddeh]

should be, guess girls da only hope

Still, finding people to meet in the gym or maybe at a job can still turn out to be great friends tho

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

You need a good friendship. Which is unironically obtained in part by being true to yourself.

Youll never be the first choice by just fitting in